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As a major part of bettering myself, I found the profiles of two people who wronged me on Facebook and contacted them.
Without mentioning any names, I'll just say that one, a guy, we'll call JB, was someone I considered one of my closest friends at GVSU. Our friendship turned into more, and it was a mistake. At the same time, he was seeing a young woman named TS, and she and I became close, unknowing the situation we were in. I found out, confronted JB, told TS, and my friendships with both of them ended soon after. They're now married and have a child.
And I'm fine with that. I told them I hope their good fortune continues and that their baby is healthy. There is no way I can hate on people trying to really go out there and give a legitimate marriage and family a shot. (I use the term legitimate loosely, because all working families are legitimate, to me). I am through with the bitterness. At one point, I cared about the both of them very much. There's nothing holding me back now. All that stuff happened years ago. I wish JB would have been honest and not done what he did, which ended up jeopardizing the wonderful relationship I had with TS, but who knows, maybe he's regretful too. If so, I hope my contacting him helps him to let it go. I don't want anything distracting me from positivity, nor do I wish to distract anyone else from positivity.
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Posted by sasmith on 2008-07-19 12:00:57 | Rating: | Views: 25
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past is past,wish you happy now and future
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Posted by nina880224
on 2008-07-19 12:19:12
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