I do not understand some men. If a woman walks by, it's almost like some men just lose their minds. The woman can be minding her own business, not dressed provacatively and / or giving them absolutely no encouragement and somehow, they feel the need to hoot and hollar and act like stupid animals only to be ignored.
Or, like tonight, my boyfriend and i were at dinner and a weird older guy came up to the table directly behind us with the opening line, "hey, do any of you have a dollar?" I almost choked on my salad. this was a table with 2 middle-aged women and 2 kids. The first thing the woman asked is, "are you married?" She probably asked this because she was making a mental note to pray for God's mercy on a woman who fell for a line like that and a man who would ask that. Eww. Nothing more attractive than a man asking for money.
Back to my original point, I happen to think that men are amazing and I refuse to believe that they cannot control themselves. I'm sorry, whatever. There is no truth to the whole men "can't control themselves" thing. they are human just like the ladies and although they're wired a little different, they are still HUMAN. I guess I just feel like men are quite capable to restrain the ridiculous urges to say "hey baby" or "you wear that dress girl" or even "hey, you got a number I can have?"
Seriously. No. Blame my boyfriend for leading me to believe that men have a great capacity to be good and worth a conversation. But these men? They are not. If a woman is walking through the grocery store, don't act like it's a club--there is no rap beat thumpin'. If she is walking through a parking lot to go into a store, she is not tabletop shirtless on a bar--so don't act like she is. If she is driving by a group of men through an apartment complex, it is not the time to prove to your friends that women do indeed ignore you for a reason--you're lame.
It just burns me that these men act like something good would come from a stupid "have we met before?" All that will come from that is a need for both anger management and a drop in men's approval poll. Trust me.