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how bout that night I was so happy I was single....something happend.
I was sitting at home, studying for a test I had Friday. it was a wednesday night. Normally I won't study because I am doing paperwork for my clinical rotations on Thursday. I have to get up at 5am to go work at the hospital. So...I decide i had enough and I put the books away and go upstairs to get my shower so I don't have to in the morning. While I am in there laughing about the married car club john wanting me my phone goes off. WHO is calling me at MIDNIGHT?!??!?! Is all I could think. But i blew it off...and kept doin my thing. It went off again! Well after I dried off and just took my sweet ass time, i picked up my phone and looked. I didn't know the number. Hmmmm....I thought maybe it was John! The text message said "hi." the second one read "Either you don't talk to strangers or you know who this is and don't want to talk to me" Well my curiousity was peaked...I responded "Sorry I was in the shower...who is this?" The game of "I'm not telling lets talk" began. Little things began going back and forth and the clues were getting more visible.
Tears began to fill my eyes as I begged him to tell me who it was. [I'm crying now thinking about it] I had this feeling in my gut it was chip. [The guy who I was involved with for over a month and he dropped off the face of the earth quit calling me and so on and so forth.] He sent me a text said "Chip" I told him to call me. We talked for 2 1/2 hours....happy talk, argued, questions of why he left me....him telling me he didn't deserve me....etc etc. I missed him so much and I couldn't believe he called me.
We made arrangements to see each other the next day. We met up for lunch...we've never gone on a real date before...I had never even seen him in the daylight. This floored me. We ended up spending the whole day together, shopping....and hanging out. We didn't hug or kiss, or touch. It was just pure simple hanging out. Later that night we met back up at a local resturaunt/bar with live music. Our friends were there and he couldn't stya off me! This too was unusual. Where he went, he wanted me there...his arms around me...whispers... taunting each other once again. At one point another guy walked up to me trying to talk to me, and Chip got pissed! He was like NO ONE talks to you. I felt like he wanted me all to himself. It felt so right. I felt complete....I went back to his house where we picked up where we left off as if nothing ever happened. My car was still at the place, and it was 4am. He told me to just take his truck home. NO ONE drives his truck, much less with out him there. I felt special....it was his gaurentee to see me the next morning.
[friday]-
I woke up and took my daughter to school - and then went back to his house. I woke him up with a special session...and then we went about our day. He took me to lunch AGAIN! Then we went to play putt putt. OMG TWO DATES, TWO DAYS?!?!! Well....taunted eachother with "I'm better than you" and "I can whip your butt" etc etc [chip is a golfer] Turns out I scored SO MANY holes in one....and he only got one. We tied...and he claimed he was "taking it easy on me" So He had to go because he had plans to play golf with his brother and he took me to my car. Later that night I went back over to his house and we hung out some more. [wink wink]
[saturday]
I spent the day chillin...he had to work but wanted to meet up when he got off. I made plans to go out with my friend and her hubby and asked him if he wanted to go. We all agreed to go bowling. We had a FREEKIN BLAST!!!! He was all about me, kissin me, wrapping his arms around me, huggin me, just being awesome to me. We took pictures together and smiled so much it hurt! He told my girl that I had his heart. Sigh.....I had worked it out so i could spend the night with him...so we all went back to his apt after bowling and played a drinking game where I got TORE UP!!! We did our thing AGAIN....and fell asleep.
[sunday]
I woke up and had to leave but he was so passed out i didn't bother trying to get him up. I went home and took care of the kids and tried to study for the test. I skipped the test i had studied for on Friday bc I wasn't ready and just had all these nights out...I was scheduled to re-take it on Monday morning. [yesterday] So He calls me every couple hours from work just saying hi....He asked me to come over that night. I took my books so I could study and he was supposed to pack for his golf trip wednesday. Well....we ended up playing the drinking game AGAIN with his roomates. I once again was TORE UP...and had a test the next day. I passed out in his bed and woke up at 5am to go home.
[monday, yesterday]
I took my test with a hangover from hell. Then went to class and sat through a 3 hour lecture. UGGGG I was so wore out. I had promised my son I would take him bowling that night, and I did. We had a good time, even though I was tired as could be. I scored the best i ever had! 154!!!!! And my test, I did better on it than anyother test I've taken this semester. I couldn't believe it. I went BACK to Chips house that night and we just hung out. No sex this time...he was a little more distant and I don't know why.
Today - He hasn't called me yet...this is not like it was all weekend. I'm not sure why he does this or why he acts this way. One minute he's sweet...listens...holds me...makes me feel special...then the next he's distant.
So here I am faced with the descion to tell him how I feel or not. I know I need to for my own sanity, but at the same time...I wish I could let it go and be as distant as he is.
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Posted by secondplace on 2008-04-22 15:16:49 | Rating: | Views: 166
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it depends if u want him to have the upper hand or not... if u don't care, tell him... if u want, then act like you don't care if he's distant and be distant yourself. chip has already proven he like the game as much as he does the prize....
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Posted by otherwoman
on 2008-04-22 22:20:55
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Guys like to play a wierd game when they first start seeing you. I think being distant would give you the upper hand and he would eventually come back. Sounds like an awesome weekend, hope he keeps it up.
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Posted by prelude2it
on 2008-04-23 09:41:01
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I have to agree with Otherwoman and Prelude2it. Guys do like to play that weird game. I say that you tell him how you feel. If he distance his self from you.....you should do the same. Don't make anything easy for him or any man.
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Posted by Nubian
on 2008-04-23 17:02:30
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i agree with everyone. he wants to be distant.. you do the same. this isnt the first time he does this, its not fair for him to have you like a puppy running behind him, whenever the heat in the kitchen gets too hot for him.. or w/e reason he decides to pack up everytime.
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Posted by ineed_peace
on 2008-04-24 16:08:43
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From the description of the weekend, he probably just needs to build his strength back up; some time to recuperate and catch up on whatever odds and ends (work/bills) he may have been neglecting to focus on you. No guy is going to spend an extended weekend with you like that if there isn't something really there at the foundation of it, imo.
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Posted by GhostOfDerekD0min0
on 2008-06-09 16:14:45
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