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Old Fashioned ??

What ever happened to old fashion ? Are women still romantic ?

Sentimental ? Do you remember all the details ? Do you keep letters ? Do

you remember what it was that attracted you to him ? Was it a smile ?

Maybe just a look. Did he open the door for you some where, some time ?

Did you know at that moment it was love ? Who knows what it is that draws

you to another. But we all know what a feeling it was. You were alive. Do

you remember him slipping on a banana peel on main street on what was

about the 3rd date. Do you remember going back later and picking up that

banana peel and saving it all these years. Maybe it was walking past his

bedroom window one day, and there he was, standing looking out that

window. And it started with a simple "Hi" It took 11 years from that " Hi'

to the point where you knew it was meant to be and finally to the point

where it just was. Times change but the feelings always remains the same.

we just look at it in a different way now. Now days it is the first IM that

you received from him. Maybe the first E Mail ? Maybe the 1st E Card, but

only from a free site cause yeah he may be a little cheap Or maybe it is

because it would be stupid of him to spend money for something he can get

for free ? ( Sorry lost train of thought and no caboose) Maybe it was the 1

St poem he sent you. What ever it was it was the same only different in its

road that was taken to get there. I guess it could have been the name, well

his 2nd name.. Screen name onetoejeff. Did it make you wonder ? The

possibilities. Lost a toe ? Only has one toe ? Maybe has a sixth toe ?

Maybe you just had to know. Maybe from your long chats with each other

that you came to realize that this was it .Do you have all the E Mails, all

the Chat logs and all the messages printed out and in a book somewhere. Is

it having it on paper that makes it old fashioned ? What ever it was, it was

going to be your toe. Maybe it was that you thought it was just time to see

who's eyes were behind those shades. Maybe it was the first time you

entered his home and the first thing you did was to kick off your shoes and

sit with your legs folded on his couch. Maybe it was when you looked at the

expression on his face and in his eyes as he watched you do this. You knew

he was happy, you were seeing behind those shades. Maybe it was when you

were preparing yourself for bed and you saw him from the mirror. looking at

you, and you thought " Yeah he is Happy.. Maybe it was when you realized

he remembered all the little things you liked and did not like. Maybe when

you first met and you saw the adventure in his eyes. You knew he was on an

adventure that you wanted to be a part of. Maybe you thought the best

thing you could do was to pack a bag cause there was a chance you would not

be coming back. Maybe he suggested it ? For whatever reason, sometimes

forever ends, but only to find that forever starts again. Three memories

from three different stages of my life. Every one of them was forever and

they still are. Is it possible to hate some one you once loved. I have heard

that if there is someone you really, really hate , it was most likely someone

who you once really, really loved. I love all 3 of them and I always will.

Nothing wrong with that, there was only one in my heart at a time Maybe

forever is being with someone that makes you happy and whom you make

happy. Things change but forever is forever.. Sentimental ? Romantic ?

Yeah I think most of you still have it. The surprise is that a few men out

there still that have as well. You just have to look behind the shades.