boys are sooo confusing... i dont understand y they always think they hold the key to EVERY problem u have... now i have a great boyfriend dont get me wrong...but sometimes i just wish her would not be soo lovie dovie...i mean its great sometimes but i dint want him to DO everything little thing for me.. i mean i managed before him i think i can do it now. Our lates fight is about his mother.... now let me tell you sbout her..
Her name is Kathy..she beleives that if she keeps her son under her arm he isnt gonna do any wrong...well ihate to tell her this BUT he already has...She is VERY VERY overproctective... i mean she calls him like 10 to 15 times when we are out doin something together...and he has to be home at midnight..which sucks bc i dont have a curfew anymore...now we both are 19 years old both have jobs and he goes to school 5 days a week and works....
he is VERY responisible even more responisible than me sometimes but she still wants him to be home at midnight.
i dont get it...do u? he is only ALLOWED to see me on saturdays and sundays are the days that he HAS to spend with her...and im serious... last weekend i had to work and babysit so he didnt get to see me on saturday..so we thought maybe she would let us see each other on sunday..but OMG she threw the biggest fit about that..so we didnt see each other that day at all...
She treats him like he is 2 years old and it drives me insane... and he acts like its ok sometimes..it just worries me that she is going to be the reason i breal up with him...and i honestly love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life...but i do not think i can put up with her...if u could meet her and see the way she acts around me u would understand... He dont believe me but when ever he leaves the room or im alone with her she gives me dirty looks..its kinda like an annoying little kid that jus picks at u for the fun of it... lol
*SIGH* jus dont kno wat do...
Posted by minnie2007 on 2007-11-07 14:01:15 | Rating: | Views: 67
Mums are like this.
No matter how old he is, to her he is still 'Her Baby' - nothing you can do there.
Some mums like to control.
Take it as a challenge, but nicelly. He's grown up now and he should go out when he wants to - and not nesseccerilly when it suits his mom's plans either.
Do your own thing - but be dyplomatic too.