Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-01-14 10:44:26 |
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| I wish you luck, that's never easy. |
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Posted by
chebtastic1
on 2008-01-14 11:17:48 |
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| Hun, I know exactly what you mean. I loved my husband but never felt in love. He was always so miserable even though in perspective his life wasn't that bad. He had both parents, a wife, a family, a job and a roof over his head. His mood was dragging me down too and I had to leave in the end. It was tough because he never did anything specific I could say was my reason for going - it was more what he DIDN'T do. I just couldn't get him motivated to enjoy life, and so I wasn't able to enjoy mine. It was the hardest thing I've ever done but without doubt the right thing. Sometimes, you just have to be a little bit selfish, it's the only way. What good does it do for both of you to be unhappy? I blame myself entirely because I knew I wasn't right for him (or he for me) and I still married him. Although it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do, I firmly believe I did the right thing because now I am with the person who is right for me, and he is free to find his soulmate too. And like you said...that's not me. If you are unhappy, or sure you cannot salvage it...then you are doing the right thing. I wish you the best of luck also and wish you strength and happiness. Believe me, it will be a huge relief to let go, and eventually...he will see it that way too. Peace and love to you xxx |
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