We watched a movie. I positioned myself with my knees between us, so he couldn't come to close. He was sweet though - made me some fruit salad. Honestly, I like the guy, he's really nice, but I don't want to date him! He barely touched me all night, but then tried to kiss me goodnight again. Dodged it! And I made absolute certain not to accidentally agree to anymore dates again. So... now as long as I watch what I say on the phone, it should be smooth sailing from here.
I used to be a huge flirt. HUGE! I sort of forgot about that part of me. Not sort of, I did forget. Here's an example of one of my... excursions:
In junior high, we used to go to the local wave pool, basically to pick up guys. The guys came to pick up girls. Of course it was also fun... but that's why everyone went. Anyways, I was absolutely fearless when it came to guys, and a girlfriend didn't believe that I would talk to any guy. So, she picks out this random guy around our age, and was like "Him, you gotta talk to him." I have this "talent" of eyeing guys, getting their attention, and getting them to talk to me. It works on 95% of guys, not joking. Well that particular guy was unresponsive. I was starting to get pissed off because I was pulling off my best moves, ignoring ALL of the other guys at the pool, and he wouldn't even look at me.
I couldn't be proven wrong, so I decided to go up to him. I walked up to the guy in front of all of his friends, swaggering with my hand on my hip (but of course!) and asked "Do you have a girlfriend?" He looked really suprised, and mumbled something like "uh, no, um, no". I then asked "Are you gay?" to which he responded "What? No!?" and looked all confused. Then, I looked him straight in the eye and said "Well then I just don't understand - I've been trying to catch your eye all night and you won't look at me! Why not?" The poor guy looked so overwhelmed, nervous, like I may as well have just kicked him in the balls. So, I took his hand, introduced myself, and told him to come say hi if he felt like it later, before swaggering away.
My friend were in hysterics. They really didn't believe I would do it. After that, the guy spent the entire night following us around, before finally getting up the courage to say hi. The guy was painfully shy. Poor target! I obviously had no real interest in him - I like a guy with confidence that will shoot right back at me. To this day, I still don't know why he wouldn't look at me! Shy?
I used to do stuff like that all the time. My girlfriends know all of my "moves". Haha I guess I was sort of a player. Then I got serious for two years and have sort of lost that part of me. I want to get it back. It's fun to spark desire and get to know hot guys. Yes, I can now talk to, flirt with, and DATE hot guys! It's a scary thought... it's been a few years and all the guys are seriously way hotter now... but I just gotta get back into it!
I have the whole summer to play. No commitments, because come fall; I'm leaving (on a jet plane) - if you know the song!