Friday afternoon I picked up Amazon woman and brought her to my place so she could get some rest. Pretty sad that a person can't stay in their own home to recharge their life. Made her comfortable so she could sleep, while she was sleeping I spent my time checking on my "itis" neighbor and her.....
When AW woke up her head was pounding worse than before, I took her blood pressure was very high...her Dr had told her if her diastolic reading was 115 or over to get to the hospital.....Tim helped her to the car I called her Mother and her "leech of a boyfriend" to meet us at the hospital....AW has had a cronic headache since tuesday....we spent tuesday evening at the emergency room....blood pressure was stable, cat scan was normal, blood work was normal....she was sent home with her head still pounding and prescriptions for pain meds.....
She is just weeks away from having insurance, no insurance makes me wonder of the care she's receiving? Too late now, hope for the best and plan for the worst....her follow up with her Dr on Thursday, he was concerned she had a TIA , told her to keep stress out of her life and gave her a shot of demerol and vistiril along with a prescription for morphine....good grief...lets keep her doped up and play the wait and see game. Will she live or die? Keeping stress out of her life is like laughing....have a great big laugh....until she dumps her family and friends and her leech of a boyfriend....there will be no change....I for one am at the end of my rope with her....It's her life she can lead it as she see's fit....doesn't mean I have to sit back and watch it....Her life is chaos.....complete and utter chaos....You know those people that strive on drama?....She must strive on it, either that or she's hoping for a trip to the looney bin or an early death....
Back to Friday night....At the emergency room they check her vitals, blood pressure has gone down....she still has excruciating pain in her left eye.....light sensitive, slurred speech, very weak mobility.....get her in a room...give her pain meds....another cat scan, more blood work......she has a history of pseudo tumors....when she was 19 was discovered she had one on her left optic nerve.....she had a lumbar puncture that had gone wrong which left her with a large blood clot in her pelvic area that kept her from the use of her legs for 9 months also her sight....on Friday after her cat scan came back normal. The Dr came in and said due to her history of pseudo tumors they had to do another lumbar puncture (spinal tap) to check her pressure.....
While outside waiting for her to have her procedure, I'm with her leecherous boyfriend....he pissed me off for the last time on tuesday when we were at the hospital....his treatment to her was awful. I have stayed out of their relationship and kept my mouth shut.That would change momentarily, Friday night I lit in to him with both barrels blazing. I told him she might not recover this time, what are you going to do if she can't work and ends up disabled? I kept sticking this asshole with that...what are you going to do?...Your days of being a kept man are over, dumb son of a bitch. He's worthless, absolutely worthless and she's stupid for allowing this, makes me sick. Told him he better get out there and get a job, two jobs, three jobs......get off his lazy ass and do something or I'd make sure he would be gone. So needless to say this didn't go over very well. I don't give a shit. I'm sick of the stupidity and co dependancey. Infuriates me, I'm getting pissed off beyond recognigtion now...
He avoided me like the plague after that, too bad poor baby...truth hurts....I have told her I will be there for her but only for her. I will not help support her leech,I will not help her leech. I will have nothing to do with her leech. If I see no change, I'm backing off....way off.....Live your life as you please and I'll do the same. What I will no longer do is watch her ruin hers....
She's screwed I have no idea how she will recover from this, she never listens to her Dr's. Her ego is the size of the ocean, I'm glad she believes herself....I know shes full of shit....she has a real problem here....getting better....she might be looking at having a shunt inserted into her body to drain the tumor......I'm pissed as shit and have to return to the hospital. I'm sure the leech will be there with his hand out. Some things never change....Why can't the earth just swallow him up? He serves no purpose..
Posted by pitapie50 on 2008-04-28 07:37:26 | Rating: n/a | Views: 87
What irritates me the most, is that she knows he's no good. She lets him have it,he pouts then she feels bad. A vicious cycle that I wish would end. I just don't get it.
They did, unfortunately it's not helping. It seems that pressure from the tumor is just to great. She's on day 6 I talked to her this morning. Her head is still pounding,she was still waiting for the nurse to give her the pain med. The nurse was already 45 minutes late.
Wow, sounds like you're having lots of fun there, pita. Don't burn yourself out. Personally i know I'm about to overload when my eyelid starts twitching.
Good grief Toad I know what you mean about twitching, my upper lip starts to twitch when I get upset. At the hospital on Sunday, her boyfriends Mother and one of his sisters was there. They started playing him up, I got so mad,my upper lip took on a life of it's own. I had to cover my mouth before it twitched off. The hospital discharged her yesterday, now the fun begins. Her not having health insurance will mean more trips to the ER, Dr's offices won't see her unless she has the money to pay, which she doesn't. An endless rollercoaster this will be.
