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Damn....what a weekend and what a confusing array of emotions.
Let's start with the teen daughter. I told her I would take her shopping this weekend. I did. But then she tried to plan my entire weekend for me. She calls her grandmother (the ass's mom) and asks to meet for dinner and then makes arrangements for me to pick up a guy friend of hers on Sunday. I take her shopping, she then asks for me to take her and her bestfriend to eat. No....I am ready to go home. Reason being, apparently spending $120.00 on clothes wasn't enough for her....she actually rolled her eyes at me when I told her to narrow down her selection. Grrrr..... So we go home.... My plans to sit in the backyard with a neighbor were going to happen in I had to lock everyone in the house in a closet. I needed unwinding time.
We are hanging out having a few wine coolers while the little ones played. Turns out the teen daughter called the teen son and made arrangements for him to drop in....(that part was a pleasant surprise).....but....he brought 2 other teens as well, plus my daughter invited the neighbor boy over. Great.......we got to witness teenagers hanging out and texting someone else while supposedly enjoying each others company. So, my son's ex-girlfriend started drama with him, so he had to leave to go talk to her.....leaving his crew at the house...hmmm....thanks for visiting with your mother..... teen girl he brought with him, well she winds up in tears.....over a boy....lovely.....more drama.....and of course, they are all hungry....so mom orders pizza.....my night turned into what?! Grrrr
Turns out my teen son is meeting girls on the internet and trying to start up relationships with girls that live in different states. What the hell?! Also, tells me he hasn't looked for a job yet, because he has too much going on. Ummm......this is after he tells me he spent 10 hours on the phone with the latest internet girl. Now, mind you, his father is taking me to court because he wants me to pay support on teen son. Ummm.....he's old enough to start becoming an adult and working dammit. I don't mind paying on college expenses, but.......he's 19....he should be working......grrrr.... and oh...let's not forget this .....my son texts me and asks me if I can take in yet another one of his female friends that became homeless...this one due to her boyfriend kicking her out.....and then wants me to explain to him why I said no, that is was not a good idea....mind you, I never met this girl....I told him to ask his father if she could move in there (since this is where my son chooses to live)…..I mean after all, if he chooses to live at his dad’s house, then it must be a better place to live than my house (I did not voice this last thought to him)….should I mention, the last girl he told me had gotten kicked out of her house had actually left on her own accord, because her mother took her cell phone…. When I realized what was going on with that girl, I told her she had to go! I just don’t get it.
And.....my better half.....I'm throwing jeans in the dryer and out of his pocket falls a movie ticket. My heart starts thumping....I search for another, nope....just one. I look at the time stamp. Now, mind you, he has become a workaholic lately, staying in the office until it is time for bed. I take care of the toddler pretty much by myself because he is always working. I also take her places like the zoo, water parks, etc ....alone....because dad is working. So I go and ask him how the movie was....he denied the ticket was his for a good 30 minutes. Damn, I guess that ticket just dropped in his pants pocket while he was working, right!?! The more he denies, the more pissed off I am becoming because as usual he is trying to make me feel like I am accusing him of something he didn't do. When I start asking who went with him, he gives in and BOOM...admits he went to the movie....alone. Says his crew was working and he had to leave the jobsite so that he could drop back in later to make sure they were working.....???....says he didn't have anything else to do. O.K.....now steam is rolling....he tells me he doesn't need a mother....I remind him that he has not touched anything in our home, laundry, cleaning, nothing in years and only started doing the trash and yard recently......told him must be f'n nice.....to leisurly go to a movie because you had nothing else to do......how about caulking the damn tub that has needed it for 2 years....or how about installing the pantry door that has been in the garage for 5 freaking years.....needless to say, I lost my temper and let him have it....told him his a** should have come home and worked in the office so that he could have spent time with his family that evening...... Seriously, is this what my life has become.....sh*t!!! Am I wrong to be getting pis*ed over this?! I am not trying to be his mother, but dammit, I will point out to him that I'm tired of looking at the back of his head while he "works" in the office at night....I made sure to point out that half the time he is "working" in the office at night, I have noticed he is surfing the web.....jackas*. Needless to say, when I got home from taking the teen shopping, he did a few loads of laundry (not folded of course/just washed), mowed the lawn and actually swam with the toddler.......he never finds time to do anything quality with her......
Alright, enough.......this is getting long.....ta ta
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Posted by selfcentered on 2008-08-04 13:25:35 | Rating: | Views: 48
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Shame he didn't take you to the movies....Sounds like you need a vacation :)
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Posted by slowtolearn
on 2008-08-05 07:14:25
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Actually, we just got back from Disney. First time in years I made him take vacation with his family. Got tired of taking vacations without him. Hindsite... wished I hadn't made him go. He was crabby the whole time. Kept doing business on his cell phone while we were there. I wanted to send him on the next flight home. Never again....
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Posted by selfcentered
on 2008-08-05 13:38:10
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I just brought all the teen bullshit hanging out here to a hault when I found I was being lied to by them all!
I tried to be nice and give them life lessons I've had to learn the hard way. I try to keep my doors open to teens that feel they are troubled but once again not telling me lies is just too much to ask.
You killed me with the spending time with each other while texting each other. Another thing that USED to go on here. I'm finished!
The husband thing??? Or boyfriend. I find it strange a man would go to the movie alone and often they hand everyone their own ticket. I hope there was never two tickets!!! I'd have to wonder. I'm not trying to put a bunch of crap in your head just telling you what would be in mine. Also the long work hours. I think I'd be doing some sneak drive bys while he thought I was good and tucked away on a little outing with one of the kids.
If I make it through these two kids it will be by the good mercey of God!!! I've about had it.
Seriously wishing you peace!
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Posted by anotherdaze
on 2008-08-06 19:01:27
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