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My wife and I start to grow apart when we sleep in seperate rooms. Because of my sleep apnea, I snore very loudly. Because of this, I felt very distanted from her, but she needed to sleep. This is one of the main reason I got the sleep apnea surgery. With added work and family stresses, it makes the distance even farther away. On top of lack of commnication, things got worse.
If we could just tell each other and communicate about issues, things would be a lot different today......
I believe learning from mistake and continue on with the relationship is better than going seperate ways. Instead of tear everything down and rebuild, wouldn't improve what you have a much better way? Especially, I think, our 9 years of foundation is good.
I think she cheated is because she was looking for that "new car smell", meaning the excitement of going out on dates, first kiss....etc. But how about our first kiss, first date, first time we made love..... I still remember them all.
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Posted by msy on 2008-05-11 17:59:25 | Rating: | Views: 163
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Well the point is she cheated.However to be strong as your are maby there is some hope. I think your placing alot on the table so to speak.However many man have felt the love for there wifes as you do even thogh the odds are going the other way. I just hope you can bring yourself to realize the marriage cann,t be saved.The worst thing I would think these flig with will will not last.Your wife seems to demand alot (I speak from experince) which you cann,t deliver,at the present time. Take care of yourself
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Posted by flipmaster
on 2008-05-12 00:33:32
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Why you can't talk to her? Is it that she's not listening or you are just not talking. You said the communication is gone. Figure out a way to get it back, find out what it is that she's looking for and if it is that "new car smell" then you need to make a decision on should you stay or go. Sometimes we as woman want our marriage to be exciting like when we first met that person and the guy feels all the work that went into getting her doesn't need to be done anymore now that he have her. We get bored easily, but it don't take much to get us back interested. The "just because" things you may have done in the beginning just may peek her interest.
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Posted by noholdinback
on 2008-05-14 14:37:08
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