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| Day 3 of getting over him! |
<input type="hidden" id="gwProxy"><!--Session data--></input><input type="hidden" id="jsProxy" /> Today is going much better then yesturday went. My friends from back home came out to visit me, and make sure I was doing okay. I broke down a few times because they both know teh situation very well and they both know me and him. They told me yesturday that I eventually needed to become friends with him, and I am on the page right now where I don't think I can be friends with him without being in a relationship.
My roommates tell me that I need to give myself a lot of time to really get over him then evalutate from there, and I agree with them but what I don't know or agree with them about is how long its going to take me to get to that point. They say they wont even let him in the building to see me if he showed up tomorrow to see me and apoligize.
My friends and I played this game called pandemic yesturday, it was a pretty awesome game and it helped get my mind off of him. I feel better after talking to them and hanging out with them, but it was hard to see them leave because I knew they were going back home and they were going to be able to hang out with him. So thats were I'm at on Day three; I know it sounds weird but everday is getting a little better to deal with. I am deffinately having several moments throughout the day that I break down because I hear a song that reminds me of him or someone says something that reminds me of him.
The last thing I just want to touch on is the fact that people put time limits on everything. You need one month for every year you dated to get over him. Or you cant be friends for at least threee months. The ones they are putting on me are things like if you talk to him before two months have passed I will be mad at you. Or you cant take him back after only a couple weeks, or its too soon to be going out on dates with other people. First of all me and him havn't officially dated in three years, if i want to go out on a date with another guy, I should be able too. Another thing If i don't want to date for a while then I shouldn't be forced into it.
These are my feelings on Day three, thanks for all the comments, they are really helpful.
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Posted by noturgirl21 on 2009-11-01 14:49:13 | Rating: | Views: 27
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