Posted by
edeneyre
on 2008-03-13 18:11:35 |
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I apologize for misunderstanding the situation. I will have you know that I am happily married to my first and only husband, not bitter and abandoned as you thought.
You have a lot of anger towards your husband's ex. Don't let it break up your current marriage!
Apologies,
-Eden |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-03-13 19:39:07 |
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Hi again,
Sometimes people don't read the entire post or they just reply based on their mood. Mostly people on here are great.
It's a good thing that Eden above let you know she didn't mean any offense.
Because although some are antagonistic here, the majority are not.
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Posted by
mizzprincess24
on 2008-03-13 19:48:40 |
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I read your last post and I just wanted to tell you that I understand about the ex thing and child support. MY husband pays his ex wife like $300+ a month and she won't even let him see his kids or talk to them on the phone. Now that he is out of a job, she still expects to get that money and she has a job. I think your husband should be able to see his kids more then he is seeing them though.
He should also be helping you pay some of the bills, you both work, and I think that both partners should provide. You need to have a talk with him and set up some kind of plan on who pays what, it would much better that way. |
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Posted by
sexykellitrent
on 2008-03-13 20:05:45 |
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| Thank you Easy to Say. She is entitled to her opinion. I got defensive because she said I stole my husband. I was offended because I would never knowingly interfere in a relationship like that. |
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Posted by
sexykellitrent
on 2008-03-13 20:10:04 |
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MizzPrincess, this sounds something like my husband's ex. When the kids visit for a month and she doesn't have them, she still expects the support, even though she doesn't have the kids to support. If he is out of a job, she still wants support even though she was awarded the support based on her not having a job at the time. She has used the kids aganist him too. At one point, she refused to send their son back and made all kinds of excuses for it.
We had things set up fine. Normally, I would go to his personal account and take what I needed for bills and leave him spending money. Lately he has gotten to the point where he does this himself, gives me less than I need, then asks for extras back when there is none. I feel as if he doesn't believe I am using money for the bills. He is welcome to check our bills at anytime and he is welcome to look at the records I keep. Every pay period, I write down which bills I pay and how much. This helps me keep track of what I paid and what needs to be paid next time. Thanks for the advice. |
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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-03-14 14:36:05 |
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Listen, you can not STEAL anyone from their spouse. I am with you!!
Even if they were in the same bed, having sex nightly, if he goes with you he went because he wanted to, not based on anything you did or did not do.
You are not some super villian in a Batman cartoon that kisses the man with your special love lipstick and he can't resist!!!
No matter what his situation was NO MAN or woman is ever stolen away from a marriage. |
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