| View Blog
|
|
|
|
My husband acted very strange last night before he left for work. I say strange, but I guess it was really par for the course with him. He kissed our daughter and turned to leaved. He just looked at me and said, "see ya later."
Maybe he is acting this way in response to his sense that I am unhappy. But I am used to him begin a little nicer. I used to nag him to tell me what was bugging him, but I will never do that again. For too many years, I was the only one who made ANY effort to communicate and pull communication out of him.
What pisses me off most about him is the fact that he has NEVER had the BALLS to deal with an issue upfront. He will ignore it thinking that he won't have to deal with it and it will just go away. But I have told him flat out that ignoring me and the issues I have told him we need to work on and he still just ignores them. I will never again treat him like a baby and ask him what is wrong.
I resolved long ago to just take advatage of the fact that he pays the bills, and use my time for ME. Screw him if he doesn't like it. Maybe he can use his normal reaction and just ignore what I do. The only time he takes any initiative to deal with something is if it has to do with money. He is too cheap and I will never travel with him. We went to Hawaii once and he bitched the whole time about how much things cost. We ate at fucking KFC and Taco Bell in Hawaii!
Then, I tried to get him to fuck me in the jungle, just to be exciting and he would not do it. Then on our last day he knew I was pissed about his total lack of adventurous qualities so he says, "Ok, c'mon lets do it. I can tell you're mad."
Oh yeah, that's a turn on. I did it, of course, to have my adventrue. But I would rather have fucked a seal on the beach that his cold fish ass.
I will have a fun game of all this and pretend that I don't even notice he is bugged. He should be glad I am sticking around at all.
I hate him.
|
|
Posted by santorinilove on 2008-04-01 12:35:00 | Rating: | Views: 295
|
|
| |
|
|
| Blog Comments
|
|
|
|
|
I used to be (just a tad) like him. How miserable it can be live with someone that stifles the fun and won't work on problems/issues.
|
|
Posted by sean_barr
on 2008-04-01 13:08:01
|
|
|
|
I understand your point of view. However, why would you want to live with all that resentment?
If you don't love him, why do you stick around? You know it's making you bitter inside to suffer in silence. It will not get easier as you age.
My suggestion is try to work with him, or leave him before he makes you totally miserable.
You deserve a life full of happiness. Don't settle.
I know having children makes things more difficult, but in the long term, I would rather see my parents apart and happy, than "together" and unhappy.
Just my two cents! Good luck!
|
|
Posted by Cecy24
on 2008-04-01 14:00:01
|
|
|
|
|
Yal, I hate my husband too. Having kids is the only reason I am sticking around, I don't want to hurt the kids. Plus I don't want to go through the damn headache of separating, fighting, going to court, divorcing, etc... He has given me a lasting headache as it is, don't need all of the other topics thrown on top of dealing, even having to look at him. He use to be such a great husband, wow how times quickly change. What was I thinking?? I sometimes stay at work longer than needed (and mind you I'm not even paid by the hour- I can come and go as my work is done) and will stay there much past needed time just because I dread going home and having to be under the same roof as HIM. He is sooo grumpy, smart assy, mean, no fun and well, we're just totally different. Use to not matter, now it's unbearable. So to the girl that wrote above about her husband being lucky she's still sticking around, I'm with you on that- I feel the same about mine. WHY are some men just such down right ASSHOLES? shuuuu.... I feel little better now- but I still don't like him.. From Miserable and Mad
|
|
Posted by hcalvert
on 2008-09-23 19:12:30
|
|
|
|
|
|
Email This to a Friend 
