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 A silent reconciliation?
A silent reconciliation


I was going to take the twins to swim class today; Marge had packed the swim kit and towels in their bags. Mrs G arrived home from her morning at the bank, and said she wanted to come along. Which I have to say given circumstances was somewhat of a shock for the old Puck.

Although that said, I have been fastidious in my endeavour to not go on about my displeasure at a series of events which (for those who have read previous blogs )ended in an announcement that Mrs is G was taking herself and the twins to Singapore for four weeks.

So I pack the kids and the bags into the people carrier and Mrs G climbs in, and off we go. Silence, absolute silence between us, the radio played something or other, and after a while even the twins were giving each other sideways glances.

If I have the twins on my own, they naturally come into men’s changing rooms, but in silence little V follows Mrs G into the ladies, and little S follows me in to the male changing room.

They are starting to swim a little with the floats, and I as usual took my vantage point outside looking through the glass doors that surround three quarters of the pool. Mrs G went upstairs.

The twins change afterwards and are in the back of the back of the car, drinking juice and munching apples, and we all get home in silence. Well we talked to the twins of course, with me going into unsatisfied sports coach mode. I become more like my father every week!

Now the twins are having a snack with Marge in the kitchen, Mrs G is in the TV room, and I am in my study wondering what on earth happened. Is this woman talk for something or woman silence for something?

I really would appreciate some support from any of my friends on what they think all that meant, perhaps just as innocent as taking the kids to swim class as a family, nah it just would not be that simple.

Now I have a little time to get my mind around the official announcement on work changes that will come out next week, before I take the kids to the school camping event. To show them why I never intend to get that close to nature, and if they want to join the scouts and the guides and lay on sharpe stones all night, later in life then I will gladly drop them off and pick them up. Little V my princess I suspect is a five star all the way girl, Little S, may take a little longer to work it out, but who knows while he does he may enjoy some nature, after all I always said he must have ants in his pants the way he runs around!


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what actually speak to her...Olla I love it when you stop by , but please don't give out realtionship advise ( lol) Puck x
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-04 11:36:59 
  
hi puck have a good swim
silence can b golden at times lol
yh puck i will give that bus a miss after all
dam missed it any wayz
Posted by  snugglebum57  on 2009-07-04 11:37:07 
  
ha ha snugglebum you always bring a smile to my face - Loves ya - Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-04 11:38:50 
  
I don't think I am the right person to offer any advise here, not sure if she normally comes with you, but if not - then it is definitely reaching out :) Time to reach out too. Maybe try that point 10 of your list I did yesterday - it really worked for me :)

~One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter.~

who am I to talk though :)
(hug)
Posted by  Angie_vV  on 2009-07-04 14:03:05 
  
my friend - thats who ...puck xx
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-04 15:07:05 
  
~ Puck...i would be a bit confused as well...for me communication is the key...some silence is good but eventually you need to talk ...talk with no attitudes...no anger...no anything...just from the heart...all real...all true...you can't go wrong with that...:) ~
Posted by  frenchkiss  on 2009-07-04 14:47:54 
  
You know fjk we used to talk like that *sigh*
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-04 15:07:42 
  
~ there is always time to start doing it again.... :) hugs :) ~
Posted by  frenchkiss  on 2009-07-04 15:39:31 
  
I think I have missed something. Ugh, hate it when I do. Let me read back through all of your posts and catch up.
Posted by  heatherslife  on 2009-07-04 15:57:52 
  
Okay H - my friend - Love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-05 04:38:47 
  
I think she is sending out feelers to see how you are feeling. She knows she is *wrong* for taking the twins out for a month. But know she has no way to back out of it. Hopefully it will work out and both of you can start talking again before they leave out.
Posted by  kumusta  on 2009-07-04 23:11:03 
  
do you like olives? I think she was offering a branch.
I agree with Kumusta, she isnt sure how to back out gracefully...
Posted by  Azalia  on 2009-07-06 12:28:56 
  
Thank Az - a real friend - Love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-06 14:49:01 
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