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A cheater or Not??

Hey there:}
     Uhm I am not sure how to start. So I am just going to write whats on my mind.



    Yesterday I went out to my boyfriend of 10 months house to visit and spend time with him and his family.  We were having a good time. I mean like the brady bunch type of time. 


   Anyways my boyfriend (we'll call him steve) and i go to his room and end up having sex. Not complining. It was good. After we get done he gets dressed and goes down stairs to get a drink. I began putting my cloths on and find a pair of panties on his floor by his closet. I dont think nothing of it at first. I trust him. I figured when his mom was going around getting laundry that they might have fallen out of her laundry basket. I dont bother much. I get up to do my hair back and there is an ID laying on the dresser. It is some college girls access card. I starts looking around a little more and over behind his door were a pair of chuck taylors. I wear nikes and etnies.


    When I asked him about the shoes he tried to convince me that they were mine and that I had left them there. (they were a size 6 and I wear a size 9) its not fitting. So i acted as if I had blown it off. Then I asked him about the ID. He said that she was out there. I almost broke down. Then he said that she had came out to smoke sum with him and must have left her ID. That was supose to be back in '07 in July. This ID was deated January of '08. I pushed that aside for the time being. Then I asked him about the panties. He tried convincing me that they were mine. He of all people should know that can not be true. I DONT WEAR UNDERWEAR:[


I went off. I was so mad that I beat the holly living shit out of Steve. I am going to go visit the girl here in the next few days. I wanted to know your thoughs on this before I went to see her. I have met her before so she knows I am with him.


Thanks and Please leave me a comment.
-Paula-

Posted by patricialetner on 2008-04-10 08:39:12 | Rating: n/a | Views: 145


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Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-04-10 08:44:58
 
Why go after her? You have every right to be mad...maybe you should get rid of Steve? He lied to your face...and can you really trust him now? Better to make the break and move on instead of being in a trust less relationship.
 
 

Posted by
Cecy24
on 2008-04-10 10:44:23
 
A cheater or not?

Well based on your post, I would have to say YES.

I wish I could say to give him the benefit of the doubt...but he lied to you, making you think the shoes and panties were yours. I mean, he could have come up with something better to say!!!

I know it hurts, but I do think he's playing games with you.

You deserve more respect than that.

Good luck!
 
 

Posted by
GhostOfDerekD0min0
on 2008-04-10 15:01:12
 
No reason to fight over this guy. Just walk away.
 
 

Posted by
ropeyrich
on 2008-04-10 15:37:55
 
Definate Cheater.
 
 

Posted by
faggotsex
on 2008-04-10 19:12:36
 
Oh hun, I'm sorry. *hug*
I'd not freak out even if it's hard because it makes you look like the more mature one.
 
 

Posted by
DJAdrenilenRush
on 2008-04-10 21:32:25
 
You go girl & also dump his ass. Find the girl beat the shit outta her & move on find another guy that won't cheat or lie to your FACE!
 
 

Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-04-11 11:00:43
 
DO NOT BLAME THE GIRL!!!He was the one who had a commitment to you, not her. He was the one who lied to you, not her. While she bears the responsibility for her actions, who knows what he told her..he is a liar. He may have told her you weren't together anymore.

He apparently does not deserve you and you should move on. Don't pitch some big hissy fit, take your pride and walk. I would not give this boy the time of day, or let him hear me breath again. Good luck!
 
 

Posted by
Maddie
on 2008-04-11 13:24:08
 
Girl I would have done the same thing. If I ever found another females stuff in my man's room then he would be in some serious trouble because I wouldn't be haveing that mess. An then after I got done with him my older sister would have a few rounds with him. I would so totally go after the girl too because she was with him and she probly knew that he was taken. Every girl that aint go nobody wants a taken man.
 
 

Posted by
KristinaK7
on 2008-04-11 15:04:05
 
Well I personally woudnt go after the girl. I think that you should go and talk to him more about it. Tell him your concerns in why you think that he is cheating and see if he comes out and confesses it. From what i read i think that he is cheating on you but then again you never know. The other girl hasnt done anything wrong, she probably didnt even know that he had a girlfriend.
 
 

Posted by
ninjam7
on 2008-04-11 15:20:11
 
I do think you should met up with the girl just to find out the truth. dont be hostile be civilized then you'll get your anwsers. other wise if you go in there with guns blazing she is more than likely not gonna give you any info. And with "steve"... dump him. no guy and i mean NO GUY that would cheat on you and risk your life for a peace of booty is worth that. If he was messing around with her and she had something (aids, hiv) and you got something and died? if he's willing to go off and do that to you he aint worth your time. also, once that trust bond is broken the relationship will never be the same. he's cheating on you girl. an you gotta decide if you wanna put up with it or tell him to get to steppin and find you a better man that'll treat you right
 
 


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