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Yes well guess what? i'm not moving tomorrow!!! shocking news isn't it, its not like this has been going on for 6 months or anything grrr
We spoke to the solicitors and the mortgage company yesterday, and everything was fine, so i continued my packing, nervous.. a little dubious, well where this move is concerned i wont believe anything til i see it, and maybe i was right, because this morning, the eleventh hour, the mortgage company calls my father in law and suddenly play the Lukemia card! the mortgage is in my in-laws names and my other half, they have known from the outset that mother in law is terminally ill, so why is it suddenly an issue now? and who is it that keeps trying to tell me that the UK finance industry isnt in trouble? so anyway, father in law loses his temper with the solicitors, after hearing in a whiny voice "well if anything goes wrong sir its us that will have to pay out if they weren't informed" fine! we thought to ourselves, but we were completely unaware that they didn't know about it! in the last few days they have had us paying £200 a go for couriers to take paperwork back and forth from their office 200 miles away, everything was peachy, then they remembered apparently that they, themselves hadn't mentioned to the mortage people about the whole 'Lukemia' thing ?!? so the mortgage company starts umming and arring..... as i say, father in law is a little peeved that this is being thrown in his face at this point in the game and tells them to stick it up their arses! and i don't blame him at all, but..
and i feel guilty saying this 'but', we wont have anywhere to live in ten days time if this isn't sorted out, Now it seems my other half.. who hasn't got enough on his plate, is running around trying to get this straightened out, there are a few choices, we have an offer from another solicitor who can run the mortgage in father in laws name and my other half's and have it done and done within 7 days, because all the old paper work is valed for three months, which is great, or we can remove his mums name from the original mortgage, which is deafening! and leaves us all feeling a little concerned as to the way that makes us feel, and it feels like the mortgage company are sticking their fingers up at my father in law saying "ner ner your wife is usless" i was told that he even said to them something about they needn't worry as the life insurance should about cover everything.... leaving the idiot at the end of the phone hopefully feeling like shit about what he was telling my father in law!
If we wern't self employed we could get this mortgage ourselves, if it weren't for the dogs we could just rent somewhere else easily, but i'm not giving the girls up for anyone! seriously if you know me you know that my dogs are like my kids, and i would rather die than let them go!
My father in law needs this house for when the inevitable happens, the house where my in-laws live is tied to their job, they have a farmhouse in France, but mum-in-law wants him to have a home here too, she desperately wants this house, she has asked me to look after her boys for her, and i promised her i would, once we move and i can get a good job i can go on the mortgage too, her daughter now lives on the other side of the world and she is here now, but if she doesn't go back in two months she will lose her visa and all the money they have invested in their own business.
In trying to make everyone happy, and yes get a little security for ourselves we are backed in a corner teetering over the gutter lol, everyone is promising everyone else that its all gonna be ok, but we all have the same distant look on our faces, none of us are sure, and while the guys should be sitting in the hospital they are rushing around trying to sort this mess out AGAIN and its not fair on them at all, who's bloody idea was this in the first place ha ha, we were gonna buy the house we are living in now, but our landlord is a nasty peice of work and this place needs so much work, so we finally told him we were moving out and that we couldn't buy it, if we had told him ages ago that we couldnt buy it then he would have chucked us out long ago, but you do what you have to just to get by i guess,
So supposedly we will be all moved by the end of next week, if not before, we have ten days to get out of this house, and i am a little worried, but i'm one of the faces saying 'its all gonna be ok' we reasure each other in that way then perhaps if nothing else we may still have our sanity when this is all over.
I hope this doesnt sound all selfish, its a little muddled as i am a bit stunned about this all really, its awful to have to rant about this, but i think i might go mad if i don't have a good moan about it!
thanks for listening guys.... please keep your fingers crossed for us xx
now which box did i put the chocolate and vodka in?
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Posted by missmarie on 2008-06-11 14:31:09 | Rating: | Views: 114
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You are entitled to rant and rave as much as you want hun.
We are all here for you.
My arms, legs, fingers, toes and anything else i can master are crossed for you.
It will all come good, you will see.
Love ya hun, keep ya chin up.
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Posted by misselusive
on 2008-06-11 14:53:01
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yes but where is the chocolate and the vodka?
thanks honey xx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-06-11 14:58:56
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In the box with the winninglotto ticket.
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Posted by misselusive
on 2008-06-11 15:05:34
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P.S Where is the explicit content? lol
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Posted by misselusive
on 2008-06-11 15:06:19
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Everything posible is crossed for you, and I will pray too.
I think everything will be fine. Hope you found the Vodka and chocolate.
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Posted by Fancie
on 2008-06-11 17:09:51
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Hey, if I can go off on a rant so can you hun. Blow off some steam and find the box of chocolate and vodka and all will be ok. Good rant though and I hope it all works out. Hopes and prayers marie. :)
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Posted by spiritualcoma
on 2008-06-11 18:12:23
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yell honey! scream and throw fits!!! as for chocolate and vodka.... well sug did you check the "emergency kit", no not there, how about the one marked, front room books and papers. I dont know I just thought it might be in there......
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Posted by tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-06-12 08:04:14
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Sorry for your rough patch, what are they thinking? prayers for your M.I.L.
The chocolate is of course on the pillow, and the vodka in the mini bar.
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Posted by circe
on 2008-06-12 18:50:52
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Chocolate? Vodka? Ranting? OMG I see I've been missing out........ :)
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Posted by scotslad60
on 2008-06-13 12:58:19
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You poor thing, this is awful, they're bl**dy vultures. GRRR! >:(
Pouring vodka down the phone line as I write... you never know it might pep up the stupid slow connections.. eating chocolate on your behalf... and sending all heaps of positive energy.
Love to your family. these are testing times indeed.
Mwaahhh! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Posted by Merlyn
on 2008-06-13 14:21:22
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hey missmarie, you deffinately have a reason to rant! my dad was diagnosed with a potentially fatal heart problem yesterday... the insurance wants us to pay $100,000 for this surgery he needs.. i know your pain!
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Posted by ReD_MooN
on 2008-06-13 20:02:35
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It doesn't sound selfish at all. It's crap they have to make you jump through hoops knowing your mil's condition. Why is it always at the end they find a way to stress you beyond what you thought you could take?
I also know what your saying about your dogs. Mine will go nowhere no matter what they do until I die or they die. They are my sanity God gave them to me because I needed them.
The kids joke I love them more but I tell them the dogs do as they are told and don't mouth me.
Hope everything is fixed for you soon. And I pray this stuff isn't stressing your mil out! She obviously has enough on her plate as do you all it sounds!
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Posted by anotherdaze
on 2008-06-14 18:17:41
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