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Here's the thing i'm married and have four kids with my husband, we have a very unique marriage (strange or crazy is what our friends call it ). we have never had a infedelity issue because if he wants to fuck some one else all he has to do is ask and allow me to watch or maybe participate from time to time. if i wanted to fuck some one else the same thing applies to him. Not many people understand us but i don't care. a few months ago my husband best friend found out that his wife was cheeting on him and almost lost his dam mind. when he was out there cheeting on her she sucked it up and delt with it and i guess she got tired of it and started doing her thing. no that they are in the process of getting there marriage back together they ask us things that i don't think they are ready for. come to find out she wanted more out of there sex life, but he wasn't willing to give it to her. he felt that a wife shouldn't be the feak and that why he got a mistress. she felt that she should be able to do these things with her husband, but since she couldn't she found herself somebody that would. now that is why my marriage is strange to them, but now things seem to have taken a differant turn in there marriage they seem to be much happier now that they know what it was that they each wanted from the sexual part of the marriage. what i'm saying is you should be able to do evrything in yourmarriage without having to step outside of it.
Why is it that people have to put you in a category in order for then=m to understand you. my friend saw how i partied in a club and asked was i gay or a lesbian because i danced with females and males. i told her i'm none of the above. well why were you dancing with that woman she asked looking at me with her nose turned up and i told her why do it matter are you going to look at me differantly now. she said she might because i might try to get at her. that blew my mind for a moment, but i told her not to worry she was not my type. she calls me more now then she did before she found out what i like. i think she want to try what i do but is afraid of what people may say or think about her. i say fuck'em they have their secrets too. so what do i call myself, well "me" is all i could come up with. i don't want to be put in a category and i like being free. i use to try to hide who i was from people who i thought mattered, but soon realized that not many people matter to me. I'm happy with me and i'm happy with my marriage so i think that's all that truly matters
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Posted by noholdinback on 2008-07-06 12:47:16 | Rating: | Views: 96
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I completely agree with you.
Sometimes people confused/disgust me with they're thinking- but I guess to each his own.
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Posted by crazed_fck
on 2008-07-06 13:27:02
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So you swing? If you dont swing You play the field, Either way I see it this way what fucking business is it of theirs. I'm a Bondage/Discipline/Sadists/Masochist instructor and work with couples wanting to bring a spark back into their unity with Tantric Love. The life style I lived is still to this day looked at by many as a bunch of freaks. I always have said dont knock something till you try it. I can tell you this sometimes with TPE you end up with dudes that just dont get what they are suppose to do then after a few years of training and you still have to work with them one on one bases You just have to stop and tell them, "Your not cut out for this so don't try it." Give her a taste of life and let her find out why the tongue has more uses than just tasting food! She may not be your type but by the sounds of her calling more than usual she may want to join you in your fun. Stay Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
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Posted by Amanslife
on 2008-07-07 00:56:49
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