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I don't understand why people need to know every detail of someone else's life. I am not talking about people who are in a relationship, and not even really friends. I don't necesarrily tell my friends friends everything about me, so why would I tell my soon to be exhusbands room mate everything about me? Granted she and I and her bf Nick were all kinda starting to get close, and we were starting to be friends when all of this happened. However, no where in any of that does entitle her to ask such probing and frankly nosey questions about me. She thinks I am doing somehting wrong by getting a divorce, and she doesn't agree with me on it. She thinks my husband is a wonderful man and totaly worthy of my life being devoted to his. I think he's a lazy bum and doesn't take proper care of his life, responisbilities and family at all when he has the oprotunity. We just spent an hour and half on the phone talking about why I am getting divorced. I realize that it is my choice to answer her questions, and I answered only the ones that I felt were any of her business and told her so when I felt they weren't. She is unhappy about Andy, not that I give two hoots, but apparently she thinks I am wrong. However, she is right now in the same position that I was...she has her "fiance" and two kids, a home, and pets and a life with this man....and in comes a "friend" from the past...someone she knew in high school, someone she was in love with in high school. She thinks that as long as she has Nick (her fiance) around her she will be ok, but she runs into the issues when he isn't there with her. She is finding herself being pulled between the two men. I find it amazing that she was so judgmental of my choices, and she has now gotten the exact same situation in her life. I wonder what she will do...and I wonder if she will regret those choices later in life like I have for so long. To me not being with Andy all that time was the issue, not telling that man how much I loved him was the issue....and leaving my husband, was the easiest thing I have ever done in my life. I knew in my heart that I was with the wrong man...and that made my choice a very simple one. This blog is turning into a rambling mess of what is going on in my head...I think I will go to sleep now. : ) Hope you are all having a great night!!!
Hugz~Niki
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