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xtube, masterbation, booze, punching people..pork on 2008-04-19 00:28:40 |
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Thanks for stopping by my post. Have been reading yours... sober. Gonna come back and read them while stoned. Gonna be even better!
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More Drama on 2008-04-12 02:41:36 |
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I can sympathize with you.
My mother is a “needy” person as well. She does not need me for financial reasons but she feels she needs me for emotional reasons. I am pretty much obligated to visit her every Friday night.
If I am too tired from working 50 hours a week, or if I feel sick and don’t want to spread it, or even have something work related (like servers going down or something similar), she pulls the tired depressed mood out of her bag of many emotional tricks and says stuff with a sigh like “Its ok, work comes before family… or but then, who is going to go with me to run errands”
As the oldest of three sisters, the only single one living locally, she feels that I have all the time in the world to devote to listening to her whine about how her husband (my stepfather) doesn’t like to spend time doing anything with her or that when he comes home from work all he does is go into his little “office” to watch TV all night until its time to go to bed. She has been married to him for 15 years now and wont get a divorce because she feels that she cant live alone and doesn’t want to be divorced for a 3rd time and at the age of 56. She is large and not in very good health and constantly complains that she needs to lose weight while eating a second or third helping of food. I know she has a habit of eating when she is stressed… but still. If you know what your triggers are, then you need to find something healthier to shack on instead of meatloaf sandwiches or 1/8th of an 8 inch cake. I don’t like veggies but I still eat fruit and stuff to stay somewhat healthy although I do not have a models body.
I get so tired of listening to her and being around her depression that I have come to HATE Fridays. Literally cringe when I wake up on Friday morning. Praying that the day goes by so fast, that I can blink and be at home tucked in my bed again and the day is over.
Perhaps we could put them both in the same UNPADDED room and see what happens. :)
Good luck with your resolve to give her “tough love.”
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Being Single isn't a burden on 2008-04-12 01:41:12 |
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I agree with you, people seem to think that it is "everything" to be married with kids. I have no kids but have been married and am now divorced. I would rather be single and happy than married and unhappy just because everyone expects it.
Live life the way you are happy. Good luck with school.
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Where s the beef ? on 2008-04-12 01:36:31 |
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I am a Republican but I agree with you.
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