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Somewhere over your nose on 2008-04-30 18:48:39 |
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I didn't start to travel until I was 21. Once I started I got to see a lot of Europe in a short time. My mother sat home and wondered. She would write poetry about foreign lands but she never visited them. When we started to travel long haul she would ask us what was wrong with 'dear old Ireland' or even Scotland. Strangely, she loved to hear from my brother who, as a war correspondent, travelled the world. I never understood her reluctance as she was a very intelligent lady. Then, in her very old age, I discovered she just lacked the confidence as she felt she might not 'fit in'. She went to Spain and Portugal but felt inept at not being able to speak the language. I think your wife lacks a lot of confidence and maybe, like my mother, she pretends to like her own back yard when maybe, secretly, she would love to spread her wings and fly.
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Going for the record on 2008-04-30 17:40:00 |
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I got myself a great new dentist who told me that he would have to undo the work the previous dentist had done - at great cost of course. He agreed to a cheque plus a painting from my gallery in exchange for this work. The old bridge was removed which had served me perfectly for 25 years, and a new one was fitted. I smiled at my shiny new bridge and whiter than white teeth and left the surgery with a spring in my step. It lasted 3 months. Then it came lose - I went back - he fixed it - I paid him for fixing it. This went on for months until I said I couldn't keep doing it as I had no confidence as I didn't know when it would next come out. So he removed the bridge, gave me a plate, charged me £500 for the privilege and removed all my confidence with it. I am looking for a new dentist now and lighting the fire with the 6 monthly reminders from the old ones. I HATE DENTISTS, but do go and find a good one for yourself!
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Waddya mean you don't wanna be my friend?! on 2008-04-30 03:02:28 |
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Ellie - I've gone and done it and pressed the 'friend' button. Sorry for being so stupid. I just don't think about these things. Proud to be your friend!
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ME: WHY I WRITE on 2008-04-30 02:50:56 |
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Jessica, you shouldn't ever think that bad times are 'round the corner'. If we all knew what was happening tomorrow it would be a very bad thing. Just take each day as it comes, try to be a good person and leave the rest. It's good that you have a compassionate heart for others. That will take you a long way. And, by the way, the bad times teach us a lot so we can really enjoy the good times, so don't fear them.
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My readers on 2008-04-30 02:45:24 |
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Meredith, I believe, and it's only my opinion, that because of the high standard of the content of your blogs compared to the vast majority, you will always have a small following of people keen to read them because they truly enjoy them and find them pleasingly literate. They also like you and want to give you encouragement. To my mind you can look upon them as discerning friends. Do the others matter? I also think it is a good testing board for your more serious writing. I don't know if that helps you with your thoughts, but it was intended to.
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New Toy on 2008-04-29 08:53:34 |
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I understand totally how you feel about your garden. There is something so rewarding seeing something you planted growing. It's a bit like you at the moment - growing and flowering with careful nurturing. God bless
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MONDAY ... fun-day on 2008-04-29 08:50:09 |
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Easy, I was tempted to say 'oh go ahead and let him have it and get rid of him'. Then I thought that would be rewarding his selfishness and he will go on thinking he can get everything to go his way. So don't do it. Also, there is something about the joint request which irks me. In future years, you will feel better seeing it in black and white that you were not responsible. When and only when it's all over will you be able to forgive. You certainly don't have to forget.
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Had enough of the idiots on 2008-04-29 08:46:51 |
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Weren't we all Pita. The thing about it is we can now identify with other people's pain and that makes us better people. I learnt a really good thing last night and I'll share it with you now. 'Hurt people hurt. Healed hurt people help others.' So true.
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Had enough of the idiots on 2008-04-29 04:29:14 |
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He must be banished from Pitaworld NOW. We won't tolerate him so begone horrible breath man.
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Broadzilla HAS one of those??? on 2008-04-29 04:25:03 |
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Just a wee note to let you know I prayed for you last night at the Cathedral and although I know nothing about your faith, I just wanted you to know that it was a very powerful evening and I felt priveleged to be there. I do hope things are looking brighter on your horizon. E
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instead of writing, I spent my time reading on 2008-04-28 09:17:31 |
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You are sooooooo like me cause I agree totally on that house. Could we share it??? Also, like you, I go around thinking about how I could write what is happening to me now as a blog and then - whoosh - the time has gone. It is always so good to read your thoughts. I'm taking time off to write but can't resist poking my nose in to see if my favourite people have posted. Keep dreaming Rose! Without our dreams we are nothing.
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Diary/Notes of my thoughts and Poemish-bits / on 2008-04-28 04:39:44 |
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So, what's with boring?
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Broadzilla HAS one of those??? on 2008-04-28 04:36:09 |
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Oh Bullseye, this is all so painful, I'm really worried for you. Someone needs to pour oil on your troubled waters. I so feel for you but I feel so awful for those babies of yours. I don't know if you will appreciate this, but I'm going to have prayers for you tonight. You have too much on your shoulders and you need to lighten your load.
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Condition. on 2008-04-28 04:31:13 |
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Sometimes, just sometimes, you scare me Stickman!
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It's all happening here ..... on 2008-04-28 04:28:42 |
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Sweetheart, it's tough but isn't it wonderful you've been able to share your frustrations with a lot of people who care? As I keep telling you and will continue to do so, he will be the ultimate loser. Miss 8 will eventually understand, but for now you are giving her the best childhood you can. And it's a lot better than most of the kids around the world. Sleep well, auntie E
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Somebody Said.............. on 2008-04-27 17:05:33 |
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Don't you sometimes just hate somebody! Thanks Hollis
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PURPOSE OF SHARE THE WORD on 2008-04-27 13:24:44 |
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Just looked at it and I shall certainly be back there. Just off to church now or I would spend longer. I shall look forward to it with my elevenses in the morning. Thank you
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PURPOSE OF SHARE THE WORD on 2008-04-27 13:22:37 |
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Thank you for the information - I shall certainly look it up. Blessings
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Anna Grylls update Sunday 3am on 2008-04-27 13:20:13 |
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The analogy is pretty good as even I can understand it and yes, mine has been in the garage fridge in the past. I do hope the Botox works well. I've thought about it myself sometimes - only kidding - I'm busy growing old disgracefully. We have a preacher from Albany, NY tomorrow so I am looking forward to seeing a lot of healing. I shall request prayer for Anna. Delighted to hear your Mum is coming over - Earl Grey, a slice of lemon and a Rich Tea biscuit - just the ticket!
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Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 13:13:34 |
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Now look here Niece I never had - I am not going to be round too much as I have a lot going on at the moment, but I shall continue to pop in from time to time just to check you are alright. I'm trying hard to complete the book so if it ever happens, you'll have one of the first copies. It's so good to know you're happy.
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Landover Baptist on 2008-04-26 07:24:39 |
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Thank God I could switch this off
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Life with Father V on 2008-04-26 07:21:49 |
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What an amazing reply to that post for I found no words to add when I read it. Through the Christlike qualities of Father V you have been able to pass on so much wisdom to others. I think finding a church and a true man or woman of God is the path which directs us towards and good and firm relationship with God. You have found yours Ellie and I'm so delighted you found a friend for life. God is good. He gives us free will and sets us free - the greatest gift of love we can have. When I am in trouble and low in spirit, knowing He is there and feels my pain is my greatest solace. Thank you for your words so elogquently put. And I only popped in for a quick look. So glad I did
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Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today on 2008-04-26 07:16:27 |
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You are so right! Sometimes things have to happen to make us value how precious time is. I'm off to make the best of mine now instead of wasting precious minutes checking e mails. Thanks for the post Mark
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Chasing Wabbits on 2008-04-26 05:41:20 |
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I hope you have one much better than you expect. Maybe you will get to chase wabbits after all.
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Back to the Basics on 2008-04-26 05:30:51 |
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You know just when you feel life can't force you any lower, you suddenly find something good happening. I'm an optimist most of the time I admit, but I really have found this. The only way to go is up and I sincerely hope you have begun to head that way. BZ may have a field day with this one as you say, but there are times ahead she knows nothing about. Keep looking upwards, don't look back!
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The Holistic & Spiritual Approach to Life on 2008-04-25 12:11:17 |
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How lucky you are to be able to call up such wonderful memories of your grandmother. I guess my granny was the greatest influence in my life for at least the first 12 years. And, God bless her, she never poured pee over me. There was a great story of Grandpa and 'the po' but that's for another time. I loved reading this Ellie. Have a great and blessed weekend
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This Time Last Year on 2008-04-25 09:05:40 |
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Once, when I was returning from London, I wished the plane would crash and I would die, meaning the end of all the pain I was suffering. Later I thought about how horribly and unforgivably selfish that thought was and I never had another one. You have gone way past that also and now you are on firm ground and in control of the wheel. Well done you!
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We will never grow up...... on 2008-04-25 05:12:31 |
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For once I couldn't agree with you more. Political correctness has gone crazy everywhere it seems. Good luck with the problem
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Mother,jugs and speed on 2008-04-25 03:22:33 |
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Pita - how do you think of those things! You are just such a funny woman and I love the things you come out with. On a serious note, let's hope everyone will be well. My Aunt Sadie had a stroke in her early 30's. Never had another one and died of a heart attack in her late 80's. We believe it was stress related so get Amazon Woman to ditch the stress. Have a great weekend Pita
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Just a Prayer Away...... on 2008-04-25 03:16:07 |
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Thank you so much Hollis for a perfect start to my day. It was also a good wake up call for me this week. Bless you and have a wonderful weekend. x
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we only have a short time, start dancing on 2008-04-25 03:13:36 |
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I agree totally Roe. My dad also died on the 15th tee. It was a horrible shock to all of us and life was never the same. Now I'm going to take Bryan to Donegal for the weekend and I shall make him dance. Even with his two left feet!
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chain chain chain! on 2008-04-25 03:11:29 |
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and just to prove it........here's another link.
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Happy Birthday Pa, we will always be connected on 2008-04-24 18:27:19 |
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You are so right about the Save button. How I wish I could have given my dad another few years. Now I have difficulty remembering him really properly. Enjoy every day with your dad, as I know you do!
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The Mistress has her say, on 2008-04-24 13:28:22 |
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With all due respect, you and WK are the only people who have given the evidence that people judge you upon. No one ever asked for the details you both volunteered. By doing so, and because of the nature of this site, people have written their own opinion of your situation. None of us know WK's wife and she is totally unaware of any of us making remarks. She cannot defend herself. No matter what she is, she is in a unique situation of hundreds of people knowing all about her, mostly not very flattering or kind. Even after you split up, WK still felt he had to desribe rather intimate details of how he and his wife danced to 'their' song. We did not ask to know that. On the other hand, we also read of women, and men, who have been devastated by partners cheating on them.
You have had something quite wonderful happen in your life, a second chance, so to speak. I think you should thank God, gather your thoughts and apply the effort you need to saving your own marriage. That is my opinion and you have allowed me to comment on it by stating the facts you have. I have no desire to hurt anyone, I never have, but I could not read what I read without feeling at times enraged.
I am the one you mention who talked about her doing 2 jobs. No matter how minimal they are, or how poorly she is paid, WK states that she does them. I do not imagine she does them for amusement. As to her past infedelity, why did WK stay? All of it is a total contradiction in terms.
Whilst I could not be more pleased that your health has been restored, I do not think you need to put the views forward which you do. I'm not sure what your motives are as I think the effort you have put in to telling us how hideous his wife is could be better used within your own family. I wish you no ill, but you have written and, therefore, given the right to hundreds of people to respond.
Every week I see people who have been devastated by loss, illness, addiction and depression. I am often struck and am in awe of their dignity. I am amazed at what the human spirit can endure. Not one ever has talked of the 'other' person in the way you and WK have, hence my own remarks. I sincerely hope life works out well for you and that you can, somehow, get over the despair you feel at present.
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FOTY oh so considerate.... or is he!? on 2008-04-22 18:13:11 |
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(((((((Easytosay))))))))
Tomorrow is a new day - enjoy! He's gone - you are free.
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The Kinder shuffle ... and the frustrations on 2008-04-22 18:10:03 |
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And you don't have to carry those other people either Easy. You can only carry the burden which fits on your shoulders so let Master 5 be the little boy he needs to be and hopefully some other person will step in a help out. There are angels you know - I've met them. Good luck
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Who is responsible? on 2008-04-22 12:51:37 |
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'THE CHANCE I AM GIVING US'???? How big of you! I don't understand why people treat you with kid gloves. You are so incredibly, unbelievably, stupidly selfish. Wake up and do the right thing for once in your life.
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Who is responsible? on 2008-04-22 05:45:49 |
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I like the way Stillkickin speaks to you WK. He is someone who has the experience of hurting and being hurt in return. You still don't listen. Now the passion that drove you has left, you are back to what you were at the beginning - a man unhappy with his life. The fact that you chose someone you had not met or touched or smelt, shows your desperation. Be responsible for yourself, just for once. Listen to Stillkickin - you are going to have to live with your actions for the rest of your life. Maybe your wife is not for you, but stop putting her through the rollercoaster hell you do and give her her life back. Then and only then get on with your own. Do you ever read the mails of those women and men, hurting from being discarded? You have it in your power to change how you treat people. You say you have grown up. Really?
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Anna Grylls update Sunday 9pm on 2008-04-21 05:11:30 |
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Welcome home! These trips broaden our horizons and our minds but it is always great to get home. So good to hear Anna is improving and hopefully today will find her more alert. You have a lot to be joyful about and I pray the Lord will continue to bless you and lighten your load, which we know He will. Great to hear from you again. Elaine
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Sometimes We Need To Fall Apart.... on 2008-04-21 05:07:32 |
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So, how did you get into my house on Saturday Hollis? Boy, did I howl. But I feel so much better now, so thanks for the wise words.
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You Are What You Think... on 2008-04-21 05:03:36 |
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Thank you for passing on such lovely thoughts. I'm sure they will give joy to a lot of people Hollis. Joy to you today!
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Mixed Emotions on the day on 2008-04-21 05:01:42 |
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Easy, can I pass on to you the wisest advice I was ever given? It sounds so hard now, especially after I have read about your hurt, but just forgive him and let go. When you do just that you will be liberated beyond words. You are a wise and loving parent to your kids and that gives them an enormous start in life. If you can forgive, there will be huge blessings ahead for you, believe me. I went through just what you are experiencing and some days, when the kids were at school, I howled like a Banshee. I still howled after I met my present husband, but he helped to dry my tears. Then I forgave and the tears dried up. I have really no feelings now for my ex. I wish him only good and I'm sorry he isn't happy. My kids treat him with great respect and he appreciates that in his own way. You will be the winner, big time. Mark my words, on the next anniversary you will be writing with a much lighter heart. Even if you do not believe, I will pray for you, that the hurt will go and your burden lightens. And.....it will!
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Just a few minutes more on 2008-04-20 13:13:44 |
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Thank you so much G. I'm looking forward to tomorrow again as I've had a pretty lousy weekend. - I feel a post coming on. Hope you are enjoying your daughter's visit. E x
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My life of changing Saturdays on 2008-04-20 01:11:31 |
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Sounds to me like you are beginning to adjust very well. It's not perfect but it's the best for now. And all your tomorrows are still to come!
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my wedding day with kissable lips on 2008-04-20 01:06:26 |
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I loved that Roe - it was like being a guest at your wedding. It sounded like a loving and fun filled day. As for the dress.....well I, too, am married 22 years, for the second time I might add, and the ex's new wife destroyed my wedding dress. But hey - new wives or racoons - they only destroyed the dress and not the memory. Thank you so much for sharing, once again. But what about your granny?
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2 MINUTE NOODLES .... Cravings!! on 2008-04-19 07:49:54 |
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My downfall are Jelly Babies. Lots of them, but particularly the red ones and I like Spar better than the good makes. But, big Bryan says we have each to lose 2 stone (he's right) so he is now the food police and I am so confined to what I can eat. I'm glad it has happened with both of us doing it, but reading about your noodles has started it all over again. Have a lovely weekend Easy - you deserve it!
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(Poor) FOTY and Master 5's celebration on 2008-04-19 07:46:38 |
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I'm so glad the man of the day had such a perfect one. I'm so proud of the way you conduct yourself with FOTY and so sorry for him at what he has lost and doesn't know it yet cause he's still in the throws of passion and all that other stuff that will fly out the window one of these days very soon when reality sets in. Phooo I'm quite out of breath. You're doing all the right things Easy! Elaine
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I just can’t be bothered on 2008-04-18 07:17:56 |
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I have a lot of days like that. I get annoyed with myself for it but then I think sometimes we need to listen to our bodies telling us that we just need to chill. I'm having an in between day today so maybe, just maybe I will attack that ironing pile. Good luck
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Send my regards to the soy people on 2008-04-18 05:17:29 |
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Aw Pita - just when I thought you were really an old romantic, you go and destroy the myth. LOL Elaine x
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Ooops a CLM ...... on 2008-04-18 05:12:12 |
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I agree with KP - you need to come up with something. I think a smaller cake with one candle and a big Sorry might work. After all, he never told or hinted to you when his birthday was, but like most men he likes to be spoilt even though he'll swear he doesn't want a fuss. Good luck Easy!
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I can't wait to get out of work today . . . on 2008-04-18 05:08:12 |
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What a truly wonderful friend you have. So glad things are working out so much better for you. I think your Dad must be looking out for you. Big time!
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My Father's Secret Revealed on 2008-04-18 05:05:33 |
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An awesome blog from you this morning Davis (at least it is morning here as I write). It is most thought provoking and yet simple in its message. Thank you for that and God bless you as always. Elaine
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PET SPIDER - Harry turned out to be Harriet on 2008-04-18 05:01:21 |
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What a brave lady. Most women would just scream their way out of it. I have never killed one, but as they seem to be getting bigger, I do put them in a glass and gently place them outside. No babies for me please
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Learning to Trust again .... on 2008-04-18 04:58:32 |
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To say well done somehow sounds condascending and that is not what I mean - but well done Easy! From the heart.
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Doing the right thing for myself on 2008-04-18 04:55:59 |
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Pita, not only was that an amazing thing to do, it was a huge thing to tell it. I'm so glad you did as it must help other people. It was a totally selfless act and way beyond most of us. You have given someone the greatest gift anyone could give and you have not asked for anything back. You are an amazing, strong, loving woman and I'm so glad to know you.
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Where is that chlorine fairy anyway? on 2008-04-17 12:31:03 |
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Big B says he's really pleased to hear about Walmart. Somehow or other their shares are way up. We don't have one over here, so is it sort of like Sainsbury or Tesco? I can't bear Tesco as it's just so big and the people seem vile. It's just a tiny bit quieter in Sainsburys and I can just about tolerate it cause the check out staff are the nicest ever. Happy shopping!
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after the bulls game, went home with a burger, no on 2008-04-17 04:49:09 |
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Now I am just the most unsporty person in the whole world but I want to be there!!! It sounded great and I felt your excitement like you were beside me. Now, what about your granny?
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Just a few minutes more on 2008-04-17 04:16:46 |
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Ellie, you make me feel really humbled. I belong to the Ministry of Divine Healing because it is the only thing I do well, in that I have the gift of prayer. So many others do so much more than me I assure you, but I can't tell you how priveleged I feel to be there. Every week I see new things that put my own problems in proportion. People with terminal cancer with broad smiles on their faces, putting me at my ease. People with drink problems, knowing this is their last hope. So many different problems, so many different people but all united because they believe God can heal. And, of course, He does. Thank you again. E x
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Where is that chlorine fairy anyway? on 2008-04-16 16:33:40 |
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Oh....Pita.....read part of your post out to Big Bryan. After he stopped laughing he says get out there and keep shopping. Bring all your friends cause we just bought some shares! In return I'll send you bucket loads of that very special, calming ointment.
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She's not heavy, she's my daughter! on 2008-04-16 13:44:32 |
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I'm glad you cried in a good way Meredith as it all made me feel happy enough to make me write it. Hope your football match was good - looking forward to your post.
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She's not heavy, she's my daughter! on 2008-04-16 13:43:31 |
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Thank you Ellie - you also have a kind and loving heart. Paddy Jack was suffering from a chest infection but made a great recovery after a long sleep. We had a lovely walk in the afternoon in bright, spring sunshine and it felt good.
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thank you for your kindness on 2008-04-16 11:53:15 |
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That was a really happy story. I'm so glad it happened to you as it's such a good feeling when people are nice. You must have deserved it. Hey - why not buy another jacket!
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Where is that chlorine fairy anyway? on 2008-04-16 11:45:44 |
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Pitapie - you are wicked - you make me laugh too much. But I hope someone gets to that sick girl before you do! Go easy now - we don't want you doing time and then we don't get to hear from you. On the other hand........if you were inside we'd hear lots from you. Hmmmmm
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The real housewives of New York on 2008-04-16 11:41:02 |
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Why the red flag?
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The real housewives of New York on 2008-04-16 11:39:54 |
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Get out now! Don't call the fire brigade - just go before it's too late and you watch the next episode. Love those tennis shoes!
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unwanted on 2008-04-16 11:34:34 |
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I look forward to hearing more from you Tammy and I hope your life has turned out happier
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She's not heavy, she's my daughter! on 2008-04-16 11:31:53 |
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Thanks shemelts - that's a good job you have. LadiLucifer I look forward to celebrating good news with you soon. It's the most rewarding job ever, I promise.
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Recovering Thinker...... on 2008-04-16 08:40:28 |
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Loved that Hollis - got me thinking!
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Thanks on 2008-04-15 17:22:46 |
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If you get just one sincere comment, then that's worth more than a hundred hits. Popular posts mean nothing more than a lot of people looking, but not always thinking!
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Master 4 turns 5 .... 12 months on on 2008-04-15 17:19:55 |
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You are such a good girl! You put your childrens' feelings before your own every time. You are sewing a harvest and will reap huge returns. Mark my words!
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My Moral Dilemma on 2008-04-15 17:17:28 |
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Ignore him! You're way, way too good for that. How dare he put you in this position. It's happened to me a few times but it destroyed any friendship there ever was. You owe him nothing and you're best away from her. Good luck Easy!
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Wash that man right out of my hair on 2008-04-15 17:14:17 |
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Oh dear Meredity - I do agree with Easy. And you know what - I think deep down you know she is right. I don't believe in 'friendship' when one person cares more than the other. It didn't work first time so it's unlikely to ever. On the other hand, impeccable manners go a long, long way to making a perfect man. They last forever, long after the passion settles down to being comfortable. Think long and hard. Don't understand about the Yankees but I do hope you enjoy the evening, no matter what the outcome.
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End/begining or begining/end on 2008-04-15 08:49:31 |
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Just to add that I do not mean to 'get at you'. Just sometimes it's easier to see a situation from a distance. I sincerely hope that things work out for you but if there is one thing I have discovered in life it's that making someone really happy has a strange habit of making you even happier in the process. Even when it's tough and your heart isn't totally in it. A kind word is mightier than a sword. Good luck!
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Diary of my thoughts and Poemish-bits / on 2008-04-15 08:32:48 |
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Couldn't agree more G. When I read some unkind comments I just try to let them float up into the air and beyond into Cyberspace. Watch them go! Positive only allowed. Lol E
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Just keep walking on 2008-04-15 08:23:56 |
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Oh Pita, you are just too funny for words. Like Ellie, you just crack me up. Thank God for you and just keep on sharing your take on life - I love it!
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She's not heavy, she's my daughter! on 2008-04-15 08:05:22 |
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Easy, I just told a male friend of mine about you this morning and about the 'your seat' blog and he understood and felt better about himself so thank you.
Pitapie - aren't we sad, but then again we're not!
Southernsun - I'm sure you are, just because you want to be - thanks
ffeeona - thank you for the compliment - much appreciated
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What I'd like to blog about! on 2008-04-15 06:15:56 |
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Spoilsport! But I bet you won't be able to keep quiet cause when we find something so precious, we have a great desire to talk about it. Bless you
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The ladder to success is waiting for you on 2008-04-15 06:14:09 |
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What wise and inspirational words Davis. Here, in Ireland, the artisans have beeen riding high with the growth
in property and building work going on everywhere as this country has caught up with the UK. Now this is grinding to a halt and people who had too much work 6 months ago are having to look hard to find it.
I agree with you wholeheartedly. If you can't find work in your own field, look elsewhere. There is always something which needs doing and, if you succeed in a recession, you will be comfortable when it is over.
For those of us with faith, it is time to turn to the Lord for guidance and then to trust that He will provide it. Thank you Davis. I guess this post will be a huge help to many right now. Elaine
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End/begining or begining/end on 2008-04-15 06:03:48 |
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I believe Prelude is very insightful. People seem to tip toe round your feelings WK, but you have not truly tiptoed round your wife's. My thoughts are with that gracious lady and my prayer is that she will get what she deserves from life. She needs some tender understanding and the truth. I don't mean to sound like your conscience but you are dealing with a human being, someone who lives and breathes and has feelings. I believe if you concentrated on that and gave her the gratitude she deserves for putting in the amount of work she does, you would both be much happier. There is an inbuilt sense in women which is called female intuition. My guess is she knew she was not loved and when we are not loved we do not cherish ourselves. I trust her faith will carry her through as it is not going to be plain sailing ahead. My thoughts also for your son. That he might learn from home how to love in the future and how to treat women he meets with respect.
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A new Web site I like and belong to... on 2008-04-14 02:54:14 |
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I wondered where you are and will pop by and join you for a nice cup of tea! Elaine
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No, my name has not been cleared... Lord Save Us! on 2008-04-14 02:51:03 |
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I can't wait for that blog Roe so get out of the red. I just don't understand it either - all beyond me.
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Diary of my thoughts and Poemish-bits / on 2008-04-14 02:43:06 |
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I'm still amazed I can walk round, drive round and fly round this thing called earth and I still don't fall off! Isn't God amazing? Best, E
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a buyers market or is it buyers remorse? on 2008-04-14 02:41:00 |
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Oh please, that is too funny and just a little too close to home. I have learnt to walk away from every 'gadget' I see in the shops or on television. In New York I found a new shop I had never seen before and I was so excited at having a key ring which would show all those lovely photos of my little grandson, but Big Bryan wouldn't let me buy it. I even thought about finding it on the internet. Thank you Rose for saving me from myself. Now what did you call that foot thing?
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A week of highs and lows on Thoughts on 2008-04-13 15:17:14 |
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Now you see that is how you have the gift of the gab! So, if you were here, you would be gabbin not blabbin. Lol. I know some Durkins and I know a lot of Murphys. Granny Glenn came from Sligo and when someone mentioned Mayo, which was the neighbouring county, she would always say 'Mayo, God bless her.' I never understood why and then I learnt it was because Mayo was such a rough country with rocky ground and poor soil, so it fared even worse than the other counties in the famine. Lovely to hear from you Roe, as always, and we do a fair bit of singin and dancin in the kitchen ourselves! I'd love you to hear Mark, my second eldest as he is a lovely Irish tenor. And sure maybe some day you will. Can't wait for the next blab!
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Diary of my thoughts and Poemish-bits / on 2008-04-13 08:20:16 |
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Belfast is changing above all recognition. I can't keep up with it all so I go to the city infrequently so I can keep being surprised. I'm happy for future generations to see it turn in to a city they don't want to leave anymore, but sad for the places I once knew so well. Housing has also gone crazy - where I live is now one of the most expensive places in the UK. Good for me but so difficult for the younger generation. You should visit sometime. It really does have a pulse. I love Cornwall and hope to visit again very soon, but never, ever again in July! Best, E
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WHO IS JESUS? on 2008-04-13 07:09:56 |
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Let's just pray for those who don't know about Him and thank Him for the love He gives us, day by day. Nice post!
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NOT ForEVER on 2008-04-13 04:16:59 |
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And that, too, is OK
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Diary of my thoughts and Poemish-bits / on 2008-04-13 04:14:52 |
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What a lovely daughter, but then again a phone call is a two way thing, so lovely Dad!
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Learn to live life one day at a time on 2008-04-13 03:58:48 |
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Great words to start the day with Davis, as always. Welcome back!
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WHY BLAB WHEN YOU CAN BLOG? on 2008-04-13 03:55:34 |
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Oh my Davis - you didn't! Ok - so did I. Roe, you must never stop blabbing and, just for once, don't do what your mother says. Special disposition, just for you. Elaine
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My First Watch ...... on 2008-04-12 18:24:07 |
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Thanks Ellie - that's encouraging of you. Hope you and Easy both have a great weekend.
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A week of highs and lows on Thoughts on 2008-04-12 18:22:09 |
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Stickman! How good to hear from you. Thank you so much for your kind words. By the way, if you need the ointment I know where to get it. E
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She's sitting in my seat!! on 2008-04-12 12:53:31 |
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It will be whole lot better cause you will have a much better partner. Wait and trust!
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My Saturday on 2008-04-12 12:51:55 |
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You know the great thing? You are so content in your own world. You have eyes to see so many things other miss and ears to hear and appreciate music. You may be still waiting for 'Mr Right' to appear but I think he will have to be called 'Mr Lucky'. Oh and the ex.....'Mr Silly!' Have a great weekend
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To Sir With Love on 2008-04-12 12:02:58 |
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So delighted for you that you heard those magic words. Nothing in the world can compare to knowing you have life ahead to cherish and enjoy.
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IT'S SUCH A SHAME! on 2008-04-12 11:59:18 |
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Roe - I wrote a long reply to your post this morning but it has vanished into cyberspace. Anyway, the gist of it was that when, and I believe it is your daughter, does leave home, she will have time to reflect and then, like a bolt of lightning, it will strike home. You were, and are, the best Mum ever. I know, because I, too, was once that Mum.
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My New York visit on 2008-04-12 11:47:38 |
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Hi Roe - I love to read your writing also and look forward to seeing it. Yes, I am at peace here but life is not always easy. I'm just grateful to have arrived where I have.
Meredith, I totally understand you living in New York. Honestly! I just wish that you could meet someone and move somewhere where you can breathe the air and take time to stare. Until you do - enjoy every moment. Where do you work in NY? I'm curious.
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Infidelity... on 2008-04-12 08:17:15 |
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I had 19 years of a miserable marriage with a man who habitually cheated on me. Poor soul that I was I believed he loved me as he always assured me he and I would collect our pension together. Anyway, I made him leave, broke my heart then got on with living. I met a wonderful man, my soul mate, who has been a fantastic father to my 3 kids and I have brought up his two boys. We are a totally united family and blessed by the fact they regard our house as home although they have long flown the nest. My ex married someone much younger, drop dead gorgeous and a figure to die for. 20 years on he is miserable, lonely and dependent on a few good friends. She spends his money like there is no tomorrow (I took only half the value of our house) has a temper and moods which destroy him and she will take him to the cleaners if he leaves. He sees our kids outside his home and my heart, truly, breaks for him. I never wanted this for him. But I do have to remember the times he saw me broken and had no remorse. Now he sees me for the person I was and actually admires and respects what I do. I agree that sometimes two people just cannot stay together, but, where possible, keep the respect don't let hate take over your soul.
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No good deed goes unpunished on 2008-04-12 06:11:39 |
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I couldn't resist having a look at this one - after all, no one pillaried me for the last comment. So you still believe you are such a good person! You, White Knight, are incredible.
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It is what it is :) on 2008-04-12 06:09:32 |
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Pita, one of the things which drew my attention to you is your wonderful use of English, albeit different from mine, given that we are at opposite ends of the earth. The thing is your intelligence shines through and that doesn't show up in too many blogs. You have a keen mind and with it, unusually, a great sense of humour. I wish you would try a degree the hard way - at nightschool or Open University which we have over here, for you a have a lot to accomplish and a huge ability to do so. So think about it and make that next big step. You have trodden a long and brave path so far so it can't be that hard. You can do it, believe me. I believe in you and so must countless others.
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Learning to say no and failing on 2008-04-12 06:04:46 |
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Pitapie, we are miles apart but you are so like me in so many ways. I would have done just the same thing. I believe that because you did it from a loving heart you will receive lots of blessings back.
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My First Watch ...... on 2008-04-12 06:02:39 |
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Sitting in my drawing room is an old, black and white photograph of me and my mother on holiday in Donegal when I was 9 years old. We are both kneeling on the ground, my mum behind and above me. We are both smiling which is one of the reasons I love it so much. My mum didn't smile that much on camera. The reason we are so happy is that I am wearing my very first watch which has just been bought for me. It was a 'Smith' watch, very basic with large numerals and a brown leather strap. I don't know where it went to but that watch was so special to me then that I have never forgotten the feeling. I hope someday, very soon, that someone special will buy you a watch which will mean they have all the time in the world for you. With love, E
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I YEARN for normalicy on 2008-04-12 05:08:13 |
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And I will add to that, if I may, that I will pray that things will get better for you very, very soon. Meanwhile, don't underestimate what you are doing, being a mother and caring for them as you do, for that in itself will see you reap rewards in the years to come. Sadly most of us only see what is happening now but, believe me, there is a world full of surprises out there for you. Just keep trusting.
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The wife on 2008-04-11 15:46:27 |
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I apologise for commenting on spelling as it was unjust on my part.
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The wife on 2008-04-11 14:25:57 |
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Know the way you tried to come up with a name for your wife? My husband (a brilliant man, both brain wise and as a human being just came up with one for you. MORON.
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The wife on 2008-04-11 14:20:19 |
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Correction - mother of your son, not father. Amazing what anger can do.
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Steel belted umbilical cord on 2008-04-11 14:02:21 |
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Caringadvis, thank goodness someone somewhere agrees with me that that poor woman so badly needs help. Please read my post on the last piece on 'his wife'. It will probably be the last piece I write on this site. That's how seriously I take it.
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The wife on 2008-04-11 13:58:30 |
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White Knight - just who do you think you are. I have, from time to time read your comments and I have been so incensed that I have failed to say anything for fear that half of Thought's regulars would attack me. You know what? I don't care! I will happily leave the site if I am slated for what I think of you.
You have the audacity to condemn your wife for the person she is while you conduct an 'affair' with a married woman with children who has just escaped the clutches of death (thank God) and make it all seem that it is right and just because YOU are suffering so much. What has your wife done? She continues to work two jobs so she can contribute to a household where you obviously cannot make ends meet alone (even with your superior intellect which falls down on so many occasions). She loves you and she loves your son. What an awful sin. She does not shout and she does not fight back. My goodness, that should be a hanging offence. She will not walk away and leave you with your son because she has feelings for you and she still wants what's best for your son, even though he is now 18.
I would so love to meet that woman, to put my arms around her and assure her that there is a life out there without you. She could use her talents to her own advantage and maybe make it better for your son. She is a quiet, inoffensive woman who you ridicule, denounce and demean through your pathetic rants which are all about YOU. Poor old White Knight - who should be with the lady he loves (who he has never met in person) and is held back because of her husband and children and that awful, pathetic woman who happens to be your wife.
I don't think I have ever felt so disgusted by anyone on Thoughts as I have of you. How dare you speak about your wife to the world when she has no voice for herself. Maybe the endless time you spend blogging would be better used gaining qualifications which might enable you to (a) spell better and express yourself with better English and (b) allow you to race off on your White Charger to destroy another marriage.
I'm not ever going to read again what you write so you can say what you like in reply as is your right. But, as you choose to make your feelings so public on the woman who is the father of your son, so, apparently do I. Oh, and how about not describing your son as 'the kid'. He is a real person, old enough to be married, old enough to begin university and old enough to be able to see his father for what he really is.
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the truth about my child..... on 2008-04-11 13:44:48 |
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We all make huge mistakes in life because at that moment, that part of our lives, it seems the only way out. I'm so sorry you are still living with the pain and I do understand it totally. What I can tell you, and forgive me if it is intrustive or insensitive, is that God will forgive you if you truly mean it and He will ensure your little one will not be unhappy. You are who you are because of your past but your future allows you to change things and make better choices. God bless you and your little daughter who will be very precious to you.
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I'll have mine "wit" everything on 2008-04-11 06:14:45 |
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When I worked in my gallery in the centre of downtown Belfast, I used to buy my sandwiches next door. They used to ask if I wanted tea, coffee or wadder. If I bought for my friend also they would say 'Do youse two both wan mayo wit it?' One day they were all excited and told me 'Fla fla flarry'. Someone translated it for me as 'A fellow fell off a lorry.' Seems to be the same the whole world over Pitapie
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To myself be true on 2008-04-11 05:42:15 |
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I just love to read your post. It just takes me back to those days when I remember like it was yesterday waiting for a date to arrive. Then the delicious times between half awareness and sleep, going over everything he said to me that night. It may seem sad but it's what makes the world go round. You just enjoy every bit of it and try to live for the moment and not analyse everything. Some things are just for enjoying and not for wondering why. When your soul mate does arrive then you can really relax cause suddenly everything makes sense.
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Can you have it both ways? on 2008-04-10 15:52:46 |
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Hi Meredith,
I married a man who I once loved more than anyone in the world. It wasn't entirely reciprocated and gradually I fell out of love with him for lots of reasons. When he realised that he fell in love with me all over again but it was way too late.
At 41 I met my soul mate and understood for the first time about 'equality'. We had a mutual need of each other and a very healthy respect for each other's feelings. We've had our good times, our bad times and some brilliant times, but throughout it all we have known what it means to be there for each other, no matter what. It is possible to sustain a truly loving relationship if it is based on mutual love and respect. Don't settle for anything else!
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5 New Men In My Life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-04-10 04:41:53 |
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Me and Arthur Ritis are such good pals but does Al Zimer have to come and spoil it all? Thanks for the laugh!
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YOU GET OLD on 2008-04-10 04:37:28 |
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All you have to do is take one day at a time. Sounds hard but honestly, it's the best way to get on with life and get the most out of it. You're going to have some of the most wonderful days you could ever dream of ahead of you and some which are, simply, not so good. Life is a huge adventure, full of surprises so try to embrace it and don't waste it worrying about what has gone or what is ahead. You sound like you have an underlying worry. Find someone good to talk it over with. Talking helps as long as it is the right person you share with. And memories are good. When you are as old as me you will take them out of their compartments when you need to and smile. I haven't much chance these days of getting a wolf whistle but boy, did I use to stop those builders in their tracks. You see - you can even laugh at it all. Good luck, take it easy and find a special friend. You have so much joy yet to experience.
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from paws to claws to aws on 2008-04-09 18:14:19 |
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I couldn't agree more Roe. Bryan and I sometimes feel quite ashamed of ourselves as we indulge Daisy, Tiggy and Dudley so much. We allow them to do things the kids would never have got away with. But they are just so adorable and they love us so much. Yummmmmmm
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Slip of the tongue syndrome on 2008-04-09 18:09:38 |
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One day, many years ago, I was helping out at our local playgroup. The Anglican vicar of the church where the playgroup was held called in and I introduced him to one of the fathers whose child had just started that morning. 'Rev Eames,' I said, 'Have you met our new plaster bastard?' I felt myself go red as a beetroot as the 'Baptist Pastor' reached out his hand. Now there's a slip of the tongue for you Pitapie
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Do They See Jesus In Me.....Lyrics and Song on 2008-04-09 04:40:36 |
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What a great way to start the day. I shall try and remember those words as I meet people today and I have quite a few to see so thanks Hollis.
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She could of had a V8 instead of a Pall Mall on 2008-04-09 04:35:34 |
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Isn't it great to have people like that among your childhood memories. I could just visualise her from your description and she sounded like such a good and understanding friend for a little girl. Now..........about those cigarettes! Oh what the heck - I'll leave the lecture for another day. Just cause you made me laugh again. Have a great day.
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Shopping cart etiquette on 2008-04-08 13:59:04 |
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Took my little grandson shopping this afternoon. I was in a hurry as he needed a nap and I was sooooooo frustrated by people parking their trolleys, completely blocking it off so that I had to go home without the prawns. Thing is, mid afternoon seems to bring out all the grannies and grandads (I know - I'm one) but they have all the time in the world to look around. Don't worry - I refrained from driving my trolley into their heels but, and I do ask God to forgive me, I did think about it. Then one old man stooped down and picked up Paddy Jack's little car which he had dropped and gave us both the sweetest smile and I melted. Isn't life good sometimes? Happy shopping Pitapie!
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Shopping cart etiquette on 2008-04-08 06:00:11 |
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Oh my word! You've been to my local Sainsbury's. How did you do that all the way from America? I think your rules should be printed out and attached to the doorways of all supermarkets and adhered to rigidly. Thanks for the laugh - a good way to start the day
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take me out to the ballgame but dont make me watch on 2008-04-08 05:54:42 |
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You hit it right on the head! We often go to the private boxes at the races, courtesy of some nice, wealthy friends of ours, and I have such a delicious time enjoying the afternoon tea, the champagne but most of all the people watching. Oh.....I do watch some of the races - honest! Enjoy your day!
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I do not want anyone to be the boss of me on 2008-04-08 05:52:13 |
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Hurray! Let us all unite in that one. Mine 'thinks' he is the boss of me but only when I want him to think that. They really do have to be managed well, don't they? Leader of the pack sounds good to me (and him I expect!)
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HAPPINESS...A GREAT STORY... on 2008-04-06 04:43:48 |
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And that should be an inspiration for all of us. Thanks Hollis!
p.s. Do you think the other man got better? I know....it's just me.
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Anna Grylls update Tuesday 10pm on 2008-04-05 07:04:31 |
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It's a little hard for someone from my Christian upbringing (Anglican) to understand the baptism, but Emily looks very pretty and I'm so glad you all had such a good day. So good also to learn of Anna's progress. It looks like you could have a truly lovely spring ahead of you all.
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