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ppl suck.
yea, i'm pissed. i'm really PISSED!!!
no one practices compassion anymore. there's a woman out here that's about to have her kids removed permanently and not one of you has anything to say about it! it's like the whole world is living in the ghetto. with all your "i'm not saying anything." "i read the previous blogs but i'm gonna act like i didn't hear anything." "i'm glad it's not me."
hell, i can't even get a "you suck."?
what ever happened to those days when we saw someone in a bad situation, we helped out the best we could? unless your saying your too incompetent to help. shame on you! yall suck! karma's really gonna suck for all of you, isn't it?
i wonder if any of you know what it's like to be beat, raped and sodomized for 7 years? then divorced? having no proof of the events cuz you were terrified of him killing you? so they run your name through the mud just cuz they can? what if through the next years, all he does is torture your kids when it his parenting time? what would you do if your kids were to come home every other weekend saying horrible things that was said about you? threats of your kids being taken away? abusing your kids while they were there? ripping them up by their hair? slapping them all around? what if your kids constantly came home with bruises and bite marks? dirty? starving?
oh! you would do something about it, would you? you would go to the proper ppl to get help huh? think again!!! this woman did all this. everyone, cops, protective services, judges, lawyers, all of them did nothing!!!
children's lives are at stake and yall just sit around like nothing is wrong. no advice to give? no help to offer?
pathetic!
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Posted by misslissa on 2008-07-19 10:19:44 | Rating: | Views: 76
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I do know what your saying to an extent. A girl here the age of 14 was left by her crack head mother. This leaving her with her abusive father. The grandmother keeps this girl about half the time. Her grandmother had no advice for her after the girl told of her father punching her in the face among other things.
My daughter went with her to the "proper" people at the school and she (being very scared to tell and nothing being done) told the guidance councler. The school reported the problems to the police that did nothing! The grandmother wanting full custody of this girl was also able to get nothing done.
What advice is there to give? When the 'proper people' are informed and choose to ignore the problems? What is anyone to do?
I open my doors to troubled teens all the time. They are welcome to stay and get away from whatever they feel they need to get away from. I don't know what else anyone is to do.
This world is messed up on so many levels! Parenting, education, laws, child abuse and that of spouses, care or lack of for the elderly, people who have their lives tore apart by natural happenings and the list just goes on and on.
I think we are in a time when people are so confused in what direction to move to bring any kind of change they are at a stand still growing numb to real people, problems and pain.
All I know to do is pray for the people you've mentioned.
Do you know these people personally? If so my only thought on what could maybe be done is for the woman to go to an abused womans shelter with her kids. It would be a good place to find some kind of help. They would also start keeping a paper trail on things she has to tell. Maybe with a place such as this reporting things it wouldn't be so easily blown off. I really hope and pray for these people!
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Posted by anotherdaze
on 2008-07-19 10:49:55
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thank you for the advice. it is much appreciated! i have also seen problems like yours. there are really no "grandparent rights" in most states. so, it becomes alil harder for them.
your deffinately right about the world being messed up. i blame the system, starting with the schools. they train these kids that everything can be tossed up into two catagories. physical abuse and sexual abuse. it's getting to the point where we can't even hug are kids anymore for the fear of the child screaming abuse.
then cps backs it up. while their behind-the-scene intentions are to collect grant money from the government to place the child in foster care. they collect this grant when said child is adopted. over half the cps workers here don't even have kids and can't relate to the situations that we deal with on a day-to-day basis. then, on top of it all, they support the schools when preaching about child abuse.
then when you really have lagitamate cases like yours and mine, they do nothing! it's backwards! so, they encourage the kids to make false accusations but to keep the reality of real abuse stiffled, quieted!
yes, i do know her. she is my sister. she has proof of a lot that's gone on over these last 9 years. she just doesn't have proof from before when she was married to him. she was too scared that if she did report him that he would come back to kill her. battered woman's disease is a real thing.
she did go into a shelter 9 years ago. it worked and she did get the help then but in court when she pleaded for her children's safety in front of a judge, the ex-husband "showed concern" (fake concern), the judge gave then joint custody. her having physical custody. so, now that it's on a court document stating joint, no one will do anything.
i thank you again for your advice. it really is much appreciated. thank you for keeping her in your prayers. as will i with your teenage friend's situation. i'm sure we both agree that something has got to be done.
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Posted by misslissa
on 2008-07-20 10:03:26
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It sickens me the system does seem to work backwards in so many cases. They have made tv shows with your sisters story plot. That must mean this has happened more than a few times before. Have you searched the internet for any kind of help?
I hate hearing about this kind of thing and many others because I feel so powerless to help. Like I said before there is so much wrong with our systems it keeps every one confused and most without a direction to fight in. It's easier to turn a blind eye when you feel you can do nothing.
I understand with this hitting so close to home for you, you can't turn that blind eye. It must be horrid to have to be in this situation! My heart breaks for you and all involved!
Once again I will continue to pray. Also I think it wouldn't hurt a thing for you to get online and fill out online forms for more prayer request.
I think when we get to a place we can do nothing God is ready in the wings. He doesn't want us to fix everything. He wants us to bring it all to Him. When a situation can't be fixed by us He knows it will all be turned around to His Glory. He also knows really well how to turn bad things into good somehow. Even if it's going to be to place a fire in these kids hearts for other troubled kids later in life.
I'm not saying at all that God creates evil to do this. We do that ourselves. He just finds a way to make good out of what was ment to destroy us. I hope thats not too preachy.
I'm going through alot with my teen daughter right now wanting to turn to the world and run from everyone that loves her. It's hard to know you can't get through to them and you know where it's likely to lead. I'd be better off myself to know in the moments of heat everything that I just told you. It's hard to apply when your blinded by pain.
God Bless you all!
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Posted by anotherdaze
on 2008-07-21 07:45:24
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i don't think your being too preachy at all. sometimes when things like this happen, we forget, with all the stress and pain, to let God handle things. thank you for reminding us! :)
and please don't feel helpless or powerless. prayers are more stronger than any advice that anyone can give.
thank you sooo much for your prayers and God bless you too!!
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Posted by misslissa
on 2008-07-21 11:03:10
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