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DIET DIVORCE A NEW PROJECT?? OH YEAH! on 2008-03-31 22:29:25 |
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I wish you the best. Good luck in everything you do.
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Modern Medicine versus Prayer. on 2008-03-31 22:26:15 |
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I agree with Mamacita. Faith combined with modern medicine works miracles. I wish you well and quick healing.
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A Horrible Thing That Happened to Me on 2008-03-31 22:09:39 |
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I think counseling can help you gain closure. Sharing it is also a big step. This is very supportive group and helps me a lot.
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Protection on 2008-03-31 21:57:53 |
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This is only site I have ever written on and people are so supportive. I can't imagine having to leave because of those same people. Nice post.
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Needing Others on 2008-03-31 21:53:17 |
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This post is so true. It's hard to seek help when you need it though. Thanks for the post.
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ER on 2008-03-31 19:12:39 |
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That was funny. Ha Ha. Thanks for sharing. What ended up being wrong with your knee? The swelling would have freaked me out too.
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The Naked Emperor on 2008-03-31 16:35:23 |
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I can relate to Peaches, when I first read your story I thought it was wrong and it pushed a lot of buttons for me because of my divorce and cheating husband. I realize though that some people are not meant for each other and that your situation seems very different to my past, which is why I can wish you the best.
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Childish or kid at heart? on 2008-03-31 16:25:26 |
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I think you are a kid at heart but that's awesome. I love birthdays!
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I would like to thank the academy... on 2008-03-31 16:10:58 |
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That's funny. I'm on there only because I tried adding a category to my blogs. Uggh! :)
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Sounds to remember.... on 2008-03-31 08:57:00 |
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You are good father. I bet they miss you too.
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Just the Facts Maam - and who am I? on 2008-03-30 17:32:47 |
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Not all men are like FOTY, some actually take care of their children and are faithful imagine that. I believe there will be another wonderful one in your future.
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speaking of letting it go and walking away.... on 2008-03-30 17:29:17 |
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I agree, tell him how you feel. He will probably explain and you will get to a place where you are happy again. The person that loves you never intends to not make you happy. I like you can be happy with everyday. :)
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Walk away... on 2008-03-30 17:25:58 |
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I know this but I have a hard time practicing it. Uggh, I get troubled with myself because I am struggling so hard with letting go.
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My Father Stole My identity on 2008-03-30 11:38:01 |
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Wow. I can't believe a father would do that to his own daughter. You are so strong! You did the right thing. I hope that there are no other credit cards and that you can put this behind you. I'm shocked that a father would be so selfish. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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The Physio, Coco the Clown and Me on 2008-03-30 11:27:07 |
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That's funny. Good think you checked before meeting her for lunch.
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Secret on 2008-03-30 11:21:59 |
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That was pretty. I believe in tomorrow.
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To: Everyone who get's mad when I say stuff about on 2008-03-29 00:07:00 |
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Being fat is not as easy as you think. It's not a choice for some people. I was a size 4/6 for a long time. I got sick and could not excercise or sweat for over a year! I went up to a size 14. After 3 surgeries, I was able to start working out and have leveled out at a size 8 but it's contstant thinking about what I eat. I also have to work out to mantain that. It's not as easy for everyone.
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I'M BACK WITH A FURY! on 2008-03-28 23:57:00 |
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Glad your back!
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He's not getting killed, he's getting mad on 2008-03-28 23:46:06 |
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Thank you. I was concerned that I came across to strongly.
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Thoughts Vs. MySpace… on 2008-03-28 19:04:37 |
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That's an interesting dream. I don't know what I believe about dreams. I have to say that I have tons of friends on Myspace but I rarely visit. I feel like people on here are more supportive. I check out thoughts every day because I want to know what is going on with people's lives and I go weeks in between checking myspace. This is more of a close knit community. As for the friends, I know the feeling. I've been ditched at times too and usually I just distance myself from people that are not real friends. I'm at the point in my life that I can do without the BS.
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Cant shake it on 2008-03-28 19:00:16 |
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I have had those feelings before. Usually there's something to it but sometimes it just goes away and I never know why. Maybe it's just anxiety. Who knows, hope it goes away.
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Wants and don't wants on 2008-03-28 18:58:36 |
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Thanks Bullseye - we shall see in time.
Meredith - you are moving on which is great!
Fancie - Thanks and same to you.
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I am My Own World on 2008-03-28 18:55:24 |
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That was awesome. I know the feeling, as I have said before you are very enlightened. You also express yourself very well. Thanks.
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He's not getting killed, he's getting mad on 2008-03-28 18:41:41 |
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I read your posts and I think that part of the reason you have doubt is because you met KP and realized what you could have. Once that door is open it's very hard to close it and look at your parther through the eyes you would have looked at them before. You have a glimpse of what your life could be like and you realize what it is not and what you are missing. I don't think that door can be closed after that, especially when you know how wonderful life can be when you are truly in love.
I think cheating is horrible and I do feel bad for your wife because you have developed a strong emotional connection with someone else and she has to feel the distance between you. At this point though, it would be hard to turn back to your wife because your connection with KP is so strong. I hope that your wife meets someone that is like her and ok with just existing. I hope this does not come across as if I am putting you down because that is not my intention. I understand you and what you feel because I often feel the same in my relationship but because I have been cheated on I also know how much that hurts. A divorce is painful for the person that is left alone but not for one who has someone else. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you in the end and that you and KP are happy with whatever happens.
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I found my Christmas Spirit. on 2008-03-28 15:00:54 |
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YOu have something very special between both of you. You make me wonder what will happen when and if you ever meet.
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Ohhh Boy has it been that long? on 2008-03-28 14:51:14 |
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I wish you both the best.
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Am I a player? Broken I am for sure. on 2008-03-28 14:46:20 |
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Good to get that out there. I think you have to go into it with an open mind and see what happens. I've been there where I think someone is great and crazy about me and nothing on my part. It sucks!
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MY DRUG PROBLEM on 2008-03-28 14:13:46 |
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That was good, nice post.
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Who said I was rationale???? on 2008-03-28 10:53:27 |
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Your wife is trying, you have to give her that. I think if you both could truly try it could work but you would have to make a decision to only want her. When you have a glimpse of what could be it's hard to see what is and make it work.
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FOTY really won't learn... will he!? on 2008-03-28 10:40:14 |
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Your kids are great. I think he needs to be more sensitive to how his kids feel and how they perceive JS.
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Welcome to Snots.com on 2008-03-28 10:35:06 |
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Good post. I agree with you.
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ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST! on 2008-03-27 17:34:49 |
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You have to do what is ok within you. I hope that you find it back here, you have a strong support network here and it may be hard to let that go. I hope that one person does not run you off, for some people this is their haven. I wish you the best.
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She’s just not that into me on 2008-03-27 10:04:51 |
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Again, I read your post and thought we are alike: I go to meetup events too, I'm an organizer for a Girls Night Out group. Anyway, my thought is that I would treat it like a dating relationship and let it be. I have learned that most people go to meetups to not really make friendships but to just stay busy. Although I have also made a handful of friends that I hang out with ocassionaly, the majority of people I never see again. If she's interested she will send you an email or something.
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Bad Boys on 2008-03-27 09:49:53 |
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What a jerk! I would have been pretty mad. I bet he would get in trouble if he were caught wearing the jacket. I check on Britney too but she hasn't been up to much lately. :)
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A First Date .... A success on 2008-03-27 09:44:52 |
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That is great! I'm glad you enjoyed it. I think I need to have one of those, myself
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Growing up .... Stupid ? on 2008-03-27 09:37:16 |
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They definitely exist. I have seen my share of them.
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The things I couldn't tell you on 2008-03-26 23:46:15 |
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I wish you well. I have read a lot of your posts & whiteknight's posts tonight. There's not much I can say but I hope that you can hold on to some faith, believing you will make it through will get you through it and make time pass.
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Telling SH he has a baby part 2. on 2008-03-26 23:42:37 |
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Thank you for sharing this. You are very strong. I think it's awesome that you chose to give your child a family that loved and wanted them. It must have been very hard.
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Telling S.H. he has a baby. on 2008-03-26 23:35:57 |
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Wow. It's a small world. That must have been really hard on you.
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More than just a Blog on 2008-03-26 21:06:54 |
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That was sweet. I read Bullseye's blog daily. I'm glad he decided to stay.
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hard on 2008-03-26 21:05:22 |
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It sounds like you need to rest. I hope you have a good night and can get some sleep.
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You make me completely miserable... on 2008-03-26 20:58:46 |
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Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. I know that type of relationship. "Catnip and Kryptonite", good luck and stay strong.
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Ten things guys should learn on 2008-03-26 20:55:08 |
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Nice blog. Guys could take notes from it.
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uggggggggggggghhhh. on 2008-03-26 20:49:26 |
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Please don't give up. It will happen. I have a friend who tried for over a year to have a baby, she even went on fertility drugs and tried in vitro. Nothing worked, well two months after they stopped the treatments, she got pregnant! She has a beautiful girl and boy now.
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hmmm.. on 2008-03-26 20:44:28 |
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This sucks! I think real friends are friends regardless of where you are in life. One of my best friends is married with two kids and I enjoy hanging out with her, even though I'm single. Real friends will be there for you. Maybe you should talk to them. I hope you feel better, hopefully it will pass soon!
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Bob on 2008-03-26 20:32:49 |
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Bob sounds like a wonderful guy. It sounds like you have a good relationship with him. I hope he makes it longer than expected.
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Back Home on 2008-03-26 20:19:36 |
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I'm glad you are back together. This is great.
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Maybe a study worth the money, maybe on 2008-03-26 13:40:17 |
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That's really insightful. I feel like my boyfriend and I play a game. When I start enjoying life and not worrying about him, he pulls forward and starts doing nice things. My exhusband says he always felt like he didn't deserve me and he tried really hard for many years. I think you are right on the money with this one.
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tell you what I want what I really really want on 2008-03-26 13:28:05 |
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I think this is what we all want. I think few people have it but if I can have the majority of it then I'll be happy.
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Marriage on 2008-03-26 13:19:19 |
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I believe a lot of people throw the Christian term around. If his girlfriend were truly a believer she would not go out with a married man, it would be against her beliefs. When men fall for someone they are blinded by that for a long time. If you are meant to be together his eyes will open and he will see what he needs to do. Keep busy and enjoy your children.
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thoughts on 2008-03-26 13:15:58 |
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I know you don't want to hear this but it takes 2 to make a relationship work. I tried very hard to make my marriage work and in the end it failed because I was the only one trying, he was still cheating and lieing to me about it. I think the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel about him, what you want and then let him come back and find you. If he doesn't then at least you did what you could.
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I'm ready freddie, whoever you are on 2008-03-26 13:03:22 |
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Good luck with your move. It sounds like a good one.
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work on 2008-03-26 11:23:19 |
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Glad you are back and healing well. You'll get rid of the crutches soon.
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Taking My Own Advice.... on 2008-03-26 11:21:14 |
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This is great! I look forward to reading your blogs. I'm glad you are staying!
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aaarghhh on 2008-03-26 11:17:13 |
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I think when you want someone and you feel like the feelings are not being reciprocated you want them more. It's human nature and I hate it!
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He hasnt called on 2008-03-26 11:14:57 |
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I agree with Mer & Colorado. Keep busy. I have been in your shoes many times. When this happened with my now boyfriend, I started going for walks and calling friends. I actually lost 8 lbs in 6 weeks because I got so busy. Use this to your advantage. You deserve to be wanted completely.
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Scared of a 7 year old on 2008-03-26 11:08:52 |
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I would keep your daughter away from this kid. Trust your instinct.
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Scared of a 7 year old on 2008-03-26 11:08:48 |
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I would keep your daughter away from this kid. Trust your instinct.
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Social Experiment No.1 on 2008-03-26 10:56:06 |
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That's cool. I have done that too and had a good time. Enjoy yourself. I liked the exchange with KP, that was cute.
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Ditched for the ditcher on 2008-03-26 10:54:07 |
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I have learned that you can be friends after time has passed and that as long as you are not both attracted to each other at the same time, things will work. Time is really important with this.
With my current relationship, we tried being friends when we broke up and ended sleeping together and becoming a couple again. I would say keep your distance for a while, I would not want to be the other woman. In situations like this, I know if I were the girlfriend I would want to know what my boyfriend was up to.
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Penis, Varginia, Jobs, Blow, Nude Obama on 2008-03-26 00:18:41 |
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This is the first time I read your post. Interesting. I guess I should check out the forums.
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AND SHE SLEPT ! on 2008-03-26 00:04:34 |
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I think it's awesome that you were strong enough to make a move. Good luck.
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It's Tuesday .. you know what that means on 2008-03-25 23:32:30 |
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You are a very insightful person. I think it's awesome that you can see his sadness but know that it is probably temporary. I don't know if he will come back but I believe that you are a strong woman that will find happiness again whether it's with him or not. I read what Caring Advis said and I tend to agree.
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Day 5 post op on 2008-03-25 21:21:15 |
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I'm glad to hear you are doing better and you didn't wake up. The pics are so different. Thanks for sharing.
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I won't let the door hit me.... on 2008-03-25 21:15:43 |
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I can't believe you are not going to be on here. I check on your blog every time I'm on here and I'm going to miss you. You are a great guy and an awesome father. I hope you decide to write here.
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Free to be me and me on 2008-03-25 13:12:19 |
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I am so happy for you. It sounds like you are both enjoying getting to know each other. I read the beginning of your post and I was amused because that is my usual Saturday morning, I don't like to make plans until later in the day because I like to just be lazy and run errands. I grew up in North Bergen, NJ and I spent a lot of time in the city so when I read your posts I can picture the places. Enjoy your dating :)
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HEART SURGERY on 2008-03-23 01:44:23 |
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that was wonderful! thank you!
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Imperfectly Me on 2008-03-23 01:40:54 |
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When someon falls for you, they love you for who you are. I would bet you are harder on youself than you significant other. Good luck!
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Weekend Gig & Castle Evenings on 2008-03-20 21:25:31 |
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It's awesome to hear about your life. I worked for a realtor in college and I loved it. I was her office manager. I think working with the right people can be rewarding. Hope you enjoyed your shows!
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He Only Thinks About His Other Family on 2008-03-20 21:17:09 |
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I wish you well. I had a relationship that was somewhat similar. I believe that what starts bad ends bad. I understand now why you are thinking of cheating. Be true to yourself and do what you feel is right.
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Would you EVER cheat on your spouse? on 2008-03-20 21:10:57 |
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No. I believe in what comes around goes around and because I do not want that to happen to me I would not do it. I know how much that hurts and if I truly love someone I would not be able to hurt them in that way.
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LEAVING THE PAIN BEHIND............. on 2008-03-20 21:01:24 |
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That was awesome. It is very insightful.
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The Anti-Brian on 2008-03-20 09:12:29 |
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I read your post and I feel like I could have written it because things are so similar to my current relationship. I think I get the most he can give but I always feel like I'm missing something and like I need to change in order for him to fully love me. The similarities are wierd, including the name! I believe by letting go you will find that special one. I don't think we are mean to be alone.
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Last Stand on 2008-03-19 08:45:45 |
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I hope you are getting better and are back on your feet soon.
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Super Couple Status on 2008-03-18 18:38:14 |
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That was great! I believe you can have the majority of it.
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This Is What Has Happened Now on 2008-03-18 18:31:34 |
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How is your kittie doing?
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Dear Tide; on 2008-03-18 09:12:15 |
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That was funny!!
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No Mistress, But down in the bleachers! on 2008-03-15 18:21:41 |
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That is awesome! I am glad you took a stand. It shows a lot about you and you are definitely setting a precedence for what's to come. You handled things very well. I think he was probably shocked at seeing you enjoy yourself. Enjoy your vacation!!
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Side Note on 2008-03-14 17:51:11 |
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I have never heard of such a thing and I've had 2 surgeries. That's crazy!
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The wedding, the ex & the girlfriend on 2008-03-14 17:48:40 |
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I think you are doing the right thing by taking a stand. This interaction will set the stage for him respecting you in the future. Good luck and I hope he does the right thing!
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The Wooden Bowl on 2008-03-14 17:35:34 |
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Thanks for sharing, that was a good story.
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Rethinking the Cell Phone Thing.... on 2008-03-12 21:42:16 |
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Wow. I get annoyed with the cell phone junkies at times.
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The Governor's Wife on 2008-03-12 21:34:49 |
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I thought about her a lot. I don't know what she must feel but I bet it's a huge betrayal. I pray that her and her daughter's are ok. It's sad that he had everything and it was not good enough. I don't know if I could stand by him. I definitely would not have been by his side at that press conference. She must either be very strong or very weak, depending on how you look at it.
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He'll Find A Way on 2008-03-12 21:31:34 |
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Thank yo for putting all of the inspirational things on here. I would bet that someone needed to read that today. :)
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Merger on 2008-03-12 21:19:48 |
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I've had 2 surgeries and I am fine. The surgery won't be bad. It will be over before you know it.
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football.... on 2008-03-12 21:17:04 |
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Those are silly reasons for breaking up but how do you know when to hold on and when to let go?
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IN MY NEXT LIFE.............................. on 2008-03-12 09:05:23 |
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That was great! I love it.
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I gave up and CRIED! on 2008-03-11 22:03:48 |
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He sucks. From a past life I can tell you that he will not be truly happy with this new life for long. As for you, you will find someone that makes you happy again.
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Days of our FOTY on 2008-03-10 22:34:59 |
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It's amazing how much people change when they leave your for someone else. Good luck
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And another thing on FOTY on 2008-03-10 22:29:14 |
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FOTY makes me really mad. He does not know the blessing that his kids are.
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thpppppbbbbbbbb on 2008-03-10 22:25:33 |
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Congrats on the couches! I hope your dog is ok. Have you written about what your surgery is for? I haven't seen it.
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yup on 2008-03-10 18:15:22 |
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Congratulations!!!
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Mind Games on 2008-03-10 12:26:09 |
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I think you should figure yourself out and find out why you are like this. Then have a talk with him, good luck!
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Shoot Out - Part 2 (long Sorry) on 2008-03-10 09:25:39 |
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She sucks! I wish you did not have to go through that. I can't believe she would have the nerve to talk to your daughter and then carry a conversation that clearly upsets you. She deserves whatever she gets!
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Am I Breaking My Own Rules on 2008-03-10 09:17:45 |
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I have learned that once there has been feelings there can't be friendship. It always goes back to something sexual. So I would keep my distance until he's not with gf. If he's the one for you, he'll come back.
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SCARS OF LOVE on 2008-03-09 18:07:52 |
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That was a good post. It was a different perspective about people's scars.
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Meantime Wisdom on 2008-03-08 09:37:10 |
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Thank you for taking the time to write this. It's a good list.
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Still moving on on 2008-03-07 16:19:31 |
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That is awesome! Congrats on your first date and your scheduled second date. Anytime you use any bad language you get the explicit comment. :)
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Pit Bull on 2008-03-06 22:28:22 |
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That sucks! I hope you can find her a home and that she feels better. I have a rottie and they have a bad rep too but I would not change mine for the world.
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$3.08 on 2008-03-06 09:06:54 |
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It's 3.69 here for Diesel which is what my boyfriends truck takes and my car takes premium at 3.49. It's crazy!
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Honey why you calling me ... so late? on 2008-03-06 08:59:45 |
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When you love something let it go and if it comes back to you, you will know you are what he truly wants. I truly believe that, it has worked out for me in the past.
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Sadness Is Prevailing on 2008-03-06 08:53:21 |
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I hope you are feeling better. For me talking to someone helps or sometimes doing things to get my mind of things.
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ALL ABOUT THE POTATO!!!!!!!! TOO FUNNY.... on 2008-03-06 08:42:25 |
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This was so cute. I needed something like this. Thank you for sharing!
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Should love be difficult? should it be work? on 2008-03-06 08:38:44 |
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Thank you for all of the comments. As you can tell I am struggling with all of this. I think some of my problems are that I see that he tries to make things work and he doesn't give up and I see that as a big thing. The comments have to stop and I've let him know that. We've had a couple of talks about moving a part and just dating. I'm starting to think that's what I need to do.
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Should love be difficult? should it be work? on 2008-03-04 11:22:20 |
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Thanks for the comments. It's hard to know if this is how it should be or if it should be easier. He definitely tries, I just want more happy times I guess.
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The Fairytale on 2008-03-04 11:19:59 |
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Thanks for the post, I think many of us can relate. I want the fairy tale too. I like to think we will all find it at some point.
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Time To Give Up on 2008-03-04 11:18:31 |
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I think what holds us there are the good times, the belief that we will get back to that. The hope that the other person will turn around but once you realize that they won't you have to move on. It takes two to make a relationship work and it's hard to let go.
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The Possession on 2008-03-04 11:12:38 |
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Nice post. You are blessed.
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For lack of better words on 2008-03-04 11:09:20 |
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I agree that there are some really ugly people but on the flip side there are some really good people. I have been shocked with how much people care about others. I think it's a pretty neat online community overall.
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What am I looking for?? on 2008-03-03 09:50:29 |
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The hardware store would also show he's motivated and may be willing to do house projects. That would also be a nice plus!
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Your Thoughts Can Kill You on 2008-03-03 09:06:29 |
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Thank you for the post. Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy.
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Not yet the size of a garden pea on 2008-03-03 08:51:09 |
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Are congratulations in order? That was really cute.
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In the Web of Delight on 2008-03-03 08:50:12 |
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That was good.
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Difficult Findings on 2008-03-02 22:34:22 |
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I read a lot of your posts and I'm always amazed at how well you express yourself. It's good that the two parts of you have reconciled.
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Son Of A... on 2008-03-02 22:24:59 |
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That was a cute post. I can see being in Juniors entourage too. I would love to drive one of those cars.
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