Posted by
chebtastic1
on 2008-04-09 06:54:43 |
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I have been in exactly the same situation. I always said my marriage failed not because it (or he) was bad, but because it just wasn't good enough.
I agonised for months about how to leave him, but then my situation was complicated, because I had already met someone else. it got to a point for me, where it felt un natural to be touched by my husband, like I was cheating on my new man.
It was a complicated, messy place to be and I knew I had to finish it, but in the end it just sorta popped out. Totally unrehearsed and unplanned.
I definitely hurt him, but I believe if he wasnt right for me, then I am not right for him either, and so now we are both free.
If you are sure this relationship cant be saved then its best to end it I think - what good does it do you or him to stay? You deserve to be happy and not settle.
It is a difficult situation to be in, especially when there's no specific reason why it just died...but long term you need to consider your happiness and sometimes in this life we all have to be a little selfish.
I wish you well, whatever you decide to do. Take your time.
Peace and love x Cheb x |
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Posted by
rubyratz
on 2008-04-09 21:42:10 |
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| cheb... thanks so much for your comment... at least i know that there are people who understand me, who understand what i am about to do...and why i am doing it... it died quite some time ago, but i never have the nerve to end it. now, though, i do have someone else... and this person gives me the courage to do something about my current marriage. even though this new person never ask me to leave him (hubby), i just don't feel right. i just can't love someone but be with someone else. |
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