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Ok, so for those of you who have kept up with the Andy & Niki saga, everything is fine, we love one another loads and loads..still planning the wedding. : )
I have noticed lately that things are a little different between us. In a really comfortable, relaxed way. When he first came home from Arizona, we seriously had sex like twice a day, for almost 3 months straight. {lucky me} Since we got sick 2 days before moving, we really haven't gotten back to that place. It's not that we don't make love, it's just not everyday anymore, and sometimes....it's a little more like the lazy version of let's get this over with. I usually use the outspoken parts of myself to tell him these things, but for some reason I am afraid to talk to him about it now. He got a job yesterday and started it this morning, so I was thinking in the happy land of celebrating we would have been together last night, but nope, he was tired and worried about getting enough rest for work the next day. So, maybe after he gets home from work while the kids are napping....again....nope, he was tired, so he's napping while I sit here and think. I don't know if maybe I am just way way to abnormal for a woman, but I really wanna be with him everyday, I love making love to him. So I suppose the question for all today is this..... Do I let this go and say nothing, or do I tell him how much and why I miss making love to him all the time?
Hope you are all having a happy day!!
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Posted by nikilynn1113 on 2008-03-27 15:22:14 | Rating: | Views: 76
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NO...as a man I tell you in no uncertain terms that you need to mention it
He may feel the same way but remember, you, ah ah ah,,,well lets just say the store closes on your end for a bit at times due to biology. And despite what you think, we do not keep track, he may think it is that.
And also my dear Nikki, honeymoons do not last forever...as I tell KP, life eventually becomes a Tuesday in October.
You still love him
He still loves you
All is well
Trust your friend
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Posted by whiteknight
on 2008-03-28 07:57:59
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WK~ store never closes up on Niki's end... ; ) the only thing that stops me is when I am sick and puking. I will talk to him though... : ) thank you...
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Posted by nikilynn1113
on 2008-03-28 09:11:50
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Hey Niki,
I would like to remind you of a story that a lovely lady told me one day. Once apon a time in high school there was this nice guy, she liked him alot, but because they didn't talk about their feelings for one another, neither of them knew how much they really cared for each other. Skip a head 10 years. The boy and girl get back in contact with each other. They both have had full lives up until now but never have been trully happy. One day the girl finally took a chance and told the boy how she really felt. He was over joyed as was she, because they finally got to be together. So far up to date they are living happily ever after. The end.
So the moral of te story, talk, comunicate, tell him how you are feeling, don't let another 10 years go by missing out on being truly happy.
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Posted by KP
on 2008-03-29 10:18:09
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KP~
You rock!!! Luv ya girly!
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Posted by nikilynn1113
on 2008-03-29 17:57:45
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Darn,,,,that woman always say s things sooooo much better
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Posted by whiteknight
on 2008-03-30 16:24:10
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I agree, tell him how you feel. He will probably explain and you will get to a place where you are happy again. The person that loves you never intends to not make you happy. I like you can be happy with everyday. :)
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Posted by prelude2it
on 2008-03-30 17:29:17
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WK~
Sometimes women are just better at putting the words together, however, it was your comment that got me to talk to him, hers just reminded me of how freakin lucky I am!!
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Posted by nikilynn1113
on 2008-03-31 08:54:39
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Prelude2it~
He didn't explain anything, he did howver wrap me in his arms and remind me of how much he really does love me. I am seriously the luckiest woman alive. : ) The man I have the gift of sharing my life with is amazong, and gentle, and loving, and strong, and awesome at cooking and kid wrangling!!
Have a great day!!
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Posted by nikilynn1113
on 2008-03-31 08:56:21
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