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Hi all, so thought I would take a minute to drop you all line. That and because I have a minute or two before the house starts getting crazy with the arrival of the tin lids and hubby. Well nothing really exciting has happened since my last post. Had a friend in hospital gave us all a scare, but he is fine now.
Not sure that I mentioned it before but besides my family (immediate and distant) and friends are important to me. The thing is I am a very social person. I love to socialize and talk and talk and talk (don't get hubby started on my talking). But the problem is my hubby isn't. Don't get me wrong he has a few close friends. I could possible count them on my fingers and still have some left over, Where as for me, I would need all my fingers and toes and them some to try and count them all. Which at times makes things a little unbearable, socializing that is. Because when I am in the mood for socializing and getting out to have fun, he rather be home watching TV. That's alright some of the time but please not always.
Some times I get so frustrated with hubby of this that many times I go out with out him. In the past it hasn't bothered me, but lately it has been more and more on my mind. I some times put this down to our age difference (I'm 36 and he is 50). I hear some of you gasping, I don't know why and how come we have lasted, we are so different in many ways yet so similar. And not wanting to make you all grossed out, but sex could be alot better. For him it is like wow bam thank you mam, and for me it is well have you started yet. (Sorry guys to hit below the belt). And yes I have made suggestion on how we could improve, I done the books, the self help, the lingerie, massages, weekend a ways, no kids weekends, romance, DVDS, and other things I wont go into detail about (don't want you all running for the covers) but you name it I have tried it. But I just don't know what else to do.
I know what I did do but will save that for another day, once you have all recovered from the too much detail syndrome.
So what was I talking about.......................... Ohh yeah friends. Well I enjoy my friends and just wish that hubby would make more of an effort sometimes. You can only say the dog died so many times.
Bye for now and keep smiling.
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