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You know what...those of you who are complaining that i haven't been reading your blogs are proving your hypocracy i'm afraid, if you took the time to perhaps read mine you may see the reason's why i havent been here!
Perhaps also proof that the Clique exsists? (and God i'm sick of telling people that it doesnt!)
You know what i'm happy to write, i don't care if no one reads me other than my good friends (pauses rant to thank you again mwah you know who you are, thanks for being here for me the last few weeks...months x) but to you people who bitch about me, take a minute to catch up maybe, I'm getting a bit fed up of this place to be honest, yeah i know i will calm down and probably delete this next time my connection allows me to come on line, but right now i am mad!!!!!! if you have nothing better to do than complain that i havent read you then god i must be special! I used to come here to escape, to laugh, to talk to friends, but it seems those times may have gone now, and that makes me sad :(
i'm sorry if my rant offends anyone but...GRRRRR!!!
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Posted by missmarie on 2008-07-20 19:35:30 | Rating: | Views: 270
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hi marie!
i don't see why you should delete it - it's your blog and you can write whatever is on your mind...
but getting upset about stuff is prolly not so good...how you can level out soon!
cheers!
:)
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Posted by badlydrawnstickman
on 2008-07-20 20:53:02
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oops...sorry *hope* not 'how'
damn stickman! :(
:p
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Posted by badlydrawnstickman
on 2008-07-20 20:54:20
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Stickman slipped a twig:P
I think you have more a case of ppl you know moving on with their stage coaches from this site like an exodus maybe than you do with tolerating the static here. Let the storm blow over--wherever it may be from. Stick around, though, cuz "blokes" like me need ya:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-07-21 00:05:58
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looks like I have some backward reading to do, I have no idea what is going on, but Miss Marie, you are terrific, who is giving you a hard time?
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Posted by roe
on 2008-07-21 00:40:45
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Thanks for taking the time to read mine. You are a treasure, many would miss you. Me for sure. I know you have been busy,we all have obligations to our families, friends and work. We do live A life ouside of thoughts don't we?
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Posted by circe
on 2008-07-21 00:50:07
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I have no idea what provoked this rant, but I'm with circe - you ARE a treasure! I hope your lovely ruffled feathers will be smooth again soon! xx
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Posted by BootLady
on 2008-07-21 07:48:17
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I also ranted a few days ago and you would not believe the backlash I took bc of it. It was my rant and others took offense. So maybe I'll think before I rant next time...NOT!!!
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2008-07-21 09:13:48
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I wont name any names of those who i refer, I haven't had a rant for a while and it felt good to get it off my chest, but before i went away for many personal reasons that i am sure you are all aware of things got a little weird round here, and yes the word 'clique' has been bandied around for a few months, and i was one of those who probably ignored its exsistence because it didn't effect me, but i notice one or two people who have a falling out with one person (no one in particular just and example) and i see them being left out in the cold with no readers etc and feel that is a little unfair, I am not refering to myself as i am fairly independant on here, i have many friends, some closer than others and it doesn't particularly bother me if i get read or not, i haven't written much to be read in the past month or so, but and big but coming :p when i do hear that i am being shunned because i haven't had the time to read others blogs then i get pretty pissed off about it,not because i want to be popular but because its a symptom of the main problem here! yes there will always be the popular gang, and no i don't think that there is a ring leader but things on this site seem to have gotten more and more unfriendly and i don't think it makes the place look good, i admit this may be just my opinion, and maybe i should have ranted when others came to me for advice about it, but all i can really say is, like TRH said in a recent post, GO AND READ NEW BLOGS, NOT JUST THE POPULAR ONES, READ AND WELCOME NEWBIES, DON'T READ A POST PURELY COS YOUR FRIENDS ARE, READ WHAT YOU WANT TO AND MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS, THIS ISNT A SCHOOL PLAYGROUND, GO FIND SOMETHING FANTASTIC TO READ, GIVE SOME ADVICE, BUT ALL IN ALL, GIVE NEW PEOPLE A CHANCE AND DON'T FALL OUT WITH A PERSON JUST ON THE WORD OF ANOTHERS GRIPE!
One of the things that enspired me to blog and to write was the ability to say what i wanted about what i wanted and to be whatever i was in the mood to be, but if we are going to resort to this 'sheeplike' behaviour like a bunch of kids then no one will ever stand a chance here will they?
thank you guys for your kind words, and i sincerely hope i have the time very soon to catch up with all your blogs, i miss this place more than you probably know....well actually i'd say alot of you probably do undertand why this place is so adictive lol but anyway, my connection isnt great at the moment so i cant get on as often as i'd like to but its getting to a point where its more than my personal home problems that are keeping me away and i really don't want it to get that far as you guys are great and i think we just need to make a wee bit of effort to get this place to the wonderful friendly place it used to be xxx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-21 11:36:41
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good blog your make a valid point... honestly you do. i think alot of the problem though with reading new blogs is that we all make our rounds with what time we have on out computers and are caught up in so many different peoples lives. some need us more than others. just like in person people here will drift apart to only come back later to see why they driften and fast become chums again.
but you wrote a great blog it is good to let stuff out. I comend you.
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Posted by DouglasMB
on 2008-07-21 12:55:55
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I am sorry people have been giving you a hard time. I try and find new people to read. And I think Douglas has a point. I go down my list of friends and then sometimes there isn't enough time to find new people. And it should be a clique. This isn't freaking high school. Its just a blog site.
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Posted by Faith
on 2008-07-21 16:35:36
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I agree that it's probably pretty difficult for new users to understand. If they go to Popular Posts it tends to be the same people and it took me a while to understand how it works. I hope you get back to enjoying blogging for the sake of it as I believe a lot of people have a lot of time for you. Good luck with everything.
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Posted by overthehillandfar...
on 2008-07-21 16:48:55
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Welcome back! I'm sorry about the stress related to this site, but things will return to normal. Hope that you and your family are much better. :)
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Posted by BunnieMarie
on 2008-07-21 18:10:30
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Don't worry about the people bitching at you. Post when you like and read the blogs that you like. The rest aren't all that important anyway, are they?
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Posted by Pauligan
on 2008-07-21 21:19:35
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you are all right, i shouldn't worry, and its not like anyone is bitching to my face lol
I used to go through my friends reading blogs then my bookmarks, and it is impossible to keep on top of all the blogs, which is why i think its just nice once in a while to read through the new posts, take no notice of the name of the writer just look for a title that interests you, meet new people, and also when you comment on a newbies post you are directing them to you and your blog thus leading them to your regulars and your friends and so on and so on, i will admit i haven't had the chance to keep up with everyone recently,but i still feel bad about it, and i'm just cross that people don't have the guts to tell me that they are offended that i havent read them lately, oh i don't know lol
thanks everyone mwahh xxx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-22 06:35:35
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Write on...
meanwhile I am going to take time to read all your previous blogs
Have a great day
Hugs
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Posted by 1221dol0306
on 2008-07-22 10:26:07
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Thanks Dol, hugs to you too x
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-22 19:41:18
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ITs cool KB, i'm not leaving, just ranting lol, i don't mean to worry anyone, thanks for being so nice xx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-23 07:43:27
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missmarie, my angel... f*ck em. I'm sorry but they're not worth the ground they stand on if they can't find enough compassion to understand a person's circumstances. My list of friends is growing and it's hard to get round everyone, so I find the best way is to give someone a shout on email etc if I really need their help, and I'd expect them to shout me in the same way if they need me. My friends do just that, your lovely self included, we look after each other in a different way than simply commenting on blogs. I do read new blogs and hunt down the subjects I'm interested in. I never go to 'most popular' for the reason that it's always the same folk or the explicit blogs (yeah, yeah, I know!).
I pray I never let any of my good friends on here down. friendship here means more than in so-called 'real life'... people don't tend to judge on apprearance only here and take time to get to know you better first.
I love thoughts, but at the same time I can sense the winds of change. As it grows it weakens, which is a shame.
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Posted by tantrictouch
on 2008-07-23 19:04:17
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awesome rant Z, and look I got a mention in the comments!! wooo hoo!! there are spells when it seems noone reads me and you know what it pisses me off, but I write, so keep writting screw the cry babies who cant write unless they get your comments, they aint writters anyway:p
Love ya Z
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Posted by tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-07-24 10:02:13
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awww you guys, thanks tantric and tonyray, i love you both xxx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-24 10:45:41
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hey missmarie ... don't mind them. and i hope to see more of you and your writings. :D
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Posted by DreamingOfBruxelles
on 2008-07-24 11:39:14
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thanks hon, i'm working on mysteryman part 5 right now thanks to Tonyray, watch this space :)
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-24 13:47:13
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Hey missmarie!! i'm soooooo sorry i havent been checking you lately, my thoughts and prayers are always with you.
I really hope everything is okay, if you ever need to talk and rant to someone you know where to find me :) i really hope everything is okay *Hugs*
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Posted by pixierose
on 2008-07-25 14:31:41
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oh pixie honey, i wasnt complaining about you or any of my friends to be honest, i know you are a busy bee and we don't have time to keep on top of everyone's posts, i was just moaning ahout those who make it a mission not to read certain peoples blog, and i don't care about those people, i just care about my friends hon, pleaase don't be soooo sorry hon, i love ya xxx mwahh xxx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2008-07-25 15:01:21
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Finally I've got to the bottom of the comments :) Wow you are so loved.
Its a shame people forget blogging should be about what they write, and how it makes THEM feel... not necessarily what everybody else thinks of their work.
I hope you stay, and I hope you just blog it out. Especially if it helps you.
*hugs*
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-07-25 19:36:53
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Girl, you can complain, wirte poems, say something all in CAPS - whatever it maybe. Let this place be a bloggin center to get away from the outside world. Hey if you cuss, so what. If your sarcastic, so what and so on! Dont leave, continue | | | |
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