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I'm so done, you can turn me over anytime.
Wow. I didn't see *that* coming. In typical fashion, I believed Ron when he told me and the marriage counsellor that he was going to do everything in his power to keep me and the kids. That he would behave as a husband and thought that  'things are awesome! I just can't believe how good everything is!" I believed him when he said that on February 7. The marriage counsellor even told him he was doing great... "don't you feel better Ron?" Little did I know that he was sending out personal ads on the internet February 4, 6 & then the 11th. His ads read "I'm happily married, but I want more." I found these ads the night before we were to leave for a romantic weekend getaway as a Valentines/Anniversary gift. His explanation is that he just wanted a response. Well, now he is not happy because MY response is "we are done." Tomorrow is our 21st wedding anniversary, how ironic because last night I told him to leave, so tonight is the first night in 21 years that I will sleep alone.

Posted by mymidlifecrisis on 2008-02-27 12:20:08 | Rating: | Views: 122


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Posted by
bjm1
on 2008-02-27 12:22:46
 
stay strong, you are never alone. take care of you, Godbless
 
 

Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-02-27 13:44:09
 
Oh dear, You were mean't to find these ads and now you can move on into the next chapter of your life. It won't be easy, but you are worth it. Take good care of yourself first, everything else will fall into place. Good luck..
 
 

Posted by
LadiLucifer
on 2008-02-27 15:09:48
 
awww man

best of luck
<3
 
 

Posted by
ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-02-27 17:57:33
 
I found your blog today and
just finished reading all your posts.
As I read your last post I was saddened to learn that your husband has not been honest with you. It may not seem like it, but it's a blessing that you found out the truth about his intentions in regard to your marriage. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'll check back later to see how you are doing.
Peace.
 
 

Posted by
BitterSweetheart
on 2008-02-28 00:55:44
 
Wowwww. Sorry you're enduring so much pain, I hope that things get better and brighter for you. Follow your heart!
 
 

Posted by
Hollis
on 2008-02-29 07:41:48
 
midlife,
What a sad thing to happen.But as the other have said, Time to take the next big step in your life....Seeking God's favor for you and your family...Please stop by my blog about LET IT GO...I know now it is hard to think about that, but maybe in some small way it may help...Much love and blessings coming to you....Hugs tooo..............Julian
 
 

Posted by
mymidlifecrisis
on 2008-02-29 18:52:12
 
Thanks everyone. I can't say much more than that without crying. But just 'thank you'.

 
 


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