Well, this isn't the first time I've acted inappropriately, and had to apologize. One of RealityHitsMe's friends had offered up a prayer for Mari. Nema came to the post and was verbally abusive towards this friend and her prayer. I made small mention of it at the prayer post, but felt that this wasn't the correct forum for an argument. By the same token, this could not be swept under the carpet.
SO I followed Nema off the prayer post and went to her most recent blog, and called her out. I persisted and persisted, in a most rude manner (truly unChristianlike) and demanded an apology for the friend of Mari. After an extended battle, Nema did the right thing and went back and apologized. And that was conditional upon my apologizing for my ill behavior (that was my offer to her).
I was rude, out of line, and completely un-gentlemanly towards this person, and I want to point out that under different circumstances, I would call this person a FRIEND, because of her personal challenges in life (ones that I fight for) and because she's exceedingly intelligent, like most of my friends. She (Nema) was and still is in pain, and she got to a point where she could take no more, and lashed out. I punished her, unfairly, for venting her pain, and I'm very, very sorry for the way I acted and spoke to her.
If you wish to comment, feel free. But the purpose of this post is to expose my wrong doing, and nothing more. For when I have to go through this humiliating experience, HOPEFULLY it will teach me to be more civil. Be well, reader.
John
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