"I am happily married." though my husband works abroad I can still say thisline.  This is what  I said to him who is just as married as I am.  He said I should not be saying this because I might be giving other people wrong ideas... "Ok" , I replied but on my own I became confused. 

What is wrong in saying to other people that you are happily married?  what idea does it give aside from what is already stated? 

He was pleased with how I handled my job and my relationship with other people. This made him closer to me and gave me treatments like the following: He texts me with morning greetings daily, he asks about my daughter's condition, he accompanies me to the clinic when my daughter is sick, he says that he wants to know more about me, he accompanies me in important transactions or personal business, he tells me that he loves me as a friend. 

We are special friends.  We dont go beyond the boundaries of friendship.  Respect and care for each other is evident in our treatment of each other.  We even became active in a transparochial  charismatic community.

However sometimes I feel we are masking this relationship with the affiation we recently involved ourselves into.  This made us be together, closer towards each other.  Am i doing what is right? Am i not destroying his marriage and my own?

I have been thinking of moving to another job and leave him and this "relationship".  But I dont have the courage to push for it.  Fears envelop me in moving to the unknown, yet I am not entirely at peace where I am now.

Could you give a piece of ur mind?