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 cancersucks but we can help, please read

One of our valued members
 Kal
http://www.thoughts.com/kal

read a post by a new member that really touched her heart

afterwords
she e mailed me and said something like...

(cancersucks) is so amazing. I know she is scared inside and no words will ever change that fact. I find her such an incredible person at her age to have the attitude that she does.

"My plans for today and everyday are to go directly to her wall and leave something.
A short prayer or something. A smile.
It is so clear that she is reaching out from under her laughter."

If you could, 
please find out what hospital she will be going to?
I bet ...like you say,
if it was sent to Erika "cancer sucks" it just might get to her.
Even as a joke ...and for all of us to have a good laugh.
I think I'll ask... I'll be back.

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Well, one of the greatest things about this blogging community
is
 we care
about one another
we managed to get the word out to as many people as we possibly could 

told them about this very brave person
who was facing an uphill battle

who possessed
an unbelievable sense of humor 
as well as a very positive outlook on life

soon

Cancersucks
had quite a following
always ending up in the top ten

 her entries were so inspiring
 and helped many people

our members were a huge support for her as well

and if you decide to read some of her posts
you will see all the
loving comments and prayers 
and examples of their loyalty and friendship
left behind
www.thoughts.com/cancersucks

Reading the responses to her blogs
makes me proud to be a member
of this social networking community.

just in case you were unaware
it's a fact

  We have some wonderful and caring people around here
at
thoughts.com

however

it is so very sad,
that cancersucks,
Erika Meyer
lost her battle on November 1st, 2009


www.thoughts.com/roe/blog/a-brave-journey-in-her-own-words-4 11896/


although
we are very grateful 
 she helped quite a few people along the way.

and may I digress
just a bit?

www.thoughts.com/cancersucks/blog/wellness-place-397016/

On October 13th, Cancersucks wrote a blog about how she had discovered a cancer non-for-profit organization that in her own words “did some really neat things.”

She mentioned how warm and welcoming it was and how they offered “a shopping list of services, all provided free of charge. She went on to list a number of activities and helpful resources and reminded us once again that all these activities were free.


At the end of her post she states,
“It was lovely. I spoke with the women for over an hour about my journey and she was extremely insightful and positive. And in visiting I realized the importance of taking care of oneself.... NOW, not later, when something medically catastrophic happens. When was the last time you took five minutes (five whole minutes!) to stop what you were doing, mentally going to a calm place, and just letting life stop rushing by you?

When was the last time you took a yoga class, had a message, or worked out for your own health? It's unfortunate that it took cancer to make me realize that life rushes by a little too fast.

Slow down. Get a message. Eat healthy. Take a deep breath. Take care of yourself. You can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself. Don't let something change your life because you weren't taking care of yourself. Isn't it a shame that they don't offer places like The Wellness Place to everyone (cancer or no cancer) at no charge.”

http://www.thoughts.com/cancersucks/blog/wellness-place-3970 16/

 
Are you all aware
just how many of our non for profit organizations
are struggling?

The very ones that are helping so many people
in such positive ways
are suffering due to funding cuts
and our poor economy

In the past
quite a few charitable organizations 
depended upon some sort of government assistance.  

Financial aid helped them with their annual deficit
which is the difference between what the Government pays
and what it cost them to operate. 

However,
the Department of Human Services announced that some
non for profits were going to lose a significant amount 
where as
others
 would be completely terminated.

For the most part,
non for profits,
 in this day and age 
are supported 
100% by donations from generous benefactors. 
and
It's not easy raising money when the economy is so bad!

that's another story
============================================================ =============
FYI
Funding cuts

http://online.wsj.com/public/article/SB119500037195592058.ht ml


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If you read cancersucks post
www.thoughts.com/cancersucks/blog/wellness-place-397016/

you will see for yourself how much a Cancer organization
helped her

Many people are struggling financially in this horrible economy
 donating money is the last thing on their minds.

Nevertheless,
try to think about what
you might be able to
do without
in order to make a donation to some worthy cause.

I have no idea what cancer center
Erika visited

although

I am very familiar with the wonderful work
the Wellness House in my area happens to be doing.

They provide the same services
 Erika (cancersucks) 
described in her post.

Here is a link to the
Wellness House in HInsdale, Illinois.

www.wellnesshouse.org/

If you have a moment, take a look at some of the wonderful programs they offer to cancer patients and their families.


 mission statement

Established in 1990,
Wellness House is a community-based independent organization that offers psychosocial support,
education and information,
 as a complement to medical treatment
to cancer patients, their families and friends.
Wellness House
exists to improve the quality of life
for people whose lives are affected by cancer
and its treatment.
Program offerings include:
support groups, education programs, classes focusing on nutrition, exercise and stress reduction, bereavement counseling
and programs for children who have a loved one with cancer.

Wellness House has a comprehensive library
that includes cancer specific information
from the National Cancer Institute
and
the American Cancer Society.

Services are provided at no charge to participants.
 
Funding comes from individual contributors,
organizations, corporations and foundations.
 
Our mission is:
Challenging Cancer. Creating Community. Changing Lives.


 

    Posted by roe on 2009-11-04 01:40:20 | Rating: | Views: 219
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That's a brilliant idea Roe and lots of food for thought in your blog. Makes me think!
Posted by  overthehillandfar...  on 2009-11-04 03:57:01 
  
Roe, I think Erika is smiling down on you right now for posting this. I think she would tell you that this is what friends do. God Bless you Roe, what a good friend you are.
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-04 08:22:08 
  
When I was sick, places such as those did wonderful things to help me and my family through troubling times. A great reminder! Thank you!
Posted by  brlracincwgrl  on 2009-11-04 09:04:08 
  
Erika's soul knew she would make a difference, of this I don't doubt. And now with your help by posting this information, her legacy will continue. Erika knew how to live and did so every second of her life. I wish that a blog like this could have it's own tab for all the members of the community. A tab that said, "Important Information for All". This blog could be the first entry.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 09:25:45 
  
ask the Cancer center in your area what programs are helping but struggling and support them.. since I entered the ministry it has been a nearly continuous struggle with Cancer. it is like an evil beast.. I can almost see and feel it. Anything, ANYTHING I can do to slay the beast I do..
Posted by  pastormike  on 2009-11-04 14:49:04 
  
Thanks for making us more aware of the many people that care and step up to do everything they can for those who have cancer.Erika's message really touches my heart and makes me stop and wonder if I am doing all I can in this battle against this aggressive disease.Thanks for honoring her.
Posted by  nanahart  on 2009-11-14 08:41:10 
  
Because of the fact that I lost my husband to cancer back in 1998 only two months after it is diagnosed, I feel qualified to say that I would have felt much better, if I had realized these programs existed. So, I would encourage any who can to help any of the programs that they can. I don't know of any in my area, but I am going to find out if they ARE there, and if so, will surely try my best to see that they become more publicly known. I have cried over this blog, because it brings back such memories, but at the same time, I am glad I read it.

Hugs, my blessings ---------------------------------------------------- Shea
Posted by  Shea  on 2009-11-21 21:48:39 
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