So I was reading someone's blog a few days ago and they mentioned the use of an honesty box. I hadn't heard of it before but thought I should at least see what it was all about, because I'm all about honesty. Or at least I thought I was.
So I added the application to my oh so fabulous face book page, and was surprised to see that there was already a comment written about me, from three weeks prior, even though I just added the application. The box had the generic question of "What do you honestly think of me?" Well there were two comments.
The first one, was awesome and made me laugh.
The second, not so much.
I can't write it word for word, because I deleted it, but it said something along the lines of, that they doubted whether or not I was genuine or honest about my responses concerning a particular someone in my life, and they weren't sure if I was being honest about how that person made me feel. They even further went to say that they loved me BUT weren't sure if it would matter to me if they weren't in my life anymore. WTF??? I mean... really, WTF?!
So then it got me all paranoid and I thought, well who wrote this? I asked my sister in laws, if perhaps they had written it. But then my one s-i-l said she doubted that my other one would write it. But I had to make sure just in case, so I replied back to it and asked if it was my s-i-l, they never replied. Then I talked to my s-i-l (in question) and asked her, she said she hadn't. Which I take her word for and now I feel a little disturbed that I thought it was her in the first place, but I would rather know for sure than to wonder. Stupid box.
But seriously folks, when you write a BUT in your sentence, you totally discount what you just said. Grr! I'm just too sensitive. I need to quit this desire of having everyone like me. Obviously this person is mad, otherwise they wouldn't have written it or they would come and talk to me about it instead of hiding. Coward.
I just think it's a frickin joke. If you are mad about someone, and you truly care about them, then don't use a stupid box to write stuff. Tell them to their face!
Oh well learned my lesson, don't look through the keyhole if you don't want to know what's on the other side.
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