I had to meet EC for the first time in person since we ended things. It was to sign a new visitation agreement for minime, as our previous one had expired.  This date was set by me, b/c I knew when I drew it up that their vacation was the next week. Legally I needed that window of opportunity to back out of letting minime go, if I had to. During this meeting I told EC that while I felt the agreement was unecessary between he and I, I would still require one to be maintained as long as he was married to wifey.  I referred to the phone number and addy situation, and that I didn't want wifey thinking she only had to give me a cell number. EC didn't know what I was talking about. so I explained it.  He said that he understood and would make sure I had that information before they left.  He asked if he could call me later, I said sure.  I don't know if that is such a good move on my part, but I guess we'll see.

Randomness happened to me 2 days ago.  A friend of mine whom I've not heard a peep out of for 2 years calls me! I was shocked to say the least, but he said he's always thinks about me and finally just figured he'd call and see if my number worked and if I had managed to walk the plank of marriage... I found out he had, and he was drowning.  He said it was 6 months into it and he found out he married the wrong one.   Well if that isn't the story of MY life!  eh, I was never interested in him like that, though he was towards me. It was why we never went out more than a few times before... anywhoo, it was fun to hear from him and catch up on things.

For those who remember my past blogs, I debated on a car purchase, should I plan for the day EC comes into my life and buy a sensible car, or should I throw caution to the wind and go for a sports car?   Welllll  I got a sports car!  I LOVE it! just this morning I was on my way to work and some guy leans out his truck window and says "DAMN baby!"  It made my whole morning. Here's to smiling when I pay my car payment!!!!