How many of us ladies are married (or with)  to an "older man" meaning at least 10 years older or more? Are you still happy with your older man? Do you find that you miss certain things that a "younger" man might be better at than an older man? For example has their energy begun to lag, in more ways than one? Do you find sex to be less satisfying in some way? Do you worry about their aging process? Do you have young children with this man who is old enough to be their grandfather? Why do I ask, because I am married to an older man, 14 years older to be exact. And my answer to most of these questions is "YES"; however this does not mean that I would leave my husband because of these. I could spend much more time writing about this, but don't know where to begin. I love my husband, but...I miss certain things. There must be other women out there who would understand. When we first married a woman who was older than I and married a man with the same age difference told me that I would experience these things, I thought it was a possibility, but chose to brush it aside, I was newly married.