1. go to bed before 11 at night, get up before 7:30 in the morning
2. remind yourself everyday that NEVER GIVE UP YOUR DREAMs
3. read books and study when you have time, be a knowledgable person, it is a waste of time to do the rebelious things.
4. do some exercise, physical health is very important
5. learn the skill of earning money. money is not the most important thing,but the foundation of life,
6. go back home to be with parents, love in family is the most precious
7. learn to be a good listener.listen to others feeling and experience,learn things from it
8. learn to have fun, with a special taste
9. dont bring the worries at work to home
10. learn how to work,be a serious work man
11. learn to flatter the boss, show your smiles, keep silent,Look before you leap
12. learn to put-off.All lay load on the willing horse
13. dont contact people without moral principle,in order not to be influenced
14. dont contact stingy people
15. so NO to those who regard oneself as infallible
16. look fot the one who share the same value, who love you, treasure this one with life time
17. dont waste your time and love on the one who will not love you back, sometimes the one who really care about you is just around
18. dont tolerate too much if you cant, it doesnt means love,it is baseness
19. be practical, love becomes pale in front of reality, romantice love belongs to women
20. be prepared to enter the marriage, be prepared to be a good husband or wife
21. build a nice and warm family
22. no need to save all the people
23. dont lend money to others so easily, the ones who borrow money aren't willing to return
24. dont judge people solely by their appearance
25. be yourself,live for yourself
26. learn how to dress
27. go your own way
28 earn other's money...



i read this somewhere and i want to share it with all the young people here, it is named the signs of maturity. in fact i dont believe in it completely,but i do learn sth from it. i am not mature enough yet,and i am learning to be.it is not to say we should judge ourselve according to this,but just hope you can learn sth...

i am just wondering, if everyone just live for him or herself,will it an ideal world???i dont think so