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My Story - Some details in between

I realize that I'm leaving a lot of the parts about our love out and I think it's because this is all in the past and I've tried to move on. Here are some details and stories of the in between times.

The day I graduated was one of those days where I felt completely loved. R's mom had become like a mother to me, we had started off on the wrong foot because she was dissapointed in her son for leaving his wife but had ended up where I spoke to her several times a week and she was there for all of our major events. My graduation was no different. She had flown up that morning and I had decided to spend the day with her because R had to work. I picked her up from the airport and we went to breakfast and then to look at cars. R started work that day in the afternoon and he had called several time to check on us. I had offered that he join us but he really wanted me to just come home. He finally had to go to work and called again asking that I please by home within the next 30 minutes. I said I would but I did not get it since he would be gone.

I opened the door to my apartment and there was a note that said follow the trail. There were candles and rose petals that led me to the dining room. There was a dozen roses there, a card and a small box. He was great at expressing his feelings and the card made me cry. His mom had no clue that he had done this and she was trailing behind me. In the box was a diamond tennis bracelet. It was beautiful. It was different than any one I had ever seen because all of the edges were round. I was in tears. He had planned on giving it to me in person but I was having fun with his mom.

Another one of our stories - while we were in college, I had quite the temper. One time I got mad at him for something small. He was in the kitchen doing dishes when I cleared a small table that had glass items on it in the bedroom. I was really mad. He threw a glass at the door of the bedroom and missed the door but hit the slider. It shattered. We were both horrified and amused. We laughed for a while. We fixed the slider before moving out.

One last one - I have a condition called Hidradenitus Supportiva. It causes these cysts that come up to your skin and they can get infected. It can be pretty rough at times. Well I got one of these on a weekend and by Monday when I went to the doctor she made me go straight to the hospital. I am terried of hospitals, needles and even doctors. I had an infection in my blood and the cyst had to be removed ASAP. I spent 5 days in the hospital. He was there every day and every night. He brought me food and helped me dress. I don't like wearing hopsital gowns and the only time I wore one was during the actual surgery. He never left me for more than an hour to go home and change.

He filled a lot of roles for me which is why the next parts of my life were so hard. I wanted to get some of these things out. They are things that I can't really talk about to anyone because they should be left in the past but help show some of the parts of our relationship

Posted by prelude2it on 2008-04-01 23:59:00 | Rating: