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I am going threw a very trying time I have been envolved with this man for 5years he has a family I know it is wrong and I have ended it but I have noticed that for some reason I only seem to be able to attract married men and we all know what they are after. I am ready to find a meaningful relationship and want someone to love me for who I am not for what I can do for them. I have asked guy friends that are married why this seems to happen and they don't understand it either but I just don't know why this happens or what to do to make them understand I am not the woman they are looking for I am worth more then that and I don't deserve to be the other woman I deserve to be loved and treated as someone special. I often wonder if this is the way my life is going to always be .
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Posted by scsweetie77 on 2007-07-18 22:14:50 | Rating: | Views: 168
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Sweetie, don't think of this as a bad thing. Yes, you may be the other women but remember that you are that something their wife isn't. No, you don't share the same memories or children, and you may not have the same things in commen.. but you have something they don't. You'll find that guy, that certain someone... have some fun, don't think too much on it. Life is too short to sit around in worries and regrets and I'm sure you are a beautiful women. Do your thing girll<3.=).
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Posted by ROCKSTAHHR
on 2007-07-18 23:17:05
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i dont care if this sounds rude but YOU know he is MARRIED! How dare you even get involved with men that are already married. How would you feel if you were married to what you thought was a loving terrific husband and suddenly you find out that he has some fluzy yeah I said it on the side. Then your wonder piece of shit hubby comes home makes love to you and BOOM you now could have an STD. Well you know what I think you suck because you are just as big of crap as that guy. Ever hear of the word no? Apparently not. What about the kids? What about you? why not find a free man that will fully love you back. Maybe you dont want that, but Im sure that these men their wives do.
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Posted by MissShnn6
on 2007-07-19 10:52:14
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MissShnn6 I completely agree with you and that is why I cut things off I guess you didn't see that part of the post!!! I was trying more to get insite into why men feel that it is ok to approach women when they are married and what clues them in to the women that they feel are approachable. I am a very conservative female and do not chase after married men. I belive that when the time is right I will find my true love. But I am trying to improve myself and wanted to know and honest oppinon from a male about what I could change about myself to make these type of men know that it is not ok to even think about approching me for that type of relationship. I do appreciate you insite even if you chose to only read part of what I said and slam me because you sound to be an angry woman who couldn't keep her man happy
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Posted by scsweetie77
on 2007-07-19 18:07:36
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I know that this is a forum where people can say what they want but I see no reason to be so rude. SCSWEETIE..until you feel you are worth of a man just for you, you won't attract one. You find unavailable men because of what is going on inside you. It is not about them, it is about you. Find yourself. Tell yourself that you are worthy of love and it will find you. I promise...
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Posted by midlifemama
on 2007-07-20 13:30:31
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Speaking as a married man who does not see other women I would suggest a few things. First, if you know something is wrong in your heart, then don't pursue it. I agree that part of that is having respect for yourself and another part of that is realizing that short term satisfaction seldom leads to lasting love. Another part of that issue is where you meet people to date. Is it at a church or a bar. The church might provide a stable background from which to build a friendship first. A bar is usually about temporary relief from loneliness. For me personally, I have been in both places, the church place feeds my soul and helps ground my marriage. I hope you find someone that is a match for you. Usually, when you are not looking the best things happen.
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Posted by misdean
on 2007-07-20 21:30:15
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sounds like missshnn.... got an std from some fluzy.... anyway, guys are lame and only want one thing, but if you give it to them then they may not want you anymore, i'd suggest find a guy that doesn't wan to sleep with you, i don't want you to sound like a whore, but if you didn't sleep with them then they wouldn't want you fer just one thing anymore,
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Posted by mrbsoccer05
on 2007-07-27 17:14:56
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there will always b married men and married woman 4 that matter that [chase] that bit on the side. if married men continue 2 [hit on u], then start going somewhere more single men go 2?? there will always b some married guy hitting on 2 beautiful woman, and if u happen 2 fall 4 such a man and later find out he is married, then the ball is well and truely in your court. life would b easier if all married men said they were married, when they meet with other woman, but they don't and so many beautiful woman r caught up in such a trap and vise a versa.innocent woman and men do get caught up with married partners and will always b a fact of life. the trick is try and find out early if a man that u decide 2 have sex with is actually married b4 u take the plunge. regards steve
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Posted by yeovile
on 2008-01-20 22:10:33
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