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"Hey, you finally answered."
"Yea, I got sick of hearing my phone ring. What do you want?"
"Well, I'm glad I annoyed you into answering the phone."
-Silence- I can just hear her rolling her eyes.
"Anyways, I just wanted to apologize that you got your feelings hurt. I know it was a disappointment to you. But I don't want you thinking I was trying to hurt you by keeping her ring. I just, well, she's my ex-wife, TC's mom. I didn't want to throw it out or get rid of it because TC might want it or want to see it or something someday."
"It's not just the ring, Noah."
"Then what is it?"
"You're always at her house or on the phone with her. You two hang out all the time. It's annoying. She hates me but you still spend so much time with her."
"She's the mother of my child."
"You tell her that you love her everytime you two get off the phone."
"I do, as the mother of my child."
"You never tell me that you love me."
-Silence- On my end this time.
"See! I was going to dump you anyways if you didn't say it soon. I was excited about the ring, I thought you were finally going to say it. Ugh."
"Lindsey, I didn't want to rush it. It's just I don't throw the word love around.I want to be sure I love you before I say it because I think it would hurt worse if I said it and this didn't work out."
"We've been together for 8 months, Noah. If you don't know if you love me by now then we're wasting our time."
"Maybe you're right. I'm sorry."
"So, you're not going to say it?"
"Nope. I don't want to lie to you."
"Alright, I'll see you around then. BYE!"
That's pretty much the conversation I had with Lindsey a few hours ago. I don't think it went to too well. I thought you were suppose to get to know someone before saying you love them. How the hell is that wasting our time?
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Posted by noahseth on 2008-06-13 20:23:11 | Rating: | Views: 129
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I agree with you.
Although I wouldn't like "my boyfriend" to tell his ex-wife that he loves her.
BUT some women, like to hear it, but if you go there too early, then what's left to say?
I'm sorry she's being like that to you, you sound like a great guy. ... good luck.
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-06-13 20:56:30
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Being a Mother with a similar situation, this post enlightened me as to how his g/f feels about us.
She complains of the same things to him all the time. I understand you telling your ex-wife that you love her, after all you did have a child and you did at one point love her its just a different kind of love now. Maybe you should try explaining that to your girlfriend if you already haven't.
I'd also like to say I am so glad that you didnt tell her you love her. If your not sure then it shouldnt be said.
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Posted by Hopelessresolve
on 2008-06-13 21:18:30
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If you don't feel it, don't say it. Better to hurt her feelings now then to lie to her and hurt her later. Believe me, I know.
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Posted by HungryHeart
on 2008-06-14 00:22:13
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That's kind childish of her. I mean that is the MOTHER of your child and you have a past with her. This girl you've be with for 8 months. That's not long.
I really don't blame you. I think you did the right thing.
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Posted by Raven_Nevermore
on 2008-06-14 12:40:54
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You did the right thing, although if I'm being totally honest, I couldn't be with a guy who told another woman he loved her, regardless of children.
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Posted by TheAlreadyJaded
on 2008-06-14 12:41:04
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Good for you for not telling her you loved her when you didn't. That would be lying and wasting her time. Personally, I wouldn't want someone to tell me he loved me because I asked him to, and I would always wonder if he really meant it.
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Posted by Meredith
on 2008-06-14 15:10:33
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No words mean more to me then those
I have begun to mumble them to my wife so tat the words are not really the words anymore
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Posted by whiteknight
on 2008-06-14 16:45:29
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I think you're right...falling in love takes time...a lot of ppl are in love with being in love. I think you have it right...take your time.
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2008-06-14 18:24:03
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