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it's been SO long since I have had 10 minutes to sit here and just think...I kinda miss you all!!! I have had major changes in my life yet again...some for the better and some for the worse, but none the less my life is headed right where I want it to go.

Let's start with my work...a job I love with all of my heart..something I am totally driven and passionate about doing. There has been a lot of friction there in the last 2 weeks, my assistant manager is angry with me, but I don't know why as she won't talk to me about it, she bottled it all up until she blew her lid Monday night at work and I let her have it. In front of a customer and everything she started yelling at me, screaming about how my "little boyfriend doesn't need to have such an attitude when I call your house" yadda yadda. Then she just walks away...so I followed her to the backroom as we obviously need to talk. She threw a fit, threw her slippers, grabbed her coat and such and then took off yelling "F*%! it all you can have my job!!!!" Calling me a few choice names on her way out. I suppose you all might like a little back story into the phone call here so you can understand why he had attitude. Monday afternoon....we had just come off of a really rough weekend, and the actual boss was on vacation...I had broken my glasses Sunday night, so Monday I went to the eye dr to get a new pair...they do same day glasses which is why I chose them. I had everything settled to pick them up on my way to work at 5...glasses should be done by 4pm...yeah me. I get a call from my boss who is supposed to be on vacation, could you come in a little early, the asst mgr needs help, ok but I have to get my glasses first as I can't see but 2 feet in front of my face without them. I will be there asap...prolly by 4:15. Then the phone calls start up at 3:45 as I am trying to leave to go get the glasses and go help her. Three times she calls, 1st no message, 2nd, she left one a very rude one, and thrid call wasa to my home number where Andy answered....he gave me the phone and she was instantly yelling...."where are you why aren't you here, I needed you here a half hour ago" My response, I am doing the best I can, I wasn't scheduled till 5 and I am trying to rearrange my plans so I can make it in there asap...I am leaving to go get my glasses right now...I'll be there within a half hour." She yelled something to the affect of if I call someone else in you might as well not bother coming in and then hung up on me. I called my boss who is supposed to still be on vacation...and asked her to please call and talk to her....she just hung up on me, and I am trying to get there as soon as I can. I go to get my glasses and while waiting there I get a call from work telling me not to bother coming in till 5...but before she called me on my cell she called my home. And that is where the Andy issue started. When she called, he told her I had already left to get my glasses and go in...she didn't take kindly to his tone...and got pissed. So....on with my night I worked the rest of my shift bla bla bla and went home....I went into work yesterday to have an inpromtu meeting with my boss and my district manager. The asst mgr has been way rough to deal with and Monday was like the little straw that broke the camels back. So I talked with them....my mgr fixed the schedule that the asst mgr did, giving me only 5 hours and her sis in law 11....and we worked out a few things, including a promotion and transfer to another studio as I can't work with this woman anymore. Apparently monday night she also called the mgrs home phone and left her a message demanding that she fire me or she will quit. She almost got fired. I have struggled and struggled with what to do next and I am at the point of giving up with her. I tried talking to her in person, I tried talking to her on the phone and I tried emailing her...none of these worked so it's now out of my hands and in hers.

My ex....seriously people, I should blog more often as to not bore you all to death!! He has set up 2 different times to see the kids and not shown up any of the times...or called. So I am now left with a decision about agreeing to let him see them any more....do I keep playing nice and say sure whatever you want or do I tell him where he can take his dead beat hiney?

And onto the happier parts of my life...my babies and my hunny!!! Life has been interesting around here with them, Annabell and Andy have gone af ew rounds of I like you I don't...however...as things are starting to settle they are getting a long much better. Jonah turned one on the 10th... : D he's a real big boy now...and totally cranky to go along with it. Between the teething and no more bottles or pacifiers he doesn't really like me very much. Not to mention the separation anxiety things that are normal for his age. Andy and I are doing well together and planning our wedding....way fun for me!!! I love looking at dresses and rings and such...it makes a girl feel like a princess!!! So...for the sake of boring all of y'all to death here...I am gonna get going..and clean up my house and yadda yadda.

I hopre you have all been well and the world is happy!!

Hugz~Niki