My 2 friends have been dating for about 8 months now, and they are the worst couple ever! I have known Jason since freshman year of high school, and I have known Kimmy since probably junior high. We all went to high school together, but Kimmy and Jason didn’t know each other. I introduced them to each other about 5 years ago, and a bunch of us have been friends since. We have all become close, and seen each other at our worst. When we all first started hanging out together, Jason and I were pretty close. I didn’t find out until a couple years ago that he had liked me back then. I guess when I started dating Mark, Jason and Kimmy began to hang out all the time. They used to give me a lot of crap for not coming out as much as I used to. They would give me even more of a hard time if I wouldn’t go somewhere with them, because Mark wouldn’t like it. (Yeah, Mark wouldn’t let me go out to a bar without him, but he could go out without me….that did eventually change though). Anyway, I guess with all the time Jason and Kimmy were spending together, Jason began to develop feelings for her. Kimmy just wanted to remain friends, so she pretended that she had no idea that he liked her. Jason used to be pretty overweight, so he thought that the only way he would get Kimmy to date him is if he started working out and lost weight. I know that sounds horrible, but he must have been right since they are currently dating. The thought of those 2 together was cute at first, but now they drive me absolutely insane! She nags, he gets wasted; or is it he gets wasted, she nags?? I still have yet to figure out which happens first. It doesn’t matter though, they are both annoying. It has come down to everyone dreading hanging out with them, because it always turns out to be a fight. I used to try to mediate, play devil’s advocate, but then they would gang up on me….done with that one. Now I just try to support Kimmy, because even though she is a nagging bitch sometimes, Jason’s behavior has been 100 times worse.
A typical night out with those 2 goes like this:
1. They start drinking….Kimmy sips, Jason chugs.
2. Jason gets a good buzz going, not the annoying kind, but the fun, looks-like-you-got-a-hangar-stuck-in-your-mouth buzz.
3. Kimmy starts nagging…..”What are you doing Jason?”; “Stop it Jason”; “Don’t do that, Jason.”
4. Jason finally gets annoyed and turns into an asshole.
5. They start calling each other names….he calls her a couple nasty names, she slaps him, he storms off and goes to another bar by himself.
6. She starts to worry, he calls her a million times, leaves her mean voicemails, makes her cry.
This happens 90% of the time they go out. He then calls her the next day apologizing for everything, claiming he doesn’t remember any of it, and Kimmy forgives him. It happened this past Friday night, and on Sunday night. I guess they were at a family thing for Jason, and he got wasted once again. I’ll sum it up: Kimmy had to drive Jason home in his truck, back from a town she wasn’t familiar with. She took a wrong turn and he started calling her a dumb ass, tried to take the keys out of the ignition AS SHE WAS DRIVING, and then proceeded to call his mom to tell her horrible things about Kimmy. I told her to dump his ass. Of course, she forgave him though. I’m sick of it…..I’ve told him off before, but it hasn’t helped….could be because he was drunk when I did it. For awhile I just stayed completely out of whatever they were doing, but when his behavior seems to be getting worse I don’t know what to do. I’m so fed up that I’ll probably end up telling them both off the next time we are all out and they start up.
Mark keeps calling me…..I wish he would stop; it is just making things harder.
For some reason, I can’t get Mike, my crush, out of my head lately…..I don’t think I’ve had a crush like this since high school…..I hate it!
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