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I am six days late and we all know what that could mean. I am still young but pretty regular so I am not understanding. the sad part about it is that my other half is thinking pessimistic, which really bothers me. It seems like he starves so much for attention that I dont matter, if you feel me. It  semms that he wants it all to be about him not mentioning that he is coming up with a million and one reasons why we cannot be pregnant. He wants me to give it up . How sick is that to ask your WIFE to have an abortion? NOt me I have family and othere people who care more to help me then to watch me suffer after I kill my baby oh no. It just hurts that because all shit aint tight and right but the baby happened that he wants me to kill it. I believe that regardless we can make it . I am scarred to live with the fact that I had an abortion for the rest of my life. I used to say well if I got raped, but that was the only way I would have an abortion. I layed down with my HUSBAND willing and I know and have always known what could happen , so no, no abortion, its not fair. and honestly FUCK HIM FOR ASKING ME!!! What do you all think?????
 

    Posted by senior8402 on 2008-01-16 12:10:13 | Rating: | Views: 80
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OUCH!! why would a husband ask his wife to get an abortion? Your first born should be a reason to celebrate and be proud. But instead his first thoughts are to kill and to be without children? Crazy, so what was his reason to get married, not to have a family but to hold onto you? Becareful that sounds crazy, wish you the best and praying for you.
Posted by  emoo82  on 2008-01-16 12:41:16 
  
Did you ever get a chance to ask him why he doesn't want this baby? What is the matter with man???

Has he no shame? If you go ahead and have the baby, has he threatened to leave you or divorce you? He's going to wish he hadn't asked you to abort the child.

He sounds like a baby himself! He may be jealous (already) because he feels like you will spend more time with the baby than with him --- and you will--but not for the selfish reasons he seems to have.
A baby does take up a lot of time. He sees that and he's got problems.

If he leaves, that's no loss. He obviously has jealousy and insecurity issues. He needs therapy right ASAP.

Have you told your family yet? Get a pregnancy test then go to the doctor for verification and get that exam and start your prenatal vitamins.
Have a wonderful pregnancy (in advance)!!!
Posted by  UVRays  on 2008-01-16 14:18:12 
  
i could understand him being that way if you were in a relationship that wasn't serious and if you both were really young, or both extremely unprepared.. but come on now, thats just hurtful.... your his wife. good luck with everything!
Posted by  lackofcolor  on 2008-01-16 23:22:27 
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