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My support system
 I am burning out my support system. I started to drive people away with my issues, and this is not good. People that I seek support from are slowly moving away from me, because I tried to dump too much of my issues on them.......and I know I need to stop. With my type A personality, i don't deal with long term issues too well. When I am presented with a problem, I would want to resolve it ASAP. But with my marriage issue, the only way to heal it is to give it time......

From this point on, I am going to stop dumping my issues on my family and friends, and I need to make peace with the current situation. I need to give them a break and to give myself a break as well.


Posted by msy on 2008-05-15 01:46:27 | Rating: n/a | Views: 117


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Posted by
theotherjim
on 2008-05-15 11:05:18
 
Keep blogging, we will watch out for you. I know it's not much but thoughts.com helped me going thru your same feelings. My wife moved out with my kids at the begining of March and my life is so much different now. Not any better but not much worse. It's like starting over with the pain always burning in your heart. Stay strong and take care of the only one you can trust; yourself.
 
 

Posted by
sinclair1976
on 2008-05-15 20:49:13
 
are you making stuff up now?

if by pushing people away, you mean they invite you to their house, ask you to defray the cost of going to the drive in, or asking for help w/ a kitchen repair, then i'll agree that you are pushing your support system away.

no lame excuses, come by this weekend!
 
 


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