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Okay so that was crazy... it was like everything with this new guy went from being a very iffy maybe to a mob of people shouting "GO FOR IT!" in all of like 5 minutes. First off, I was talking to him on the phone, and he told me that he liked me & wanted to know if I liked him too. I said yes and instantaneously came to realize that I do like him. Imagine that, I had no idea.
But then things got kind of complicated. See he has to make his summer plans like... this week so that he can go elsewhere for cheaper. He was unsure of whether he should go or stay, just in case I'd be here and with him. You know, that sounds wierd to be planning for a possible relationship this early in things, but I understand what he's thinking. He's just thinking ahead and having problems because he has to plan right now. He can't wait a month and see how things are going with me. Well anyways, he asked me what I thought and I told him that as much as I would like him here, he shouldn't plan his summer around me. I would feel bad. And that ended up with him feeling incredibly bad because he "wasn't thinking about how I feel about things". Thats sweet of him to think that, but seriously, I was fine with his planning ahead you know?
So we got off the phone kind of awkwardly with both of us feeling bad, him because of that ^ and me because our conversation ended up so wierdly. We both ended up getting on the internet like right after that initial "oh crap, why did I hang up" moment and talking some more. We sorted things out, and I finally convinced him that I'm not at all, in any way, mad at him.
And then I started talking to another friend. This friend originally told me that she "didn't trust" this guy I've been talking to and that I shouldn't go out on a date with him. Ever since then this has been kind of haunting the back of my mind. Why doesn't she trust him? Well tonight she informed me that she only said that because she liked him and didn't want me dating him. In all reality, she said she trusts him with her life.
And then I started talking to another friend. This one had told me that he didn't know this new guy very well, but that his friends are total losers. He had said that I should watch out for him. Well today he informed me that he was in fact thinking of a different guy. He doesn't know anything about the guy I'm talking about.
So all that, combined with the fact that my best friend thinks he's awesome, seems like signs to go for it. Maybe I wasn't ready for it back when he first started talking to me because I wasn't over the last guy issue. Maybe thats why all these barriers came up and were then cleared away again, now that I'm ready and TOTALLY over guy #1. Either way, I'm excited to see whats going to happen next.
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Posted by redhead_chick on 2008-01-16 01:45:17 | Rating: | Views: 57
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Wow, that is exciting =] I hope that all goes well for you...but you were right about him not planning his summer around a possible relationship...but what did he mean when he said he wasn't thinking of how you feel?
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Posted by sacrificedangel
on 2008-01-18 08:39:00
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I guess he just meant that he was assuming I'd automatically want to be with him and want him to stay over the summer. He didn't really think about that until I told him that he shouldn't plan his summer around someone he just re-met. After he realized that was what he was doign, he felt really stupid.
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Posted by redhead_chick
on 2008-01-18 22:25:41
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