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Maybe I Do! on 2008-05-16 13:40:15 |
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I think your points are very valid. I remember feeling that my life was together and I hated weekends after wards. I made myself plan them because I would get sad being by myself. Do you have a Girls Night group you could join and maybe have someone watch Master 5 and Miss 8?
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where are you ...?? on 2008-05-16 13:24:40 |
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I'm sending you a hug. Hope everything works out for you.
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The Playa who Got Played on 2008-05-16 12:55:04 |
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I truly believe what you do to someone else comes back to you. I have seen it in my life, I wonder if this will make him change or do the same thing again?
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The words of my life. on 2008-05-16 11:00:30 |
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That was good, I can relate.
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update again ;) on 2008-05-16 10:57:32 |
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I know the feeling of feeling like you need a breather. I wish you the best with your mom.
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drunken poetry on 2008-05-16 10:55:45 |
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You express yourself well with your poetry
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What is Love? on 2008-05-16 10:53:02 |
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That was sweet, I loved the last one.
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Lay your Hands on me on 2008-05-16 10:47:10 |
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Glad you had a better day. Wagoner sounds great, he seems to do what he should. :)
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Friend Drama on 2008-05-16 10:44:24 |
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I agree with you on that. I met Brian on a dating site and I have not looked back. I think if I had a big doubt I might but not at 3 weeks, you barely know him. The point of dating is to get to know him not tell him how to act.
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Pocket on 2008-05-15 23:45:00 |
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It has not rained here in weeks and we need it! Glad things worked out with Pocket, good luck.
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Hold My Feet and Make Me Cry on 2008-05-15 18:27:02 |
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I read this yesterday and did not know what to say, I guess I had to give it some thought. I think it's awesome that you can do that, I don't think I am mature enough emotionally yet to do something like this but I find it a really good thing.
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My Life Is So Different on 2008-05-15 18:24:45 |
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It sounds like you had a really good trip. I hope things work out and you end up together soon. Sounds like a wonderful Mother's day too.
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Facts about me that you don't know or care!!! on 2008-05-15 14:08:32 |
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This was funny, I was amused at the goat, shot at and found the crime profiling really interesting! I love black clothes, one of my favorite places is white house black market.
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Missing Person -Difficultsoul - Please help on 2008-05-15 13:59:18 |
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Good one, I started to wonder too.
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Mass Finger Crossing on 2008-05-15 13:51:11 |
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I hope it works out!!!
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An Email From Broadzilla... on 2008-05-15 13:49:22 |
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Yep and Mamacita can add Cheetos to their laundry.
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Chop Suey on 2008-05-15 09:31:47 |
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I hope today is better, I seem to be on a sucky streak too. Hope they get better.
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Do you ever feel wierd? on 2008-05-14 21:47:06 |
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Blue - That is very true. Good point. I need you to be here when I argue, I don't put things as well.
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Do you ever feel wierd? on 2008-05-14 21:45:04 |
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K - I can relate with the invention to ease a broken heart if someone came up with that, they would be rich!
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Do you ever feel wierd? on 2008-05-14 21:40:23 |
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Thanks Meredith - I am having doubt and I miss him but I know I have to do this.
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Do you ever feel wierd? on 2008-05-14 21:33:39 |
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Mamacita - that is great. I loved the cheetos unfortunately it won't fix this issue.
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I Love Trouble! on 2008-05-14 16:14:30 |
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I'm starting to worry about you, is everything ok?
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I hope it wasn't you .... on 2008-05-14 16:07:02 |
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Ha Ha, cute one.
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Men are not like trolley cars on 2008-05-14 15:22:35 |
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Good post, you seem to have figured out what you have to do. I believe we have to take time to find ourselves again. It took me a long time to get over Ronald but I finally did.
Now I am struggling with my own Brian but I think the best thing to do is go through it and hopefully I will end up ok on the other end. I ask myself why I have fallen for the emotionally unavailable one who I thought would break my heart from the beginning. I don't know but there has to be a reason why we go through all this, I just haven't figured out what that is yet.
Hang in there and best of luck to you.
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Hard Lesson Learnt. on 2008-05-14 14:31:00 |
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I learned when I was very young how detrimental it can be to lend people money, I would say that I don't lend anyone money but I recently lent a family member money. I will probably never see it.
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Doing what you dread and liking it on 2008-05-14 13:04:01 |
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As you can tell I am catching up with your posts. Another good one. I have some spanx that sounds like your knickers. Isn't having to loose weight dreadful? I saw pictures of myself and realized it's time to loose 10 lbs. Uggh.
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The gorgeous guy, the nanny and me on 2008-05-14 12:57:32 |
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I read every word. You are a very good writer, I too got the chills. That was a great story, it made me hope that romantic people still exist.
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Wandering through the desert on 2008-05-14 10:51:25 |
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I hope so, I'm not the type to memorize and just repeat things. I get mad/sad and I question a lot!
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AN AMERICAN IN TIM TAM LAND...... on 2008-05-14 10:20:27 |
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That is awesome. You guys rock, I'm glad you have developed a friendship!
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Wandering through the desert on 2008-05-14 10:13:16 |
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That was really good. It's making me think about a lot of things in my own life. I hope your friends and family get better soon.
I said a little prayer for you, although I don't pray like traditional people, I just talk to Him.
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on the rivers edge on 2008-05-14 00:09:14 |
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You express yourself very well with very few words. I hope that you find what you are looking for in your special place.
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I made my first goal. on 2008-05-14 00:03:24 |
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Thanks Tony. I am struggling with letting go of someone that I love but is probably not the one for me.
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Everyone Needs Someone on 2008-05-13 23:09:51 |
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Great post.
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Daddy, Can You Hear Me? on 2008-05-13 23:08:19 |
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That was sweet. I really liked it.
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She knows who and why on 2008-05-13 16:10:02 |
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Wow, it sounds like you may have a new love in mind.
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The Power Of Love on 2008-05-13 16:07:22 |
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I like that, hope everything is going well for you.
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Drama on 2008-05-13 16:06:24 |
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My friend is really ridiculous, she did finally tell him her age but they are always fighting and she's not happy but she stays. Starting off on a lie is never a good idea.
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Tuesday another day for the dogs on 2008-05-13 16:03:38 |
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I hope you have a good second day at work.
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2 DAYS AND COUNTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-05-13 16:02:23 |
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I hope all is going well.
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DOUBLE JEOPARDY...........A GOOD THING??? on 2008-05-13 16:01:27 |
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I have been shocked by the crap I have read about OJ, he's a criminal who is free.
As for you, the legal system can be very unfair. Do you have an attorney? They should be able to fight the abandonment, I guess it depends on the state. Florida is a no fault state so here, it would not matter. Maybe you should just move down here and file :)
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We Think Alike *Smile* on 2008-05-13 15:56:47 |
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That was sweet. I'm glad you are happy!
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I made my first goal. on 2008-05-13 14:43:57 |
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Thanks angelwings, I feel like I'm trying to take the easy way out but it's what I want right now.
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You have been gone for so long. on 2008-05-13 14:35:33 |
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Wonderful news, I am so happy for you. Congratulations!
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Ten years and a day on 2008-05-13 14:29:50 |
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I have read a few of your posts and I wonder if you are in love and happy with him. Do you feel connected to him? Is he what you want for the rest of your life? Remember that marriage should be for the rest of your life.
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Monday on 2008-05-13 14:21:27 |
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It sounds like the things that come natural for you do not for him. Have you ever talked to him about making an effort and what it would mean to you?
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smoking on 2008-05-13 14:18:22 |
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You can do it! Good luck.
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Boss on 2008-05-13 14:16:27 |
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I hear you on being tired, I'm woke up tired this morning and I hate that.
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Family & Baseball & Migraines, Oh My… on 2008-05-13 14:07:50 |
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Your uncle's girlfriend sounds like a real treat.
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Drama on 2008-05-13 14:01:54 |
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I have thought about your disturbing thought quite a few times and I agree with Meredith. I think the guys that are serious won't focus on age as much. At least I hope that's the case.
I have a friend who is doing online dating and currently puts that she's 25 when she's 33. She's dating a 24 year old right now, who she's not a match for.
I'm glad you are deciding to get out there again. Have fun on your vacation!
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I made my first goal. on 2008-05-12 15:23:43 |
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Thanks Meredith. I'm here if you need someone to talk to or bounce ideas of off.
Shemelts - I hope so. I feel good about my decisions right now, we'll see how I am by this time next week.
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I'm Alive on 2008-05-12 15:12:53 |
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It seems like you a realizing what you want to do and get out of your life. Good luck, you will probably be unstoppable once you get on that road.
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It's a Cage Match: Me Vs. The Big Guy on 2008-05-12 14:44:42 |
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I think it's awesome that you can pray for him because you think you should. I can't figure out what words to use to describe how strong I think you are for being able to do that.
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Just Trying to Be Friends..... on 2008-05-12 14:18:17 |
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How sad, it sounds like you eldest likes to please people. That was really nasty of the other little girl, you did the right thing by letting it go.
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Screwed on 2008-05-12 12:50:00 |
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I have that mood often. I'm in a wierd one now though, but I'm surprisingly optimistic. Maybe we should plan something fun to look forward to.
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Mother's Day at our house. on 2008-05-12 12:48:21 |
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Your niece is a smart girl. I think it's awesome that she has observed you and you can tell she looks up to you. Your family also sounds great.
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Can't resist ... it's FOTY TIME on 2008-05-10 09:36:45 |
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This is why he is father of the year! He does not realize what he is doing to his kids.
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Debbie does damage on 2008-05-10 00:49:39 |
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I think everyone has a Debbie. Have you ever run into her?
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The last chapter on 2008-05-10 00:38:50 |
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I, like you, have had my share of bad relationships and at the moment, I still believe that there are good guys out there. Maybe it's more hope than truly believe.
Anyway, I think you should try dating again. I don't know about online, because I have met quite a few doozies so I think I want to meet people in person but you have to put yourself out there. You know you want certain things in life and you will regret it later on if you don't have them.
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Men Who Can't Love on 2008-05-10 00:31:33 |
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Sounds like a good book. I can totally relate. I seem to have that pattern with Brian, now that it's over, he's wonderful. As long as I keep my life busy and he's not the focus, he will do anything to have me and wants a life with me. This is so weird.
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What REALLY Matters on 2008-05-09 16:12:10 |
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You learned from it therefore the winee post was worth it. Have a great weekend.
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Riding it Out.... on 2008-05-09 16:06:49 |
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You have gone through a lot and are still going through it. You are very strong and have made it through this, if you feel you need a little help, it's ok. You have a plan and things will work out. I'm sending you some well wishes and a hug.
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-09 15:34:01 |
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You would not want to live in Florida! It was 86 yesterday.
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A stranger at my own party on 2008-05-09 14:48:57 |
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That must have been weird. I know I had my share of mean kids in elementary school. Did you make friends with any of them after?
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Quiet Days .... on 2008-05-09 14:33:24 |
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That was sweet. It was nice that you realized that. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and that your husband keeps doing well.
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The boss's son, the girl from accounts and me on 2008-05-09 12:53:29 |
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That was really well written. I felt like I was there.
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Confussed on 2008-05-09 09:50:54 |
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There are tons of Escalades in my community driven by white people.
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skated my way to the emergency room on 2008-05-09 09:49:38 |
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That was a cute story, well written. It must have been cute to see all of the other kids scooting.
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Two Roads, a poem for my brother on 2008-05-09 08:43:10 |
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That was really good. It's awesome that you can see your brother in this way.
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Our Angels on 2008-05-09 08:40:25 |
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That's awesome that you share with your mom. I'm not familiar with Two Roads, I'll check your other posts.
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BUSY DAY....GOOD DAY! on 2008-05-09 08:34:15 |
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I'm so glad you had a good day. You deserve it. I love to cook so I can understand being excited about recipes. Maybe you should share some with us! :)
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I had an accident and texted him. on 2008-05-09 08:22:40 |
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Thank you for the well wishes. My neck is achy today so I am working from home so that I can do the ice/heat thing.
Blue - It's not bad, you have probably heard enough about Bri to develop an opinion.
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Our Angels on 2008-05-08 23:18:40 |
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That was very sweet. Have you written like this for your mom?
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DO YOU THINK I'LL HAVE HOMEWORK??? on 2008-05-08 23:16:03 |
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I think you should do it. There are people of all ages in college. You'll enjoy it and it will benefit your future. I started 3 years after high school and it's worth it now, I graduated 6 years ago.
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8th sign of the end of the world...or not on 2008-05-08 19:00:16 |
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Good luck with everything with NQRW. I can relate to emailing though, sometimes I will write something instead of arguing about it in person. I feel like I can get all of my points across in an email.
I know it sucks, specially if you are a communicator. Just giving you a different perspective.
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Unsolved Mysteries on 2008-05-08 14:58:24 |
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Dogs have a good sense. If they don't like someone it's for a reason.
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worse than going to the dentist? on 2008-05-08 14:55:42 |
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Cute post. Hope your gums are ok today. You should post about Debbie. :)
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Santa Monica on 2008-05-08 14:49:00 |
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Enjoy your day off.
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Planning my "D" Party... wanna come?? on 2008-05-08 10:19:48 |
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That was Definately to Die for. I thought it was cute :)
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Yes I signed the bloody papers!!! on 2008-05-08 10:18:11 |
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Easy - this man sucks! I can't believe he could not remember the damn wedding day. That's just crappy, after you ahve given him 2 beautiful children and had a life together. What is it about 10 year relationships? That's how long mine lasted too. Oh and I would probably want to tell him enough to go shopping for yourself, buy yourself something nice. You deserve it, but then again, I would have trouble living with myself if I was dishonest and would probably just be happy to have it over with.
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Hold me on 2008-05-08 09:58:46 |
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I'm glad they are replacing the frames for free. That movie sounds wierd, I think your summary was enough for me.
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Lady Botox on 2008-05-08 09:56:04 |
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I hope you are feeling better and the headache goes away.
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I’m No David Copperfield… on 2008-05-08 09:53:19 |
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Hope you are doing better today. Did you enjoy your evening out?
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You are my world on 2008-05-07 16:51:30 |
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That was sweet.
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Good News all round on 2008-05-07 16:50:44 |
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Cute post, no kids but your 12 lb new born must have looked like a 3 month old.
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Wishing it would rain on 2008-05-07 16:03:22 |
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Thank you for sharing the rest of the story. Would you be driving with Kenny or go for company? If you could be a driving team, that could make pretty good money. Maybe then you could afford to have a nurse come in and check on your mom every day. It could give you peace of mind.
Do you keep in regular contact with Kenny?
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FOTY update....divorce & the derr factor! on 2008-05-07 11:36:05 |
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I think you did the right thing. He's missing out on his children's life and at some point, he will regret that.
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2 weeks on 2008-05-07 11:12:46 |
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Congratulations on the weight loss so far. YOu can do it, you just have to stay focused. I got as heavy as 215 and now have mantained between 145 and 150 for a year. Stay focused.
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just an update, I guess on 2008-05-07 09:43:49 |
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I'm glad you are doing better. It's nice to get an update.
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The 2nd wisest woman in the world on 2008-05-07 09:39:27 |
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What you wrote struck me. It was well written and I read every word because I wanted to find out what she said. Your grandmother sounds like a strong insightful person. That strength and way of thinking is very evident in you. You also write well.
I try to believe that everything we go through is for a reason and it prepares us for what's to come in some way, maybe to appreciate what we have, I don't know.
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Friends are great but sometimes difficult! on 2008-05-07 09:23:22 |
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Thanks for all of your comments. I posted pictures of the girls. I have to pick up the Glamour Shots on Friday. I had done it when I was a teenager and it's changed a lot for the better. I think the pics will be cute. Jen loves that kind of stuff and has always dreamt of being a model so she loved it.
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The verdict is in.....I think I'll cry on 2008-05-06 17:57:43 |
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I agree with Meredith on all counts.
I don't think he read your blog and if he did, you didn't say anything bad or wrong. I'm glad you got the dog untangled. That was awesome of you, you are one tough cookie!
Is there anything you have been wanting to do at home? Maybe tonight's a good night to do it.
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Friends are great but sometimes difficult! on 2008-05-06 15:55:31 |
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Meredith,
My hair gets frizzy and is wavy, I think like I saw in your Costa Rica pictures so hair is very important to me. I usually have to flat iron or blow dry it.
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I Love Trouble! on 2008-05-06 15:41:48 |
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I can't see anything on the page so I don't get it.
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I'm Remembering, and I Miss You.. on 2008-05-06 15:34:02 |
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This seems to be coming from your heart. I hope he returns to you soon.
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One Day it may be too Late on 2008-05-06 13:07:41 |
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Well written, I like it.
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there's a ghost in this house on 2008-05-06 13:06:12 |
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That was really good. I'm sure Meredith will like it too.
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Girl Fight on 2008-05-06 09:46:35 |
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I think the same thing, you should have the parents pay for them. They should also discipline their kids. I understand Kaylie, I was like that as a kid. Not to worry, you get harder with life.
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An Amputation for my birthday!? on 2008-05-06 09:42:17 |
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Your mom is a tough one. That made me smile. I hope you have a wonderful mother's day, you deserve it!
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Genius, Incorporated on 2008-05-06 09:38:13 |
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HOpe you have a good day. Broadzilla is a real winner, it looks like she is just looking for a reason to yell.
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"Real World" Love and Relationships on 2008-05-05 14:01:25 |
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This was a good post. It's true, here you see people for who they are on the inside. In the real world you get who they want you to see.
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Rule #1: If he's not calling, he's not into you on 2008-05-05 11:56:19 |
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That's a good observation Blue, if he realizes it, he will call. My friend just had a guy call and ask her out after 4 months of beating around the bush.
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Just over 2 days on 2008-05-05 11:49:55 |
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Thank you Meri & Blue. You are both great.
I love the pic Meri.
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A new roomie, the police visit my living room on 2008-05-05 09:29:43 |
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I can't believe you made the stain glassed window. I'm impressed. You should send pictures or post them.
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Just over 2 days on 2008-05-05 09:23:12 |
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Thanks, Easy. I'm trying to convince myself of that, I know it in my head but it's hard. I find myself thinking about seeing him and I have to let that go.
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VS Pink on 2008-05-05 00:48:53 |
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I have just started the process and I can relate.
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just a little something for my friends here on 2008-05-05 00:45:48 |
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That was really sweet. I enjoy reading your posts. You are a good writer.
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Learning the Ozzie Speak on 2008-05-05 00:41:35 |
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That was a cute one. I learned some new words. I hope you were able to get the power straightened out.
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Rule #1: If he's not calling, he's not into you on 2008-05-05 00:37:42 |
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I think it's natural too. I just think it can be hard to let go of something you want.
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Most times, things don't go like you planned on 2008-05-05 00:11:37 |
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I agree with Meri, the guy is a chicken shit and therefore not that into you.
You are a good person, I think I would have taken him in and asked so where have you been for the past x number of years. I know, I can be mean. We all have our moments. You're a good friend.
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Home is where you hang your hat on 2008-05-05 00:05:33 |
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Blue,
I love Tampa! It's the best place I have lived so far, hopefully you will to. Let me know if you decide to come down for a visit.
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Danger !! Being Mindful Can Change Your Life! on 2008-05-05 00:01:19 |
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Great post. This may be my week to try to be more mindful since I have a lot to think about.
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Rain on 2008-05-04 10:31:36 |
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Are you going to tell us more about Kenny?
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My thoughts on infidelity on 2008-05-03 00:53:27 |
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OMG Blue, you are so strong. I thought that was a great post. I can't believe you did that. You are an awesome negotiator! I guess I'm just speechless with this one but I can say you wrote in such a way that I could feel your pain.
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Coming Home in the clouds on 2008-05-03 00:42:01 |
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I think you are great. I loved the Your Hung and your bag is hung.
I would agree with the newbie and I think there are people our age that will agree with him too. I am like you and Meri where I feel like I excel at work and I'm confident but in relationships I just don't. My judgment sucks and I've been stuck for a long time. Enough about me. Glad you are home and it sounds like you had a good trip.
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An Andy Rooney/pet peeve moment here on 2008-05-01 18:17:19 |
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I think it depends on how people chew gum. Some are really rude and open mouthed.
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What I want to say . . . on 2008-05-01 16:50:43 |
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Thanks Ellie. I'm trying but we seem to grown closer and then further apart. It's like it ebbs and flows. I don't know if I can take it. I want to because the good is so good.
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Ready, Set, Comment! on 2008-05-01 16:48:52 |
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To your first question - homelessness. To question two, yeah it sucks but the long hair is nice afterwards. #3 It's like in math when you multiply tow negatives you get a positive. That's enough for me.
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Light on 2008-05-01 16:43:50 |
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That's a good one.
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Needing to let go on 2008-05-01 16:12:58 |
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Colorado - I ask myself that same question and I don't know that I should wait and see.
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Needing to let go on 2008-05-01 16:11:37 |
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E - Thank you for your comment & prayer. It is much appreciated.
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Needing to let go on 2008-05-01 16:10:28 |
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Mamacita - Thank you for understanding. I know it's what I need to do. I can't keep wishing/wanting for him to change it's not fair to him or me.
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What I want to say . . . on 2008-05-01 16:07:33 |
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Thanks Meredith! You are wonderful.
E - Maybe it's Brian's/Bryan's that don't know what to do with emotions. I don't know. I have tried to believe that if I get a lot of good then it would out weigh the bad but it's hard on me emotionally. Thank you for your words and prayers.
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Quote of the Day 1 on 2008-05-01 14:04:32 |
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I think she is saying that some people love her but must people don't.
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Thursday...... good BUT ranting! on 2008-05-01 13:10:45 |
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Easy,
It's ok to rant. It's damn hard to be alone with your children. I learned that pain is pain, whether some one else has more trouble in their life, we all feel the same. It does not make your pain any less valid.
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Breathe on 2008-05-01 13:00:40 |
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I'm sending you a big hug. That's a hard one. As you know Kaylie is your blessing, maybe she's there for a reason. I hope they can reverse it.
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Friends & Their Dilemmas on 2008-05-01 10:09:00 |
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Thank you guys for all the well wishes!
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IDK, Something for internet relationships? on 2008-05-01 10:07:16 |
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Thank you, that made me smile
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We cant..... on 2008-05-01 10:05:17 |
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very moving.
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writing,, the unthinkable, unimaginable love story on 2008-05-01 10:04:16 |
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Interesting story.
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How I met my husband on 2008-05-01 09:56:17 |
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That was a cute story. I enjoyed it.
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What I want to say . . . on 2008-05-01 09:50:51 |
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Overthehillandfaraway - He really is a good guy with a good heart. He's all of these good things but he can't be there when I'm sad, he shuts off and I don't know hot to turn it back on.
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Stop Whining Already...GEESH!!! on 2008-05-01 09:46:01 |
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I wish you both the best.
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Our Children Are Watching... on 2008-05-01 09:41:09 |
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good post. although I don't have kids I can appreciate it.
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The rings on 2008-05-01 09:39:05 |
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Here's my story with this:
My exhusband cheated and he kept his wedding right with him on his key chain because he said he could not let it go.
For me, the day I asked for a divorce I took it off but I keep it because it is a memory of what could have been and what my life was.
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A Wave Over Me on 2008-05-01 09:31:54 |
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See it as a big learning lesson. You will be better in the end. I hope the state comes through. I'm sorry you are going through this. I'll say a prayer for you.
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Needing to let go on 2008-05-01 09:27:55 |
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Thank you Bullseye - you are a good friend.
Introspective - it's hard when there is not the lieing and cheating to let go. It's what I thought I wanted someone who was honest and has integrity but now I have found it and it's not enough. I never thought it would be not be enough.
Tony - It's hard becase I tell him and he's so emotionally unavailable that he can't do anything about it. I know he wants to but he's very closed off. Thank you for your words.
Hollis - I know. Believe it or not he was looking at his programs. He had been thinking of an issue all night and then figured it out and had to write the code. He is incredibly smart and gets focused on things. I try to accept it but sometimes it drives me nuts.
Easy - Thank you. This is very hard for me because I think in our good times we are a 90% match and I have not had that since my divorce. It's hard to let go of someone with a lot of good qualities who does not lie to you but unless something changes I have to. Also - as you know I am really happy for you and thank you for your support.
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Just another day... on 2008-05-01 09:14:05 |
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That was a good post. I can feel your pain. I was in a 10 year relationship where he cheated but now after 4 and a half years apart and being in a different relationship I can say that time really does heal all wounds.
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Love without LIES on 2008-05-01 09:09:17 |
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I believe you can have respect and integrity and not have love. I believe because I am honest that there have to be other people out there that love completley and are like me. I think even in a great relationship there are things you may not share but it's out of respect for the other person - more mystery less history - but apart from that your lover should be your best friend.
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All of them on 2008-05-01 09:05:10 |
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YOu have had a rough relationship. I'm sorry. There are people out there that are good. I know a lot of women who have never cheated.
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I wonder how you are - I'm the only one on 2008-05-01 09:00:31 |
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Thank you for your comment. What is IMO? I think there are few good people but they are out there.
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Francy, the cheeseplant, the mother and the Busy L on 2008-05-01 07:03:53 |
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That was a sweet story. Thanks for sharing.
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