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Well, to relate to my last blog, I am sick of having too many choices. I am just about to have my cell number changed and run away. I was speaking with another of my friends, and they said, "That no matter what I do or go, that my problems with go too, and or may even become worse." I agreed. That sucks... I am supposed to go on vacation in another week, and I dont even want to go. I am going away with my boyfriend and my daughter(that hate each other).(It wasnt my idea) it was my boyfriend's idea to try baby steps and going away for a week with my daughter is not my kind of baby steps for this situation. He hasnt spent more than eight hours with her, and its a five hour drive. So we have to like decide by tomorrow what we are going to do, are there going to be conditions to her going. And how will I handle it if they both wig, or I loose my cool with him for being imature. Then to top the cake, while I am down at his house, my daughter calls, yelling at me for something minor (because she is mad at her boyfriend) and really showed her ass and he could hear all that. So, that made him mad to the point of saying there is going to have to be a happy medium or he isnt going on the trip. I come home and let her know she really disappointed me and show ed her ass and it was uncalled for and now he is reconsidering. Well he is pissed, she is pissed and I am stuck in the middle again. So when do I get to choose? Should I stay or go? And will this relationship ever work?
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I am still dont understand what is your real problem is..communication and understanding each other is very important so stay cool and relex. take a deep deep breath. ask yourself where went wrong and how can you face it overcome the situation. running away will not be the best solution at all.
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Posted by GnR
on 2008-07-26 02:24:07
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Realistally I would love to run away. I am a great communicator, I just thought after almost 18 months, he would realize that she is my daughter and the most important thing in my life. Expecially since he knows, that I lost my son almost five years ago. He has a daughter (16) but is mentally handicapped, she has the mind of a 4 year old, so its different for him. She will always be with us, my daughter will grow and mature and leave for college next fall. But he is still selfish about my time. I am running around with my head cut off. Between work, him, her and no sleep, I kinda feel crazy. But I trust in God!
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Posted by onthewingsofangels
on 2008-07-26 02:42:32
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Your boyfriend doesn't seem to understand kids even for being a father. A teenager is not likely to accept the boyfriend of her mother very easily and he should understand that. I'm not entirely sure the vacation idea is a good one... but it could work... I'd say just make sure you have a back up plan if you need to leave early.
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Posted by TheAlreadyJaded
on 2008-07-26 12:32:33
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Well the trip is not finalized yet. And my daughter and I are going down to the beach on Monday, and he is not coming until Wednesday. So, we will have two cars in case anyone of us flip out. If it is him then he will be the one to leave and go home alone. Sucks to be him. I was thinking actually how selfish he sounds, sometimes.
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Posted by onthewingsofangels
on 2008-07-26 23:08:09
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The end is near, you wont believe what happened today. My boyfriend told me today he wasnt going on the trip, because of my daughter. So, I dont think I really want to do anything with him, period. That is so selfish. Immature. He is 49 and should understand we all have baggage. She is not a child, she leaves for college in a year or sooner. I just dont think I even want to continue with our relationship, I may have come to my limits with him. I love him and I love the way he loves me when he wants too. But I have a family that I am not going to choose over him. He wants me all to his self. Well now he gets nothing.
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Posted by onthewingsofangels
on 2008-07-27 14:00:53
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Wow - - this should be a clear sign that this relationship cannot be continued. You will be free to find something that loves you, loves your family, and acts his age! Enjoy your time at the beach with your daughter!!
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Posted by TheAlreadyJaded
on 2008-07-28 16:17:48
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Okay, I think I am really going insane. Last night my boyfriend said, He wanted to go, and so I was happy again thinking he has rethought the situation. Well today we met for lunch and something was wrong, tonight I saw him and he confronted me with we arent seeing enough of each other and he didnt want to go to the beach AGAIN!!! I almost left, but I love him too much, Honestly not to try to give us more time together. But, how is the question? I work 4 nights, and dont sleep at all. I have 3 days off and he wants them all in some way shape or form.
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Posted by onthewingsofangels
on 2008-07-30 00:48:52
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The trip to the beach is back on with my boyfriend. We will leave on Monday and he wont be down until Wednesday. then we will stay two nights there and check out and go up the coast of NC to see some sites. So please pray that is going to be good. or it could go terribly wrong. PRAY PLEASE
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Posted by onthewingsofangels
on 2008-07-31 01:49:14
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