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 An Apology to Nema
 Well, this isn't the first time I've acted inappropriately, and had to apologize. One of RealityHitsMe's friends had offered up a prayer for Mari. Nema came to the post and was verbally abusive towards this friend and her prayer. I made small mention of it at the prayer post, but felt that this wasn't the correct forum for an argument. By the same token, this could not be swept under the carpet.

SO I followed Nema off the prayer post and went to her most recent blog, and called her out. I persisted and persisted, in a most rude manner (truly unChristianlike) and demanded an apology for the friend of Mari. After an extended battle, Nema did the right thing and went back and apologized. And that was conditional upon my apologizing for my ill behavior (that was my offer to her).

I was rude, out of line, and completely un-gentlemanly towards this person, and I want to point out that under different circumstances, I would call this person a FRIEND, because of her personal challenges in life (ones that I fight for) and because she's exceedingly intelligent, like most of my friends. She (Nema) was and still is in pain, and she got to a point where she could take no more, and lashed out. I punished her, unfairly, for venting her pain, and I'm very, very sorry for the way I acted and spoke to her.

If you wish to comment, feel free. But the purpose of this post is to expose my wrong doing, and nothing more. For when I have to go through this humiliating experience, HOPEFULLY it will teach me to be more civil. Be well, reader.

John

    Posted by nsemn8r on 2009-06-15 16:43:49 | Rating: | Views: 68
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John,I read both posts and I would like to commend you both for seeing that you both needed to reframe what was said.Making an apology is a hard thing to do.You have both gained respect by doing so.After all we should be here to help each other.
Posted by  nanahart  on 2009-06-15 17:00:49 
  
As usual you are a fair minded man John. I also wanted to blast the hell out of her but refrained which is not my usual style. I normally call them like I see them. Guess I am getting old! HA!
Posted by  EdwardNorton  on 2009-06-15 17:15:33 
  
my admiratin grows- it takes a big person to make themselves small for the sake of another.. bless you..
Posted by  pastormike  on 2009-06-16 00:51:59 
  
I am very curious about your statement where you added to being a "former atheist" and how this ideology has changed....sounds like a good blog waiting to happen.
Posted by  praetorian  on 2009-06-17 00:46:13 
  
Thank you. That's not a bad idea. In short, I was born into an atheist household, to a literal professor and a teacher, and was firmly educated in the sciences. But there simply came a day where the weight shifted, as I continued to examine both data and detail. My interpretation of the facts (and what I consider actual fact) simply changed, in my estimation. When I realized that there were problems in evolution that I could not resolve in my mind satisfactorily, I began searching for something that WOULD survive my trial by fire, so to speak. And here I am.

John
Posted by  nsemn8r  on 2009-06-17 00:55:47 
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