Posted by
hairytoad2005
on 2008-02-28 03:09:38 |
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| The thing about sex is that there are different opinions on it. Some people see sex as a very special activity and, because of that, it should only be engaged in as part of a serious, committed relationship (perhaps only in marriage). Other people see it as acceptable to engage in casual sex outside relationships and, I believe the reason why, is that they probably view sex as a recreational activity more than a "special" bond between two people. Personally I think both views are correct.. sex can be a special bond between two people or it can be purely recreational. The only problem with "recreational" sex is that, if you're not careful, you can end up with some partners who are weirdos/dangerous. And of course, you need to take precautions against pregnancy and STDs but that goes for all sex, even in a relationship. |
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Posted by
TheBoneCollector
on 2008-02-28 04:13:40 |
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I can't comment here. But really, I've never thought of sex as anything like a "special bond". Personally, sex is just another way to express yourself in love. Thats my opinion. Who knows, but maybe thats coz I've never looked at sex as some "big thing".
Movies and rap songs make sex so overrated. |
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Posted by
TheAlreadyJaded
on 2008-02-28 19:14:23 |
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| Don't mind the haters. As long as you are safe, you are a big girl and can make your own decisions :) Sure the story goes that "it will never work out if you sleep with them right away," but I don't believe that. I slept with my boyfriend the night I met him and we now live together and have been together over a year! |
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Posted by
Courtney1991
on 2008-03-04 12:16:54 |
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| its just that people want to make sure you want to have sex with them and are not just doing it becasue you have known them long enough. no one is trying to hurt your feelings, its just they are trying to help you. you really want to make sure they want something more than sex, so then you wont end up getting hurt. :-) xo |
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