Before long it was September and we were in counseling.  We went to our second session on September 19th.  I cried a lot in that session because of the things he said.  The counselor had met with each of us individually and then together and then he said he should tell me his thoughts, I was very hurt.

After the appointment we were going to the hospital to meet our best friend's baby who had just been born.  On the way there he pulled over and said he had to tell me that he did not know if he wanted to be married anymore.  It broke my heart.  We continued to drive and when we got to the hospital, I did my best to keep it together but it was hard. 

My best friend could tell something was wrong and she sent the guys to get food so we could talk.  She was shocked.  She said she could not believe it.  She said that sometimes she would look at us and wish that her and her husband had what we had.  We were the ones who were suppose to make it.