Well, this isnt an attack on you, but on your comment to him.
His father JUST died and instead of just being there for him, you say "its cuz he smokes" ? Very insensitive. I would have been just as upset as your friend.

and you know, it may be right, it could have been the smoking, but its not for you to say when he tells you.

It's no reason at all to off it. Things will look better. Just look inside yourself for the answer.

btw, what I would do is give him time to cool off, and then send a very long email explaining that you know what you said was insensitive, and that you value his friendship too much to let it go away. Say sorry and then give him time to calm down and come to YOU!

Well i've done that but what he's done is blocked and deleted me on msn and facebook.com and also blocked and deleted his sister's profile from my friend's list on facebook! I wrote a very long thing to him....but he's done ntn...to me it's like he's putting teh blame on me...like i'm a murderer just from teh way he's acting...i think it's rediculous i apologised more than once also...but the way he's acting is soo rediculous i think. Do u have msn? i didn't say that to offend him in anyway it's just cuz when anything comes to teh body i always want to find it out cuz i'm an aspiring Medical Doctor and they're many times when him and i have spent loads of time researching diseases/ sicknesses and stuff...i even diagnosed him online..with eczema..and turns out after he did teh lab test it was exactly that. So i think he's taking this way out of hand to teh fact taht he even deletd his sister's account off...

Remember that this has to be a very tough time on him. I have no idea what it is like to loose a family member, but I can imagine it must be very tough, and if he needs the time to just ignore everything, he should be able to. As I said, give it a month (you know, decent amount of time) and then talk to him in person. Or drop a letter off at his house.
I admire your dedication and willingness to learn about being a medical doctor. What a tough job! Good luck with that. I'm not sure if all friends would like being the guinea pig though...

oh f it...i can't bother with this guy anymore he's being rediculous...i think...so i'm just gunna say fuck him and move on with my life...this whole situation has been giving me heart pains...he says i could talk to himin no less than a week...fuck that u know why?! cuz their having teh funeral on friday of this week....and i don't usually like ot go to funerals...but i wanted to go andmy mother is telling me to go too..but cuz of his crap i won't....so i'mjuust gunna say fuck it...honestly. he's being rediculous now.....honestly...i would say.