So this is my second post, and i am a little nervous about posting this one, but hopfully all go's well. \
 
MY  Question is, is it normal to have feelings for a teacher? I mean i know everyone may get the odd crush or thinks their teacher is good looking, but is it okay to have reall feelings for them?

Now I DO NOT  have any feelings for any of my teachers. But a semi-close friend of mine does. I am not going to share her name, but i am going to share her feelings because  she wants some help, and she said she would like some advice, so i offered to help her out. So hopefully after you guys read this you will give me some kind of advice or ANY kind of feedback. lol

So my friend, lets call her, Meg, has feelings for her geography teacher.  She continuly compenplates how she can have these feeling when she barley knows him. He is extreamly good looking, and smart.  She prcatically failed his class becuase of being so distracted. I was worried about Meg because i did not want her school work being effected by a silly little crush. But then one day she told me that she belived he had feelings back for her.   I didnt know what to say, becuase honestl;y i thought she was just saying it to get attention or mke her self sound better, but then i watched and i did noticed the " silent" relationship. Now i want wont to make this very clear. SHE DID NOT ACT ON HER FEELINGS!>  i dont want people thinking i want this teacher repoted or anything, mmmkay. Anyways. so his class ended a few months ago, and the odd time she see's him, like the other day she was working in the libary and he was on duty. everytime she looked up he was looking at her. i know this sounds silly but belive me, she really thinks he likes her, and i thought that too.

She found out he was engaged.

She  was in complete shock, and really upset. She confided in me, and told me how much she felt for him and couldnt understand why. She knew it was ridiculous to have these feelings but she still did. Thats when she asked me for some help on to decide how to deal with this.  So that is why i am comming to you guys. Hopefully you have ANY kind of advice.  She would really apperciate it.

Do you think it is okie to have feelings for a teacher?

Personally i think the student should remain the student and the teacher should remain the teacher, no matter what the chemistry is.

anyways, i know this was kinda weird, but give me some feedback, plzz. !

P.S, the teacher she likes is in his mid 20's