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 Please let be the hero he was

Rushed home from work, picked mother from Hotel I have her at near hospital, spent evening with a father who’s prognosis is uncertain, spoke to the senior consultant, not sure diagnosis is correct! Need to bring in the big guns. So very tired. Mum wanted to come home, so dropped her there, but back in the hotel tomorrow.

Kids swimming class tomorrow am, then pick Mum up and back to the hospital, one of my school friends is a deputy director of medicine at a neighbouring county, so will phone him.

So tired, a glass of whisky a late sandwich and to bed, with the face of the man who was and is my hero in my minds eye, when I arrived home I went and kissed my sleeping twins and hoped I would be at least half the hero to them that my father is to me…

Thanks for all your support:

Also congrats to the yanks, getting some respect from the world at last – thank goodness for BHO

Puck




Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited about aging that you think in fractions.

'How old are you?' 'I'm four and a half!' You're never thirty-six and a half. You're four and a half, going on five! That's the key.

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.

'How old are you?' 'I'm gonna be 16!' You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16! And then the greatest day of your life ! You become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony.YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There's no fun now, you're Just a sour-dumpling.. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it's all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone...

But! wait!! ! You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and make it to 60.

You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it's a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into ! your 80's and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn't end there. Into the 90s, you start going backwards; 'I Was JUST 92.'

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. 'I'm 100 and a half!'
May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3.Keep learning. ! Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever, even ham radio. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.' And the devil's family name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6... The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever.Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips.. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
And if you don't send this to at least 8 people - who cares?But do share this with someone. We all need to live life to its fullest each day!!

Life's journey is not to
arrive at the grave safely
in a well preserved body,
but rather to skid in sideways,
totally worn out, shouting
'..holy sh*t ...what a ride!'


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PUCK ~ so many here are keeping you in our Thoughts and Prayers.

Little can be said sooooo ~

simply (((HUGS))))
and

~ Ek is Lief vir Jou ~
Posted by  UniversalSeductress  on 2009-10-09 17:43:13 
  
thanks so very much - Puck x
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 07:56:04 
  
hi puck ((((hugs))))
Posted by  snugglebum57  on 2009-10-09 17:45:28 
  
Hi SB - thanks love puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 07:56:41 
  
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo... <3
Posted by  lolav  on 2009-10-09 18:44:58 
  
Lolav - felt that - mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm - love Puck xxx
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 07:57:13 
  
my heart brakes for you...I am most certain,your twins see you as there hero......
love ya much xo M
Posted by  monicaspeaks  on 2009-10-09 18:53:29 
  
they were cute swimming this morning - Love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 07:58:09 
  
i wish i could just give you a big hug and tell you things are going to be alright. But just remember my thoughts are with you and that your a good father and the twins will always know that.
Posted by  kumusta  on 2009-10-09 19:04:39 
  
now I have a tear ...................
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 07:58:50 
  
This is the most inspirational post I have ever read from you...and I can't thank you enough...I am going to keep this for myself...think I'll post it on the bathroom mirror.

I know you are going through a tough time with your dad...just know that your friends (that would include me!) have you and your dad in our hearts and prayers. Find strength in that and in the love of your family. :-)
Posted by  funfreak  on 2009-10-09 19:43:29 
  
wow - many thanks ff - (((hugs)))) Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:00:01 
  
~ awesome post ~
Posted by  frenchkiss  on 2009-10-09 19:56:28 
  
Thanks fk - loves ya - puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:00:30 
  
Thinking of you Puck...
<<< big hugs >>>
Choco xoxo (don't forget to look afer yourself too!!)
Posted by  chococake  on 2009-10-09 21:21:22 
  
so kind Choco - thanks - Puck x
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:01:12 
  
*hugs*
Posted by  heatherslife  on 2009-10-09 22:20:01 
  
Thanks H - your wrds inspire me more than you will ever know - love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:01:55 
  
I know this is a very hard time in your life.Stay true to yourself,love with all your heart.Your children are blessed to have you to look up to,just as you have looked up to your father.You are a good man.God bless you and your family.
Posted by  nanahart  on 2009-10-09 23:50:06 
  
appreciate your words very much nana - love puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:02:53 
  
Puck my heart reaches out to you more than words can express. I pray for something such as a miricle. Bless you...hugs
Posted by  michelle8angels  on 2009-10-09 23:55:02 
  
Thank Lana - just about to take mum up to the hotel, and then we shall go see Father - with love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:03:54 
  
Hope things are better today. Sounds like it's all in God's hands.

As to age - I used to dread every big O birthday that came my way - now I value every precious day, week, month. The great thing about Thoughts is that no one worries about what age you are.

Hope your father is comfortable and your mother is at peace.
Posted by  overthehillandfar...  on 2009-10-10 07:29:58 
  
thanks E - means an awful lot - love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-10 08:04:37 
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