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A long and distressing day. Not for my foot, but for my mind.
One year ago, on this day, my mom went into the operation theatre to remove a brain tumor, and she came out, without the tumor, but with stroke. 
One year later, today, my mom is still unable to walk or talk independently. She's frustrated, I'm frustrated, but things are going slowly. And on this anniversary, the other closest person to my heart did something unthinkable to me. It may sound like a small deal to most people out there. But it left a long deep scar in my heart.
This person is my buddy at work. He sits right behind me at work. A couple of months back, he accepted a post which requires him to move to another room. For this past weeks, he has been moving things over there (as the upper management has been making noise about him not moving). He says that even though most of his things are over, he'll still be sitting at this old place as long as possible. All this while I thought he will "pre-warn" me about the exact date he's going to move.
But imagine the shock i get when i walked into the office this morning. I had a feeling of emptiness when i opened the office door, and saw that he has totally moved out, even his jacket, just like that, overnight. No warnings at all. Eventhough we are still working in the same place but now our offices are in different rooms. I felt betrayed, angry and sad all at the same time. Although we finally talked about it, and he made some promises, yet I could feel the gap between us getting wider and wider. 
I guess that is life. You can't hold on to anything. Be it something dear to your heart or something you hate. Everything will pass through your life. They may stay a while, or a long time, but they will always pass through. Most of them will pass through without warning, and it's those that is dear to your heart that you will miss most. So, treasure what you have now. Enjoy the now.
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Posted by nian2107 on 2007-10-26 07:12:44 | Rating: | Views: 92
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Aw sorry your hurting. stay safe
JR
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Posted by Rainbow
on 2007-10-26 07:21:32
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wrapping you in a hug - am sorry sweetheart - yes, it is hard for the both of you.
And, can understand your empitness with regards to him, he could have let you know, or left a note.
Good luck and take care honey
blessed be
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Posted by kentlass
on 2007-10-26 10:31:11
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Thanks rainbow and kentlass. I just hope one day he'll at least say sorry.
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Posted by nian2107
on 2007-10-27 08:00:22
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